Hello, I'm Xiaoqian.
Life is like the cycle of the four seasons, there is a certain law.
Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, and the cycle repeats. If not, there will be a cycle of cause and effect.
Whether you're lucky or unlucky, there are plenty of signs and beginnings.
If you look closely, you will find that there is a reason why a person does not live a good life.
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At a hot pot restaurant, a waiter accidentally rubbed a customer next to him, leaving a little grease stain on his clothes.
After that, the waiter immediately apologized, and the customer did not comply.
So, the waiter asked the manager on duty to apologize, and later the boss also came forward and promised to give him a free order and wash his clothes.
If there is an invoice for the purchase of clothes, the corresponding compensation can be provided.
However, the customer just refused to give up, screamed and scolded, and asked the boss to fire the waiter, or asked the waiter to pay her 20,000 yuan.
As a result, this scene was seen by the customer's customer, who lost a big order and stopped cooperating with him in the future.
Everyone, an ordinary person, has times when they make mistakes.
When others make mistakes, don't just vent your emotions, but actively negotiate to solve the problem.
Even if you are upset, stay calm. Blaming others too much, being too angry won't help.
Turgenev said: "He who does not tolerate others does not deserve to be tolerated by others." ”Learn to be tolerant of others and learn to understand others.
Being too harsh can make a bad impression on others and can make things worse.
If you are unforgiving, you will often make countless enemies and be hated by others.
Lin Yiyang in "Blizzard Hour" is young and frivolous, thinking that he can win everyone.
During the game, he disobeyed the referee and wantonly contradicted others.
He couldn't accept the referee's decision to him, so he directly chose to retire and no longer play.
This walk is eleven years.
He went abroad to study, took the postgraduate examination, and walked a completely different path than before.
If it weren't for Yin Guo, he would have regained the courage to return to the arena and never play again in his life, and not being able to win the championship would have become his lifelong regret.
I was very relieved at the time, but it would affect my life afterwards.
Lin Yiyang is glad that he can return to the ring. However, not everything in life has a chance to turn back.
Zeng Guofan said: "There is room for not talking, there is no way to do things, and there is no afterglow for love." ”When dealing with people, it is inevitable that they will be wronged, or when they get angry or angry, they will even want to destroy everything.
Don't talk too harshly, don't do things too badly, there is no place in the world to sell regret medicine. In the end, it was yourself who was hurt.
Without a big-picture view, without a long-term vision, without thinking about the future, and being too impulsive, you will only make yourself pay for your mistakes in the end.
A person has a bad life, mostly because he has to get by without any planning.
Marie Curie said: "Opportunity never patronizes the unprepared, the weak sit back and wait for the opportunity, and the strong create the opportunity." ”If you have no plan, no goal in life, and live your life into countless pieces, you will not be able to connect them into a successful future.
Some people are busy and working hard every day, but they don't make much progress, and they don't know what they want.
Even, get used to getting by, and everyone will do the same. See what others do, and follow suit.
However, after a long time, you will find that it is not your own field of expertise, and you cannot integrate it, and you can only "follow the example of Dongshi". Losing confidence in yourself, life ahead is getting worse and worse.
If you don't know how to plan your life, you don't have small goals, you don't have big ideals, you can do whatever you think, and your whole life is a mess.
If you want to change the status quo, you have to have a clear understanding of yourself. Formulate your own path and achieve your goals little by little, so that you can counterattack.
Only by setting goals and plans, and constantly surpassing and challenging can we make self-breakthroughs.
People who have achieved fame and fame also started from nothing at the beginning, starting from scratch.
They have self-confidence and know how to plan their lives.
Know how to manage good relationships, form good relationships, and do not form hatred.
On the road of life, manage your life well.
Cultivate a strong heart and a tolerant and generous mind. Accumulating more good thoughts, planting more seeds of happiness, and reaping more good luck.
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Xiao Qian: A writer who loves words, loves words, and codes words for ten years. In his spare time, he will meet friends with words. For the rest of my life, with you by my side, life will be steaming.