1. Before the divorce, try to have both children living with one of the parties.
Many parties will choose to separate before divorce, at this time, if you want to fight for custody of the two children, you must keep living with the two children. This is because the court's priority in determining custody is to keep the child's current living status intact. For example, if both children were living with the mother before the divorce, but the father was not living together, the judge would decide that it would be more appropriate to give custody of both children to the woman.
2. Let your child express his or her wishes.
The latest law stipulates that you can express your wishes to the court when you are at least 8 years old, so the current practice is that the judge will ask the child as the final custody decision. Therefore, it is particularly important to make children willing to live together.
3. Prepare evidence that it is more beneficial for the child's growth to bring the child by himself.
For example, the two children have been taken care of by themselves since they were young, and their parents are helping to take care of the children every day, and they are far superior to each other in terms of education level, income level, and physical health.
4. Collect evidence that the other party is at fault.
If the other party has domestic violence, alcoholism, smoking, cheating, etc., collect these evidences as evidence that the other party is not suitable to raise children.
5. Actively negotiate with the other party.
In many of my cases, custody of 2 children was obtained through negotiation and mediation. To put it simply, it is to exchange for conditions, such as material benefits - houses, cars, deposits; Or give the other party a relaxed frequency of visits in exchange for the custody of 2 children, such as 2 days a week, half of the winter and summer vacations, and the two sides of the New Year in turn, etc.