When I was a child, my family was a very ordinary family, so when I was growing up, it was always full of restrictions.
For example, if I want to go to McDonald's to eat a burger, I tell my mom that I want to eat this, and my mom will say, "It's expensive and nutritious, why eat it, my family is not rich in the first place."
I finally waited until my birthday to convince my mom and promised me to buy it, and I would also pick a **cheapest burger, at that time I was thinking about when I would be like other people's children, I could eat when I wanted to eat what I liked, without paying attention**.
This became a small dream for a long time when I was a child, that is, when I could achieve financial freedom.
Looking back now, I just loved to eat at that time, and I didn't really have any concept of money itself, the only concept of money is that I often prayed when my parents would be paid more, and when my family would have good luck and suddenly earn a sum of money.
Earning money was like this in my eyes when I was a child, it was a very metaphysical thing, whoever had money was their luck, my family didn't have so much money, it was my family's bad luck, and it was completely resigned to fate.
At that time, I felt that making money had nothing to do with people themselvesAs long as you pin your money on hope and sudden luck.
Not only in my eyes, but now I feel that the matter of "making money" seems to be the same in the eyes of my parents at that time, and in the eyes of my relatives in my hometown.
One day in my second year of high school, I was lying in bed thinking about life, thinking about why this society is always so unfair, some people are so rich and lucky, and some people are so unlucky.
But when I think about it, is it really just luck? I suddenly realized that I didn't do anything, even if I had good luck, it couldn't bring me wealth, even if I won the lottery, I had to buy it myself, but I didn't even bother to buy it.
I've also often seen readers send me similar messages:
Why is it that some people have so good luck and always have various opportunities to hit them, and why is mine so unlucky ยป.
This also made me realize that everyone will always have the same troubles at the same time.
But did you notice?
Almost all of us are afraid of running out of money, but what kind of life are we all living, that is, we are worried that our lives will become poor, and we are looking forward to the day when we can suddenly become rich, but we have never thought of taking the initiative to change our current situation to try.
Of course, everyone may also be afraid of making mistakes, but what the cup wants to tell you isMaking mistakes is actually a good thing in itself.
If we don't make mistakes, we won't move forward, and because we make mistakes, we have more opportunities, and if we don't let ourselves make mistakes, our path will only get narrower and narrower.
When you're worried about making mistakes, you're already stuck in the circle you're in.
It's not scary to make mistakes, it's a sign that you're cultivating new territory, and you won't make mistakes only when you're stagnant, which is something really scary.
And if you don't take the initiative to explore and make mistakes, you can't talk about luck.
I used to be puzzled by a question.
That is, we all know that "money" is very important, and we can't live without money all our lives, but why, such an important thing, no one has ever taught us anything related to money in our education from childhood to adulthood?
For example, what do you think about money? What is the right view of money? No one taught us how to make money.
What's even more confusing is that when we were asked what our dreams were when we were children at school, you could say that you would become a doctor, a scientist, or an astronaut, but if you said that your dream was to make money, you would be laughed at by everyone.
It's sad that we've grown upBut every day is running for "money" and "survival".
Also, have you ever thought about it, is it that we can't believe too much in the superficial phenomena of this society?
Most of the people who think may not be right, there may be a lot of temptations on the surface of this society, and moving forward according to the laws of society will not actually achieve your goals.
Or so to speakThat's itWhat is really good for us, this society will not tell you directly, you can only find out for yourself.
For example, the school will only teach you how to get a job and how to become a qualified screw, but it will not teach you how to achieve financial freedom.
If you go forward according to the mechanism of society, go to school, and find a job, you may only be able to become an ordinary person, because the goal of social training may be to train you to be an ordinary person, to train you into a job, a job, not to train you to earn a lot of money.
Of course you can enjoy the job, and that's fine, but I also want you to think about it and think about what you really like.
No one in this cruel society will tell you this, you have to find out for yourself, so you have to make yourself smart and be able to take the initiative to be aware of these things, especially when it comes to "money".
I don't mean anything else by saying this today, just to let everyone understand that when you are young, you must think about what your goal is, whether you want to make a lot of money, or whether you really like a certain lifestyle.
Be sure to act for your own goals, rather than unthinkingly conforming to what this society has arranged for you.
Of course, it doesn't mean that you have to immediately reverse the current state, when a person is confused and doesn't know where to go, maybe conforming to society is the best solution for yourself at the moment.
But first you have to plant a seed in your heart, you can choose the right time to make a move, you can also be satisfied with your current state, but you need to understand it.
Also, you must learn more about money in ordinary times, because this society will not teach you how to manage and treat your money, but will only advocate how you spend it.
Also, it's not as hard as you might think.