Where has the time gone? Before you can enjoy being young, you will be old.
I always think that the coming day will be long; As everyone knows, when I look back, half a life has passed.
It seems like a long life, but it is just between opening and closing your eyes. It's like a sketch line: "If you close your eyes and don't open them, this life will pass." ”
In the second half of life, don't live in a daze, let go of others, and let go of yourself.
Don't care, forget it.
When we were children, we often fell.
When you fall, see if there are any adults around, and if there are adults, cry a few times, and the adults immediately run over, pull a hand, or pick them up. If there is no one around, then don't cry and get up on your own.
Anyway, it doesn't take long to forget about the fall and smile brightly. I didn't even dry my tears, I just laughed.
When we grow up, we always sigh for a long time, and a little bit of bad things makes us irritable for a long time.
The writer Yishu said: "Be a man to be subtle, get by, don't have to worry about it, the water is clear and there are no fish, people are pure and there are no disciples, who doesn't follow anyone for a lifetime, some things are counted in your heart." ”It is true that apart from life and death, there is nothing worth caring about in life. What is there that is worth thinking about for a lifetime? How many people will accompany you for a lifetime?
I like this passage very much: ".The back wave pushes the front wave, and the front wave is very unhappy and says, why should you be higher than me? Hou Lang said, this is a matter of one moment, the next moment, you will be higher than me, and in the end, we all have to return to the water
Because others are promoted and rich, you are not happy; Because of social injustice, you are very uncomfortable. If you're going to care, there's not a few days of time to be happy all year round.
Don't say how much money you have, don't ask how high your position is, ask how many years you can live, and you're relieved.
In the days to come, be a joyful person.
If someone accidentally splashes muddy water on you, you smile and say, "It's okay," and the other person will appreciate you. If a child crosses the street and you take the initiative to hold hands, the child will smile at you; There is an old man who is staggering and walking, don't be in a hurry, wait a minute, let it go, and the old man will give you a thumbs up; Someone calculates you, you know, smile at the other party, and the other party will be weak and bow their heads.
Forget it", nothing is light.
No explanation, silence.
I have seen such a story: Hu Wenchuan, a carpenter in Tushan Township, Changfeng County, Anhui Province, was 30 years old when he suddenly heard someone shouting "Someone has fallen into the water". His heart tightened, because his naughty son liked to play by the pond.
Sure enough, several children fell into the pond.
He paddled hard at his son, but there were several children around him. In one breath, he pulled four children ashore, but the sons were nowhere to be found.
The wife blamed him, why didn't he hold on to his son? The people in the village didn't understand him, so why didn't they save their son first? The elders can't accept him, why is that?
He was speechless, his head bowed, and he couldn't stop crying.
Many years later, someone praised him: we saw a simple soul, he is a good person, a good person may shed tears, be sad, and be lonely and helpless, but a good person will always be the soul of this world.What else can be said? Great love knows no bounds, and good deeds have no path. A lot of things are inexplicable. As long as you are worthy of your conscience, you are doing the right thing.
Confucius said: "People do not know and are not ashamed, and they are not gentlemen." ”If others don't understand you, don't be angry, this is a gentleman. If you try to explain and make it clear, you're going to get into a war of words.
There are times when we don't have time to think about it and do it right away. I don't know if it's right or wrong, but I have to do it. Not everything can be done in a hurry, so it is inevitable to make mistakes, and it is common to make mistakes.
But over time, we will see the truth of the matter and be able to understand a person's behavior. It can't be fake, it can't be fake. True and false, in the end, you need to be relieved.
Someone misunderstands you, someone slanders you, someone pokes you in the back, someone hates you, as long as you keep silent and don't accept it, all kinds of gossip will become meaningless.
You have to believe that the person who really loves you, even if you quarrel with you many times, will still accompany you to the end. With that, that's enough.
Don't force it, admit defeat.
Writer Qiao Qiao wrote such a story: An ordinary person who lives in the countryside likes to collect firewood when he is a child, so he has been praised by his school and parents.
After that, he regarded the matter of collecting firewood as a major event and never stopped. When he was in his fifties, he climbed a pine tree and broke off the dead branches, but he couldn't get down, and a villager happened to pass by and put him down.
When he was sixty-nine years old, he was collecting firewood in the mountains when he encountered rolling stones and was covered in bruises.
The ancients said: "Forty is not confused, fifty is to know the destiny of heaven, sixty is obedient, seventy is to do what the heart wants." ”People have to serve the old, and they can't always think of themselves as young men.
In the second half of life, people are going downhill, even if you can still be a late bloomer, you must adjust yourself appropriately according to your physical condition, rather than blindly tossing.
In real life, there are always some people who are "pulled up", but then they can't get down.
You grit your teeth and insist on going uphill, which is worthy of admiration, but your behavior of forcing a certain ending and blindly ascending is not worthy of admiration.
People, don't take risks at will, learn to retreat, it is not necessarily a bad thing.
Life sometimes forces you, hand over power, give up pursuit, and even have to give up your loved ones, you can't do everything as you want, learning to give up is a compulsory course. If you throw in the towel, it's as easy as cleaning up your computer's junk.
Or it can be understood in this way, learning to admit defeat is actually to retreat into advance, so that people have another beginning in life.
In the second half of life, every step is a way back.
High-pitched and excited, this is a matter of a moment, a place of chicken feathers is a common thing, the years are quiet, it is a lifelong pursuit.
After experiencing prosperity, seeing the spring flowers and autumn moons, tasting bitterness and sweetness, the days to come, will return to the usual and simple.
Don't care, forget it, it's really relieved.
No explanation, silence, leave everything to time.
Don't force it, admit defeat, take a step back and open the sky.
Looking into the distance, the mountains and rivers are still beautiful, and looking at the near place, life can be calm.
May the years be unharmed, and may you and I be safe.