Yafang Education is an institution focusing on family education, providing personalized family education guidance and consulting services to parents. A family education program will be tailored to the specific circumstances of each family and child. This includes an in-depth understanding of the child's personality, hobbies, learning status, behavior habits, etc., as well as in-depth communication with parents, and helps parents better guide and accompany their children's growth through personalized customized solutions and hand-in-hand guidance.
When a child expresses a reluctance to go to school, as parents, we can take the following steps to communicate effectively with your child: find a quiet, relaxed environment, choose a time when your child is in a calmer mood to talk, let your child know that you are willing to listen to him, and do not blame him for not wanting to go to school.
Ask your child why he doesn't want to go to school and listen patiently to his reasons, which may be due to academic pressure, interpersonal problems, discomfort in the school environment, physical fatigue, etc. Whatever the reason, show understanding and acceptance.
Yafang education case, my child doesn't want to go to school, how can I communicate with him
Sympathize with his feelings about not wanting to go to school, such as: "I know you find it hard to go to school right now, and if I were having the same difficulties, I might have similar thoughts." "This brings him closer to him and makes him feel accepted. At the same time, point out the importance of going to school, but avoid overly abstract general principles, and start with concrete examples, such as sharing your learning experience and explaining the benefits that learning can bring him, such as increasing knowledge, expanding horizons, making friends, etc. You can also discuss future career plans, so that children can understand the impact of their current learning on their future lives.
In response to the problems raised by the child, together with the solution. If the study pressure is too high, you can ask the teacher to adjust the learning method and reduce the pressure appropriately; If it is a relationship problem, teach him how to deal with interpersonal relationships; If you are struggling with a certain course, you may want to consider asking for tutoring.
Even if the problem is temporarily alleviated after communication, it is necessary to continue to pay attention to the child's learning status and emotional changes, adjust the education methods and strategies in a timely manner, and give necessary support and encouragement. The most important thing is that parents should treat their children with equality and respect, so that they know that no matter when and where, home is their most solid backing, and they can always ask parents for help if they have any problems.