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Life is like a shuttle, in the blink of an eye, I have reached middle age, from the hustle and bustle to the clean, after many twists and turns, and finally chose a quieter lifestyle.
We have all been in various relationships, seeking opportunities and possibilities, however, as time passes, many of us have discovered what our hearts really want, so we gradually drift away and return to peace in our lives.
Such an unsociable middle-aged person, a person who is not confused by not having a single friend around him, is really not simple.
01: Get used to being alone and grow inward
After the age of 40, I gradually understood that the essence of many things is only my own wisdom and choice, and I have nothing to do with others.
The excitement of the past only represents the pleasure of that time, and it is enough for people to really feel satisfied and happy, and it is not a rational expectation to look forward to it for a long time.
True growth and metamorphosis is actually just inward growth, often in moments of solitude, which is a kind of inner abundance and self-sufficiency, which can be thought, examined, reviewed, and planned to the fullest.
All the future path becomes clear at this time, all the enthusiastic hearts become clear at this time, and this kind of life is the only way for people to be truly loyal to their hearts and deeply understand their needs and desires.
Paying attention to one's inner world is not only to re-understand oneself, but also to calmly judge one's surroundings.
Because I magnify myself, I understand what kind of mentality I want to get now, then the willingness to really start being myself and fight for my heart's desires will become more tenacious and unstoppable.
02: Stay away from the hustle and bustle and live quietly
As people reach middle age, many fame, fortune and status have become less important, and they want to find peace and tranquility.
Any illusory name is an obstacle that interferes with our peaceful life, and only by letting go and despising them can we stay away from impetuousness and live a quiet life.
That's why all the people at the wine table will eventually get bored, and all the opportunities to get close to nature can make people relax.
Frequent gatherings, confidants, it seems to be relaxing, but in fact, they are all full of caution, for fear that one will accidentally make others misunderstand or angry.
What's more, talking about ideals and ambitions makes the heart that could have been without asking about the world be brought up again, and it is nervous.
When we enter the natural environment, we find that everything in life is given by our utilitarian mind, and only living in relaxation is the gift of nature and the foundation.
At this time, a small flower on the side of the street is also so vigorous and vivid, and we finally take off our guard and sleepiness and appreciate what real life is.
03: Be alone and enjoy yourself
Being in a group, it is inevitable that you will be influenced by others and change the trajectory of your life intentionally or unintentionally.
Even if it is not to cater to others, I will always look at myself again and again because of the other person's advice, and then make adjustments.
Gradually, we seem to have lost the direction of our lives, and we don't know where to go, so we can only continue to seek help from others.
As people reach middle age, the desire to rediscover themselves becomes stronger, so we begin to accept the benefits of being alone and pursue a life of self-pleasure.
The matter of cooperating with others is called "politeness" when you are young, but when your energy decreases, time is pressed, and your goals are clear, you will have fewer worries, and focusing on yourself and pleasing yourself will become a clearer goal.
This is a kind of progress, and being willing to take the initiative to let go of some things and take the initiative to embrace some things is the beginning of people's enlightenment.
In this process, we will encounter criticism and doubts from the outside world, but that is no longer important, only when we fully appreciate ourselves is to learn to enjoy ourselves.
Life is the process of moving from hustle and bustle to loneliness, it is difficult to not lose one's heart when it is busy, and it is very simple to pick up one's heart when it is quiet.
Even if the friends around you are gradually moving away, you will never doubt yourself, but enjoy peace and comfort alone, this kind of life is the real wisdom of life, is the real peace with the situation.
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