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I saw a question being discussed on the Internet: How much does it cost to spend an ordinary person who is seriously ill?
There are all kinds of opinions on the Internet, some advocate doing whatever it takes for the sake of family affection; Some people think that if a major surgery does not save lives, it should be conservative**; Some advocate being conservative from the start**; Some people even advocate self-...... for serious illness
Let me also share my thoughts on this issue.
Honestly, that's a really hard question to answer.
I think, first of all, that the concept of a serious illness should be confirmed.
If the serious illness is not terminal, spending money can save life, and the survival period is very long, such as more than ten years or decades, then, in this case, whether rich or poor, any family should devote all its financial resources, even if it spends its own money and then borrows some foreign debts, it is worth it. After all, family affection is hard to give up, after all, life is above all else.
If the serious illness is terminal, such as lung cancer, liver cancer, blood cancer, stomach cancer, etc., then consult a doctor to determine how to deal with it.
If the doctor says that the value is very great, and the patient's surgery or other means** can have a good effect, such as a longer survival period and a better life condition, then the family can devote all financial resources, and even it is necessary to borrow money to treat the disease.
If the doctor tells the family that the illness of the relatives is already very serious, even if a huge amount of money is spent on surgery **or other methods**, and then the survival period of the relatives is very short, and the quality of survival is very low, then, of course, the wealthy families who are not bad at all can choose to spend a lot of money actively**, and the families of the middle and low-income classes can choose to be conservative**, give their relatives some medicine uninterruptedly, alleviate their pain, be considerate and caring in life, and let their relatives enjoy the last life period. Of course, there is helplessness because of lack of money, but when you think about it, having money is just a short time to live, and you don't have to blame yourself. Patients are also generally sympathetic to family members doing so.
So, some families know that their relatives' illness is very serious, even if they spend a lot of money** will still survive for a short time, but they still choose to spend all their family savings, or even sell their houses and borrow money for their relatives**, how about this?
First of all, the relatives who can do this are very touching, and their behavior is understandable, but after doing so, the relatives may still die within a short period of time, such as a few months, half a year, or a year, but other relatives will have to bear the difficulties caused by spending huge sums of money and high debts for many years. This is something that needs to be seriously considered by fellow relatives who have made such a choice.
Often, some low- and middle-income families have been suffering from mental torture in the process of spending huge sums of money to treat their terminally ill relatives, and even great conflicts will occur between family members.
Once, there was a couple in Shanghai, married for more than ten years, the husband and wife relationship is very good, but later, the wife suffered from a terminal illness, only the early ** cost 200,000 yuan, and then, the husband spent hundreds of thousands of yuan on the wife, but the cost still did not stop, the wife asked the husband to sell the house, raise foreign debts for himself, the husband suddenly disappeared, and soon after, the wife received a divorce complaint from the husband. This husband's approach seems ruthless, but it also makes people understand his helplessness and despair. Reality is powerful and cruel, and this husband's surrender to reality does not seem so shameful.
When ordinary people get seriously ill, how much money do they have to spend to be appropriate, there is no fixed answer to this question. However, there is a principle, that is, try to spend money to let your relatives survive for a long time, and try to care for and comfort your relatives, but you don't necessarily have to choose to spend all your savings, sell your house, and raise foreign debts to save your relatives.
Friends, do you think my opinion is right?
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The author is a senior Chinese teacher, a writer, and engaged in literary creationIn the past few years, he has published literary worksFor the rest of the articles, he is the author of two small ** and poetry collections.