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The banner of feminism has been held high for so many years, but there are still some women who lack the correct view of love and morality.
They do not establish stable, long-term relationships with men, but are willing to be "lovers" who do not see the light, and are not ashamed of it, but proud of it. Some women even use being "lovers" as a means of making a living and completely betray themselves.
These women, who have become "lovers" either actively or passively, often have these three "commonalities", and I hope you can be vigilant and not let yourself accidentally go down the wrong path.
01: Love comes first
Women who are "lovers" are not all for money, and some women do not feel ashamed after being "lovers", just because they think they are romantic, because they are for "love".
This type of woman is above love, and usually regards love as extremely important, even the most important thing in life.
They believe in the power of love and believe that all moral norms should make way for love. They don't care if the relationship is healthy, if it's moral, if anyone gets hurt because of it.
Their concept of love itself is wrong, love is not the sword of Shang Fang, and immoral love is not worthy of praise, not to mention that there will be innocent people who will be injured because of their so-called "love".
They choose to be "lovers" and enjoy a short but passionate "love". They chase love, but they lose their conscience and bottom line.
02: Greedy for vanity
The status of "lover" does not bring respect to women, but men would rather pursue them at the risk of the world's condemnation and maintain illicit relationships with them, which greatly satisfies their vanity.
Some women choose to be a "lover", not because she cares about the relationship or how much she loves the man. She just fell in love with the feeling of being pursued.
They are very concerned about the evaluation and attention of the outside world and want to be the center of attention in the eyes of others. They crave to be pursued and pampered by men as a way to satisfy their vanity.
Becoming a "lover" tends to receive special attention and pampering from men, which makes them feel satisfied and proud. They love to be held in the palm of their hands and enjoy and experience a short and exciting sweet time.
But they forget that men like the new and hate the old. The moment when the man succeeds, it is also the beginning of the fall of grace of these "lovers".
03: Get it for nothing
Becoming a "lover" tends to bring more short-term benefits, such as money, fame, and material comforts.
Many times, a woman who is a "lover" just wants to get material wealth from a man without putting in too much effort.
They are accustomed to relying on men to meet their needs and are not willing to pay for it, and they are not willing to face or take on the responsibilities and difficulties of long-term relationships. Therefore, they choose to be "lovers", enjoying the acquisition of resources and benefits, without thinking about and taking the risks and responsibilities associated with them.
They themselves know that it is difficult to be a "lover" for a long time, so they only seek the present, not the future. They exchanged their youth for a few years of struggle, but they didn't know that all the gifts were secretly marked**.
They may get what they want, but they are doomed to lose their dignity, their personality and even their lives.
Being a "lover" is a woman's choice, and they have the freedom to choose. It's just that after they make an immoral choice, they must also be prepared to bear the consequences.
There are some mistakes in life that can be remedied, but there are also some choices that are difficult to get back on track once they are wrong.
I hope that every woman will not be blinded by the lies and flashiness in front of her in the face of such a **, and pursue her love and life in a down-to-earth manner, which is a life road with the best scenery.
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