"Koko is already able to recite the Three Character Sutra fluently! "In the family WeChat group, my mother-in-law sent dozens of ** of my son reciting the three-character scripture.
*, 5-year-old Koko recited the Sanzijing very smoothly.
I quickly replied to my mother-in-law: "It's all your good teachings!" ”
The mother-in-law quickly replied: "*It's nothing. Now Koko has known more than 3,000 words, okay, without further ado, I'm going to prepare a nutritious breakfast for him! ”
My name is Hongmei, and I work with my husband Li Hongyang in Guangzhou. Both of us are college graduates, working in Guangzhou, and there is no problem in life, but it may be a little difficult to have another child, and the education problem is also a headache, and even if we spend a lot of money, we can only let the child go to an ordinary private school here.
So, my husband and I discussed and decided to send the children back to my hometown for my mother-in-law to take with us, and give some living expenses every month.
Now it seems that this decision was the right one. Under the teaching of my mother-in-law, my son seems to have some prodigy meaning!
I excitedly said to Li Hongyang: "Our mother is really good, watching her educate our son, maybe she will become successful in the future!" ”
Li Hongyang took the bowl and said with pride on his face: "That's right, my mother is a high school Chinese teacher, and it's almost the same as teaching a little guy!" ”
Haha, then why weren't you taught back then! ”
I'm smart with our child, after all, he inherited your genes. ”
Looking at Li Hongyang's funny appearance, my heart blossomed, I reached out to hug him, and was about to make the next move, when WeChat rang again. Could it be that it was sent by my mother-in-law again?
When I opened it, it turned out to be a message from my father-in-law: "Hongmei, you take the child back quickly, don't let my grandson suffer!" ”
I didn't pay much attention to it, it's normal for grandpa to love his grandson, maybe he was distressed when he saw his mother-in-law being strict with Koko.
I hurriedly comforted my father-in-law: "It's okay Dad, Mom is for the good of the child, and if you suffer a little when you are young, it will be easier when you grow up." ”
You know what! Check it out! ”
My father-in-law just finished sending the text, and immediately sent another **. It's like **, my son Koko is standing in the yard, shaking his head, and his mouth is still muttering something. I amplified my voice, and it was clear that he was still reciting the three-character scripture. Even if his father-in-law called him, he didn't react, his expression was sluggish, and he got out of it. Idiot!
No, my son has become a fool, I need to go back immediately! "
I was so anxious, I couldn't bear to see my son like this. Li Hongyang was relatively calm, he tried to reassure me and said: "Hongmei, this ** is just a fragment, I can't see the truth." If you go back on the spur of the moment, it may backfire, and we have to deal with it calmly. ”
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So, let's split up. I'll go back and tidy up my room and ask about the school's admissions, and if it's true, we have to think about the children. ”
I listened to his advice and felt that there was some truth, after all, my son needed to have a clean and tidy place to live. I continued to ask him, "What about me?" ”
Don't you have a sister in town? Let's stay with her for a while, and don't rush back. Wait for me to see how my mother takes care of the children, and I can't let the old man carry such a big responsibility alone. ”
After listening to his arrangement, I finally calmed down. I hugged Li Hongyang and said, "You are still thoughtful, I was too impulsive just now!" ”
Don't praise me, I booked you a return ticket, you pack up and be careful on the road. ”
Good. "After a night of riding the bullet train and then changing cars, I finally arrived in town. I went to my sister's house first, and she wasn't too surprised to see me come back.
Sister, are you here to pick up your son? ”
What's wrong? My sister looked at me and said lightly: "Koko's relatives in my hometown know about it, and everyone is talking behind my back, saying that your mother-in-law forced her grandson to be like this, but no one dares to say anything more in front of you, for fear that you will misunderstand us." ”
Hearing this, my heart sank, it turned out that my relatives had already noticed it, but I was confused to this extent, I was really remorseful in my heart, and at the same time worried about my son!
My mother-in-law sent **, my son looks quite normal, reading and writing are very good! ”
My sister smiled bitterly and said: "How can you see anything in those ten seconds, or tomorrow you will follow your mother-in-law for a day, you will understand!" ”
My sister persuaded me all day, but I had to be patient. At night, I tossed and turned and couldn't sleep, and I didn't fall asleep until one or two o'clock in the morning. The next morning, my sister woke me up.
I asked in a daze, "What's wrong with being so early?" ”
Your son is already studying! My sister said excitedly.
What the?! I sat up in surprise.
I hurriedly followed my sister back to my mother-in-law's house, only to see my son reading in the yard, and occasionally mispronounced a word, and my mother-in-law severely reprimanded her.
I wanted to go in, but my sister quickly grabbed me and said, "Wait, that's not the main thing. ”
Finally, until eight o'clock in the morning, my sister hurriedly took me to the corner. Soon, the courtyard door opened, and the sound of the father-in-law and mother-in-law arguing was heard.
Why are you persecuting such a young child like this! The father-in-law questioned loudly in the courtyard, but the mother-in-law was clearly unmoved.
You know what! My son only went to a junior college back then, and it was not easy for him to come out to work, and I couldn't let my grandson repeat the same mistakes! The mother-in-law said angrily.
I listened to my mother-in-law's words, and tears flowed uncontrollably. My sister hurriedly comforted me: "Your mother-in-law is a high school teacher and has always been strict, and her son didn't study well, so now she is working her grandson!" ”
After saying that, we hurried to keep up with the pace of the mother-in-law. At the end of the day, my feet were almost falling apart. finally figured out how my son learned 3,000 words this year.
I had to go to literacy classes early during the day and English classes in the afternoon, and my son was sitting alone in the middle of the day, and I was very distressed.
Finally, in the evening, I came home in a rage and picked up my son. My son was a little confused, but when he saw that it was me, he immediately cried loudly and hugged my leg tightly: "Mom, I don't want to study anymore!" I don't want to read anymore! ”
When the mother-in-law heard this, she immediately burst into a rage: "You say again that you don't want to study!" ”
She turned her head again and looked at me viciously: "It's all you, as soon as you come back, my grandson won't want to study, what are you doing when you come back!" ”
If I don't come back, my son will be driven crazy by you! ”
I was about to leave with my son in my hands. The child hugged me tightly, afraid that I would leave him. My father-in-law watched my mother-in-law from the side and wanted to stop it, so I hugged my mother-in-law directly and asked us to leave.
We just left that home, without even our luggage. And the mother-in-law cried loudly in the back: "Give me back my grandson!" Give my grandson back! ”
A month later, our family had begun to gradually adjust to their new life in Guangzhou. Although his son, Koko, is still occasionally frightened, things have gotten much better. However, he still has a great resistance to reading, and every time he sees a book, it is like seeing a ghost.
I took him to the doctor and the doctor said it was a stress response and it would take some time to recover. So I also tried to minimize my working hours and spend more time with him.
Mom, will you be angry if I don't read? "One night, Koko saw a cram school ad on TV and suddenly hugged me and asked.
No, Koko, Mommy's most important concern is your health and happiness. ”
I don't say this to comfort him, but what I really think in my heart. In the past, I was full of expectations for my child's future, hoping that he would be successful. But after going through so much, I now only hope that my child will grow up safely, healthily and happily!
In my hometown, it is said that after I took the child, my mother-in-law's mental state was very bad, and she suddenly looked much older. She often sees children on the street and mistakes them for Koko.
It made me feel bad, but every time I asked Koko to give my grandmother a **, he was always reluctant.
Fortunately, my husband Li Hongyang is very witty, constantly persuading my mother-in-law in between, and at the same time comforting Koko. I'm lucky to have a husband like that.
Soon after, my mother-in-law called, and her voice was a little weak, "Is Koko here?" I'm afraid to scare him. ”
I hurriedly comforted, "Mom is fine, Koko is much better, are you looking for Hongyang?" ”
After such a long time, my mother-in-law still didn't take the initiative to say a few more words to me, as if she regarded me as an enemy.
No, Hongmei, I called ** for you. ”
Looking for me? ”
Hongmei, I'm sorry for you, I shouldn't have forced Koko like that! ”
Mom, don't say that, I know you're doing it for the good of Koko. ”
Mother-in-law was crying at the end of the **, "Back then, I was still teaching at school, Hongyang just took the college entrance examination, didn't do well, one night I went out drinking with my classmates, and when I came back, I asked why I taught students well, teaching him badly, saying that I was busy teaching all day long, and I didn't notice him at all, I felt sorry for Hongyang, so I wanted to make up for it, but I didn't expect it to make a mess!" ”
It turns out that there is such a story.
After a deep conversation with her mother-in-law, she seemed to let go of a lot of baggage, and her father-in-law also said that she didn't look so stubborn. Li Hongyang also apologized to her mother-in-law, and the knot between mother and son seemed to be untied.
Now, we are just waiting for Koko**, everything is going in a good direction!