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People say that women are forty tofu dregs.
Although this is a joke, it is very abrupt and offensive, which makes people feel uncomfortable.
Yang Xiaohui once wrote in the article: Middle-aged should not be the natural enemy of women, because middle-aged people have the charm and scene of middle-aged.
Don't think that you are old, don't think that you have lost your competitiveness, in fact, it is not age that makes middle-aged women waste, but 5 signs of inner appearance, which are very accurate.
01: I think I can lie flat
We have all experienced the vicissitudes of the times, and in today's ever-changing world, everyone is running day and night, and if you don't advance, you will retreat.
If you think you've reached middle age, you've achieved something, and you can rest in peace for the rest of your life, you're very wrong.
When others have exhausted their best efforts, you choose to be decadent, which is equivalent to actively giving up the dominance, which means losing a lot of opportunities in the future.
When the gap widens, you will unconsciously feel remorse and frustration, and this negative emotion will occupy your body and mind and make you unable to calm down.
Many people have left the big city to pursue their dreams and choose to go back to their hometowns to lie down, but they have not fulfilled their wishes, but they do not adapt to this monotonous and peaceful life.
This is also the reason why more people feel tired, but still do not want to lie down.
02: Self-perceived rapid aging
Although middle-aged women are no longer young, they will never age quickly.
Yes, we can't resist growing old, but we can't give up on ourselves.
Many middle-aged women are still working hard to fight aging, they are neither anxious nor self-abandoning, and they delay the speed of aging through maintenance, fitness, healthy eating, going to bed early and waking up early.
From the faces of women who think they are irreparable, we see a kind of decadence, a kind of regret, they essentially do not want to see themselves grow old, but they are always unable to act for one reason or another, and only wander in regret and helplessness, at a loss.
There is a chance to make amends for anything, the key is whether you have the courage, the confidence, and put it into practice.
The same is true when it comes to anti-aging.
At the very least, we retain a belief that is enough to make a person radiant.
03: I don't think I'm healthy anymore
Health is bound to go downhill with age, but, on our own, we can definitely make this slope smaller.
Everyone should pay attention to health, have regular physical examinations, have a normal work and rest, and pay attention to their diet.
Many women ignore these because they are forced by life, exhausted, and always ignore the pain and discomfort.
They think that there are more important things to do at the moment, but they forget that physical health is the foundation of everything, and we must pay attention to it.
Moreover, adjusting our high emotions and maintaining an objective attitude can make us physically and mentally healthy enough to cope with life's challenges.
04: I don't think I'm being favored
People have experienced a lot, and naturally look down on the gains and losses, and finally realize that they are just one of the many living beings, and they have never been favored by God.
It's a loss that everybody has, and we have to allow ourselves to have that emotion sometimes.
However, after a while, or after a night, we still have to catch up and not lose hope in life.
In fact, think about it another way, every tribulation is an opportunity to mature, which has created us who are now calm and persistent, and allowed us to achieve our current achievements.
Even if we are not favored by God, we will at least become a richer us in our experience, with a stable mentality, and will not suffer from gains and losses; Ambitious, not decadent, this kind of tenacity is enough to resist all the setbacks in the world.
05: I think I've lost hope
We all lose our direction in the face of adversity, feel that life is vast, and we don't know how to work hard.
When a person is confused and disappointed, he will always feel that he has no hope, no courage and no motivation.
Of course, this is the only way for all people, looking back on the past, every desperate situation is what I thought was a desperate situation at the time, and it was only through the past that we have become what we are now.
Therefore, it is not that there is no hope in life, but that we are blinded by loss.
Trying to stand up in the midst of struggle, trying to hold on in the midst of adversity, we will see the dawn of hope, which is a strength that is enough to ignite the fire in our hearts.
If we don't have a goal, we can set our own goals, even if it is practicing a word or reading a book, we can touch the ideal boundary in exploration.
Middle-aged women are not outcasts of society, but indispensable characters in the composition of this colorful world.
We must not belittle ourselves because of ill-intentioned judgments from the outside world, let alone allow these voices to enter our own heads.
Everyone has their own uniqueness, and the goal of our life is to find these shining points, and carry them forward and let ourselves shine.
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