01Do what you say.
We live in this world and deal with all kinds of people. In this life, we will meet many people, some quiet, some lively, some positive and some negative.
But no matter what kind of person you are, we need to know that it is not easy for us to connect with others.
We should be honored if we can gain the trust of others.
Because we know that there are too many hypocritical people in this world. They may be doing what they are doing on the surface, but behind the scenes they don't know what they are calculating.
If we can have a pure friendship or love, then we must cherish it.
Because there are too many lies and deception in this world, this hard-won friendship is a small probability.
What we say must be action.
Therefore, this requires us to speak in a measured manner, and not always make promises to others.
When we make promises to others, we must also practice them seriously.
For example, there are people nowadays who always promise their significant other what they will do for them in the future, but they never keep their promises.
It's easy to get a verbal pleasure, but it's extremely difficult to act.
If you can't do such a thing, why do you deceive other people's feelings three times and twice?
02Don't talk empty words.
We must be down-to-earth in what we do, and don't always do something inexplicable.
We always like to say things that are unrealistic, which makes it easy for others to feel disgusted with us.
Because from our own thinking, we don't like to be around someone who always likes to talk empty words.
In fact, sometimes we don't just speak openly to others, we even say some illusory things to ourselves.
For example, we promise to study hard tomorrow, but when we face the difficulty of waking up early, our hearts begin to waver again.
We always have a plan that we think we will follow, but we don't. Aren't we talking to ourselves about ourselves?
Before we say these words, we must measure how much we are capable and what the effect of our actions is.
If we can't do these things, then please don't say it casually.
You are deceiving others as well as yourself, and the results you end up with are definitely not good.
If you deceive someone, they may believe you once or twice, but then what?
If you want to win the trust of others in the future, it is a very difficult thing, and you must understand that we are very lucky to be trusted by others.
03 Treat everyone equally.
In our society, many of us will always measure the place of others in our own hearts by their interests.
We will always think that those who are not valuable to us are not worth making friends.
In fact, our idea of making friends is not pure, and in it we participate in impurities such as status and money.
An emotion needs to be transparent, and when we add more and more things to it, we will find that this emotion can no longer be called an emotion.
Our connection seems more like a transaction.
So a lot of times we don't get too careful, don't always think that we have lost something in this benefit. Sometimes we give a little more, we give a little more, and it doesn't matter. Thinking too much can make you too tired.
We might as well find more meaningful things for ourselves to make ourselves happier.
Therefore, our feelings for ourselves must not go against our original intention.
Don't add too much to your feelings, let's make our feelings more pure.
04Don't always show off your skills.
Sometimes we want to be a reliable person, not just by our own mouth.
We also have to take practical actions in action, and we cannot win the complete trust of others by convincing others with our mouths alone.
For example, when a boy pursues a girl, they will always talk about what skills they have and what kind of life they can give each other. So will the girl fully believe him?
In fact, if it were us, we wouldn't be able to convince ourselves.
Therefore, if you want to be reliable, you must try to let yourself talk less empty words and do more practical things.
It's useless for you to brag about yourself, how much money you can make, and how happy a life you can make the other party live.
If you do something in real life that can make the other person feel your sense of responsibility and superiority, then the other person is likely to be impressed by you.
So do more valuable things, and less fiction based on your own imagination.
Only by taking concrete actions can we have better results.