Some elderly people in life have a lot of pensions, but their retirement life is very miserable.
1.When you remarry, the economy is controlled by your remarried wife.
My father's colleague, Mr. Zhu, was a geography teacher before he retired, and his retirement salary was more than 8,000 yuan, but he finally died in a rental house, no one took care of him.
Mr. Zhu passed away 15 years ago due to illness. After his death, Mr. Zhu felt very lonely alone, and he wanted to find a wife. Later, he found a wife in the marriage market.
This woman is probably more than ten years younger than him, and her appearance is okay. At the beginning, Mr. Su was very satisfied, because this woman was younger than his original wife, and she was very diligent, and the cooking was delicious, and Mr. Zhu was very satisfied.
Two months later, I went to get a marriage certificate.
At the beginning, Mr. Zhu's daughter-in-law still lived with them.
Gradually, there was a contradiction. They live on the ground floor with a yard.
Later a house, separated from it. The daughter-in-law's family walked through the unit door.
Mr. Zhu and his remarried lover opened a door from the courtyard on the first floor, and one house was divided into two.
Eat each and every one eats their own without interfering with each other.
Later, I heard that Mr. Zhu had moved away and was no longer living in the compound. It turned out to be his remarried lover, who sold the house and rented a house elsewhere.
Later, I heard that the reason why Mr. Zhu remarried and his lover sold the house was because she had cancer and sold the house for treatment.
Later, someone saw Mr. Zhu in the urban village and asked him how do you live here?
Teacher Su looked miserable. It turned out that after his remarried lover sold his house, he spent a lot of money on treatment, and they rented a house elsewhere.
His salary card was also taken by his lover. The rented house did not let him live in the same place, and he rented a separate bungalow for him.
Mr. Zhu's house was sold by his remarried wife, and his salary card was taken by his remarried wife, who gave him a little living expenses every month.
Mr. Zhu had such a miserable life, some curious people asked why he didn't get divorced?
His former colleagues said how dare he divorce? If he asked for a divorce, his remarried wife's son would have to beat him to death.
In other words, even if he finds out that he has been deceived into marriage, he can't help it, and he can't divorce if he wants to.
Mr. Zhu's children did not have much income, his own salary card was taken away, the house was sold, and he had nothing.
In the past, the relationship with his children was also very stiff because he remarried his wife, and the children didn't care about him.
Later, I heard that if he asked for a quilt from his remarried wife, he would be beaten by his stepson.
Some time ago, when I heard that Mr. Zhu had passed away, his remarried wife came to the school to report the funeral.
There is an employee at the school who has passed away, and an obituary must be published.
In the end, the obituary was also torn up by his remarried wife.
How much enmity is this? He is still treated like this when he is dead.
Therefore, if the elderly remarry, they must understand the details of the other party clearly, and if they don't understand the other party's personality, they really can't easily put their wealth and life on one person.
2.I have a pension and have never done housework in my life.
The old man who can't cook in his life will also have a miserable life if his wife dies in his old age.
Every time I go back to my parents' house, I see an aunt sitting by the garbage heap picking up garbage, and there is a pile of garbage around him.
The back is stiff, like a beggar for food.
In fact, this aunt's retirement salary is quite high, and her children work very well.
But this aunt has never cooked in her life, and when his lover was alive before, he used to eat like a lover, and then his lover died.
She never did housework in her life, never cooked, and couldn't do any housework. If he lives with his daughter-in-law, his daughter-in-law will definitely not be able to stand her.
So she lived alone. She doesn't know how to cook. His son ordered takeout for him, and every day the takeaway brother would come to deliver it to him.
When the food sent was cold, he ate it cold, and he ate it hot.
In fact, this aunt's retirement salary is quite high, and if she had arranged it herself, she could have lived a very happy life, but she had lived herself like a begging old man.
Every day, I pick up garbage in the garbage heap in rags, don't cook food or boil water, and drink tap water directly in the summer.
Including the morning of her daughter-in-law, she was still rummaging through the garbage heap, and went to the restaurant when it was time to eat.
Do you think such a daughter-in-law can like her? He had grandchildren and granddaughters, and he never saw his grandchildren come to see her. People who don't know him think he's a lonely old man.
Whether you are a gay man or a lesbian, you must learn to do housework. We can also live well without the other half, and don't think that it is happiness to not do housework for the rest of our lives.