There is such an opinion on the Internet: "When people are old, their parents are gone, and their siblings are broken." ”
There are many reasons for the severance of diplomatic relations, probably because they live in different cities, the uneven distribution of large families, the partiality of parents, and the uneven wealth of small families.
As the saying goes, "When a man is about to die, his words are good." ”
When a person reaches the twilight of life, he will find that all the contradictions are meaningless, just hurt himself and show a joke to outsiders. Therefore, while people are still alive, they should be relieved.
A group of gray-haired old people, when they talk about the past, in addition to nostalgia, they are more "sad" - ten fingers are connected to the heart, and they are always the same.
Every time we meet, it may be life and death, and goodbye is also the next life.
How long is life? It's just between opening and closing your eyes.
As soon as you open your eyes, you close your eyes, and you will open your eyes again in the coming day, which is one day; Once you close your eyes, if you don't open your eyes in the future, it's a lifetime.
Many elderly people, when they feel that their time is short, will take the initiative to find the closest person to meet. The first choice for siblings.
No matter how wonderful life is, there must always be a decent goodbye to the world.
For a while, the picture of an "84-year-old man seriously ill and 94-year-old sister visiting, and the live conversation was tearful" became popular on the Internet.
In Qingshan Town, Pu'an, Guizhou, the 84-year-old brother was seriously ill in bed, and the 94-year-old sister rushed to hear the news, took her brother's hand, and said, "I'm here to see you; What are you going to eat and not to eat? Whatever you want to eat, I'll give it to you.
My brother was so sick that he couldn't speak. Only the tears in his eyes prove the friendship of this life.
Many young people say, "Letting go is love." ”
But for people in their seventies and eighties, letting go is a lifetime, how can they be willing to give it? How can you put it down? Even if you say it on the lips, the destiny of heaven cannot be violated, and it is unacceptable in your heart.
Many siblings are like this: when they are together, they quarrel endlessly; It's really time to part, but there are 10,000 reluctances, and all kinds of unbearable.
Try your best to bring out the best food in your house and serve everyone. In the countryside, a pumpkin, a cabbage, and an egg are all precious. After all, it's a very important meal in life.
After meeting, I didn't dare to say easily: "We'll meet again another day, and I'll find you next time." "Because the coming day is not long, everyone knows it.
Every time I recall, there is the shadow of my parents, and my son wants to raise but does not wait for my relatives.
I've seen a story.
Deng Xuegui, a Taiwanese veteran in his nineties, returned to his hometown in Luoqiao Town, Hunan, and shouted "Mom," but no one responded. The brothers are also separated by yin and yang. He stood in front of his parents' graves and cried like a child.
We often look at things and think about people.Get together with your closest people, have a meal, drink a glass of wine, and go to the grave of your parents to have a stick of incense. There must be mixed feelings in my heart.
Behold, the tree I planted in the first place. ”
I was naughty, and my father picked up a broom and chased me.
When I was a child, my siblings ate at the same table, rushing to eat everything and relish it. When people get old, they sit around and eat together, and there will be a lot of pictures in their memories. But when it comes to parents, I always feel that I owe too much.
Nowadays, the living conditions are better, and the children are living happily, but the parents have not enjoyed it, regrets, regrets.
Every conversation has ups and downs, and the taste of life is too uncomfortable.
Always talk about life, study when you were a child, start a business when you grow up, the joys and sorrows after marriage, and the grievances in middle age. In his sixties, he is still traveling on the road. The taste of life becomes a heavy mood.
I am a post-70s generation who lived in the mountains when I was a child.
When I was in junior high school, my mother fed pigs, raised cattle, and farmed, and got up early every day to stay up late, but she still worried about tuition fees. Therefore, my mother said: "If you are admitted to the technical secondary school, you will continue to study, and if you can't pass the exam, you will go to work." ”
In order to study, my brother and I went to the mountains to chop firewood and sell it to a nearby factory. The shoulders were worn out, and they didn't dare to squeak.
When I graduated from junior high school, I went to secondary school, but my brother dropped out.
On my first day at secondary school, my brother took me to the station. I didn't dare to look back, afraid to see my brother's lost appearance, worried that my heart would collapse.
Hey, life is too difficult, so why bother each other.
No one's life is perfect. Looking back, it must be emotional and sad. Siblings are contemporaries and are therefore more empathetic.Isn't all the noise because "life is too hard"? It's noisy enough, and in the end, it's clear from inside and outside, and it's okay to help, or to help, I can't bear it.
Every group photo has a special meaning, perhaps the final "family photo".
Everyone has a family photo in their home. And, behind **, there is a different meaning.
Many years ago, my grandfather took the initiative to hit ** and invited his siblings and juniors to the house for a reunion dinner. After the meal, we found out that Grandpa had also invited Master Wang from the photo studio.
Click, leave a family photo.
Just when everyone was talking and laughing, Grandpa said: "It may be the last family photo." ”
At that time, my grandfather had cancer and had difficulty walking. His words silenced everyone.
If you observe carefully, you will always find some ** in the family, who will be missing today, and who will be missing tomorrow. Or the people in **, walking and walking, disappearing.
People are rare in their seventies. How many more opportunities do you have to play with your brothers and sisters and take photos together. Perhaps, with a click, the feelings of a lifetime are frozen. The next time you take a photo, the family photo will be "mutilated".
Singer Dick Cowboy sang: "How much love can come back, how many people are willing to wait, when they know how to cherish and come back, but I don't know if that love will still be there." ”Wine, if stored for a long time, will be more fragrant; Love, getting older, will be more valuable.
There are some truths, don't understand it too late. When we are young, we have to understand it well.
When brothers and sisters get along, no matter how big the contradiction, they must understand that this is "our business", and don't always distinguish between "you and me".
Breaking off relationships, refusing to help, pinching each other, and fighting for their parents' property, in the end, will make people feel gloomy, and there is really no need.
When people are old, how can there be a knot that can't be opened, but they just can't let go.
Bloodline is precious, and it should be cherished.