Pluck the blooming flowers, and don't wait until the flowers are empty. Someone once said that true love should give freedom to the other person, like a flower, it should be allowed to grow freely on the branches.
However, how can the things you really love fall into the hands of others?Rather than watching it being picked by others, it is better to cherish its short flowering period and let its beauty bloom in our lives.
Flowers are like this, and so are people. If you really like someone, how can you be willing to let him throw into the arms of others?People always learn not to cherish, and always hurt those who should be cherished in the name of "letting go".
Cherish the people in front of you", this is a truth that everyone knows, but not everyone can do it. In our short lives, we have missed out on people to cherish.
It turns out that washing dishes is not only a housework, it is also a bridge to maintain family harmony.
At the end of a tiring day at work, being able to come home and see the steaming hot dinner prepared by his wife is probably the happiest moment for everyone. In the bland dinner, there is a warm family atmosphere, which is probably the ideal life in everyone's heart.
However, nothing in the world can appear in a vacuum. There's no magic in keeping your home clean and tidy, and the hot dishes on the dinner table don't come out of nowhere.
Every family has a person who needs to do the housework. In most modern families, both husband and wife are working, so the wife has to cook and clean when she comes home from work.
However, when the husband gives the dishwashing job to his wife under the pretext that "I am too tired after a day at work", a conflict arises. Everyone is already tired after work, and the person who goes home first needs to prepare the family's dinner, as if washing and cooking is not a tiring thing.
Therefore, we need to understand the sharing of housework, so that the family is harmonious, and everyone can enjoy the warmth of home after a busy work.
Housework is actually a kind of giving, and it is true that cooking is more than washing dishes. But the real question is not who does more of the housework, but whether both parties have equal status in the family.
With the development of society, more and more people want to have their own careers, and starting a family is not for one person to do all the housework. A home is built and run by two people, and if all the housework is done by one person, he may feel lonely and unsatisfied.
Therefore, the meaning of washing dishes after a meal is to tell your partner that the home belongs to two people, and everyone has the responsibility and obligation to maintain it together.
The small matter of washing dishes reflects not only the understanding and respect for the partner, but also the shared responsibility of the family. A man who is willing to take the initiative to wash the dishes after dinner, he understands that the things at home need to be shared by both parties, not just personal fatigue.
Bi Shumin once said that men and women are just as tired as they are, but when it comes to sharing household chores, it is often difficult to tell who does more. However, all people really want is a "sharing", and even though it may seem simple, it can make your partner feel that you care and are willing to share.
A friend had an enviable relationship with someone who couldn't cook, not because she didn't know how to do it, but because she was lazy. Of all the friends who take care of the family and prepare dinner for her boyfriend, she seems out of place because she is willing to take the initiative to share the household chores.
He always prepares a delicious meal at the end of a tiring day and waits for her return. She never entered his kitchen, nor did she wash his dishes. He never complained, never even had the intention of asking her to help.
However, their relationship eventually broke down because she was completely unaware at the time that the man who was willing to do her laundry and cook was something she should cherish. It wasn't until much later that she realized how happy she was then.
In fact, such an ending is not unexpected. Her boyfriend must have loved her deeply and was reluctant to let her be tired, but her boyfriend never thought she would be able to contribute anything to their home.
Housework is to make the two's home more cozy, and her friend never seems to have this kind of thought and understanding. She just felt that she didn't have to do anything, and her boyfriend was willing to spoil her like her father, but she never thought that her boyfriend didn't have such an obligation.
Cherish the people in front of you and know how to be grateful is the source of happiness, no one in this world takes care of a person for granted, no one is born to do laundry and cook for another person, and no one is born to clean the house.
In all harmonious families, there is no quarrel and the relationship is harmonious, and there is one thing in common, that is, they know how to be grateful and give in this family relationship.
Laundry and cooking, sweeping and mopping, washing dishes and wiping the table, they will have a division of labor, this division of labor is not necessarily equal, maybe one person always does more than the other, but when they do these chores, they will do it with a grateful attitude, regardless of the weight.
If a person doesn't know how to do housework at all, she is also willing to learn and wash dishes, which also makes their life full of happiness and joy.
Chinese have a subtle and restrained way of expressing emotions, they usually do not easily say their love, only in the early stage of love will directly express the word "love".
However, as the feelings deepened, the word became more difficult to say. Therefore, Chinese are more accustomed to expressing love through actions. Even if you are exhausted, as long as you can build a small family with your loved ones, all the fatigue will disappear.
Men and women who are willing to wash dishes shows that they are willing to put in the effort for the family relationship.
The management of any relationship needs to be felt and expressed with the heart. Let the other person know that you understand and support, and also let the other person know that you are working the relationship.
This kind of relationship will be easier and more comfortable. Life is short, it is not easy to meet a person worth cherishing, let us cherish the person in front of us, and cherish it.