01 Your goals are not clear.
In fact, when we look closely, we will find that many of us, including ourselves, choose to be passive when we accomplish something.
If we don't have someone to call us on or someone else to direct us, we don't know how to act.
Even after we have set our own goals, we are always hesitant to act.
At this time, we should ask ourselves, are your inner thoughts really firm?
In fact, many times we are reluctant to act because we don't know what we want to do.
Sometimes, even when we act, we are in a state of going with the flow.
Why not set yourself a clear goal?
Our lives are so exciting, and there are so many things waiting for us to discover.
Let's not always be distracted by something around us.
Don't let other people's rhythms disturb our own rhythm, we have to have our own goals in everything we do.
In fact, when we accomplish a lot of things, we always complain because we ourselves are the most miserable people in the world.
But we don't know that there are many people in this world who are going through a lot of things, and even going through some worse things than us.
02 Not confident enough.
In fact, there are many people who are reluctant to act, not because they are lazy, but also because they are not confident enough.
Because they don't want to believe that they have the ability to do such a difficult thing.
In fact, we ourselves are like this many times, and we are reluctant to act because we are afraid of being ridiculed by others.
If we don't act, we can make excuses, saying that it's not because we don't want to succeed, but because we haven't acted.
It's just our own psychology of convincing ourselves that we don't want to look embarrassed in front of others. So a lot of times we are too narcissistic, we always think about how important our face is, and we don't think about some practical problems.
Self-esteem is naturally important, but if we have the opportunity to improve our abilities, aren't we making ourselves more dignified?
Even if we fail, it's just our own business, and we shouldn't care too much about what others think of us.
Because even if we fail, only we know how valuable the experience we gain from it is.
Therefore, we should not always care about the evaluation of others in many things, we should measure ourselves more according to our own situation, and whether we should complete that task.
03 Fear of hardship.
In our real life, there are indeed some people who do not act because they are not confident.
But there are also some people who are just used to a loose life.
They always like to live in their comfort zone because they don't like to suffer.
The process of working hard can indeed make our bodies a little uncomfortable.
We can't live so carefree, and our bodies can't be so free to enjoy life.
But we need to know that if we want to have a better life and become stronger, we need to go through such a difficult process.
Pursuing something in our hearts can really make us tired sometimes, but it's even more unimaginable if we lose our purpose in life.
The most fearful thing we live in this world is to lose our spiritual support, because we don't know what the reason for living is. So a lot of times we have to thank ourselves because we're lucky that we know what we're going to do.
We also want to thank ourselves for the hard work, because we are not simple, so we can continue to enjoy a different life.
So don't be afraid to endure hardship, in fact, suffering is often a necessary path to a better life.
04Convince yourself to act.
We always set a lot of goals, but it's hard to act.
These goals are not because we forget, but because we can't convince ourselves.
Just as we are preparing to take an exam, we write down a series of plans with confidence.
But by the next day, we had no idea what we were going to do, and these goals seemed to weigh on us like a heavy mountain.
Because until we make an effort, we are likely to be in a relaxed state of life.
Who wants to go from a life of freedom to a life of shackles everywhere?
We know that if we choose the path of hard work, those happy and easy lives will be far away from us.
If the life we have to live can be beautiful, why do we impose so many shackles on ourselves?
So a lot of times it's hard for us to convince our hearts, and it's hard for us to really get ourselves into action.
We all know that the beautiful life we once imagined is not something that can be completed by imagination, but something that can be truly exciting.