Love is a very wonderful thing, sometimes, you can't force it, sometimes, it happens naturally, it has nothing to do with occupation, it has nothing to do with age, it is each other's sincerity that ignites the spark of love.
A long-distance trip has made a year-old love, and the protagonists are Huang Xiuqun, a 38-year-old female teacher, and Chen Bibo, a 65-year-old sanitation worker.
Chen Bibo and Huang Xiuqun.
How did this pair of lovers, who are 27 years apart, go from knowing each other to falling in love with each other?
On May 15, 2012, on the T146 train from Hunan to Beijing, a beautiful encounter quietly came.
Huang Xiuqun, a female teacher, was going to Beijing to attend a teaching seminar, and because the journey was long and she had to stay in Beijing for a few more days, she deliberately took a large bag with a change of clothes and daily necessities.
Huang Xiuqun carried a heavy bag and came to the sleeper compartment, because she bought the upper bunk, and it was a little difficult to enlarge the bag, so she didn't put it on several times.
Sleeper train cars.
Seeing that the passengers in the lower bunk had not yet come, Huang Xiuqun first put the big bag on the bed in the lower bunk and climbed to the upper bunk to make the bed.
After a while, she heard a man's voice: "Whose bag is on my bed?" ”
Huang Xiuqun heard the sound and looked at it, only to see a man in his 60s standing below and pointing to his bag.
Huang Xiuqun smiled and said, "I'm sorry, this is my bag, I'll take it right away." ”
She slowly climbed down from the top bunk and put her big bag on the bed, but she couldn't put it on.
Seeing this, the man said, "I'll help you." As he spoke, he took the bag in Huang Xiuqun's hand and put it on the top bunk.
Huang Xiuqun thanked him repeatedly: "Thank you, if it weren't for you, I wouldn't know what to do?" ”
The man smiled and said, "You're welcome, it's a gesture." ”
Chen Bibo. A casual move and a simple conversation opened the conversation box between the two.
Huang Xiuqun said: "Listen to the accent, you are from Yueyang!" ”
The man said, "Yes, it seems that we are fellow countrymen, I will go to Beijing to do something this time, what about you?" ”
Huang Xiuqun said: "I also went to Beijing, what a coincidence!" ”
After a long journey, what a rare thing it is to meet fellow countrymen, and the two chatted freely.
The man sighed and talked about his experience.
He made no secret of his identity, saying that his name was Chen Bibo, who was 65 years old and was currently a sanitation worker, and that he was going to Beijing to fight a lawsuit.
Maybe because Huang Xiuqun is a teacher, after listening to Chen Bibo's words, his curiosity couldn't help but be ignited, and he looked at Chen Bibo with his cheeks and listened to what he had to say.
Chen Bibo pondered for a while and talked about what happened when he was young.
Chen Bibo. Chen Bibo was married twice, and his first wife gave birth to a pair of twin sons, but unfortunately one of them died.
Later, because of emotional problems, Chen Bibo and his wife divorced.
After the divorce, his son lived with him, he was both a father and a mother, and he had a hard time, he wanted to give his son a good life, but he never had the opportunity.
Until the 90s, when the reform and opening up coincided with good policies, many people took advantage of the east wind to start a business and made a lot of money.
At that time, Chen Bibo was still eating iron rice bowls in the factory, and he didn't want to live this kind of life that could be seen at a glance, so he resigned and went to the sea to start a business and set up a ** company.
Chen Bibo has the ability, ideas, and policy support, and the business is getting bigger and bigger, and in just a few years, he has an income of hundreds of thousands.
Earning money, in order to take care of his son conveniently, and in order to have a companion to talk to, Chen Bibo found a beautiful woman who was 16 years younger than him and got married.
I have to say that he was very lucky that his wife gave birth to a pair of twins for him.
People, when things are going well, the wind blowing in your face is warm.
His career is thriving and his life is happy, this is the most proud time in Chen Bibo's life.
At that time, Chen Bibo also bought a piece of land in his hometown and built a 5-story small western-style building, equipped with a new set of furniture and electrical appliances.
For Chen Bibo, everything was so beautiful at that time, and his life was already complete.
But the good times didn't last long, and in 1993, Chen Bibo got into a lawsuit, which completely changed his life.
Chen Bibo talked about a coal business, signed a contract with the other party, and paid a deposit of 110,000 yuan in advance.
Unexpectedly, when it was time to deliver the goods, the other party lost his words and the deposit was not returned, so Chen Bibo sued the other party to the court.
Chen Bibo was reasonable, the other party naturally lost the lawsuit, and the court ruled that the other party should return the deposit, but the other party has always refused to pay on the grounds that there is no money.
Chen Bibo asked the other party for money again and again, but the other party never gave it, and he felt very helpless.
In this way, Chen Bibo has been running around for 20 years, spending a lot of energy, and the business can't go on, and the family still has three children to raise, and the family is under huge pressure.
It is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift. Chen Bibo's wife didn't want to live this kind of life, divorced him, left the children and left alone.
His career plummeted, his wife parted ways, but life went on.
In order to raise children, Chen Bibo worked as a sanitation worker, although the income is not high, he can barely make ends meet.
He worked and fought lawsuits at the same time, and the hardships of life were vividly reflected in him, and he was not crushed, saying that he would persevere.
After talking about his experience, Chen Bibo sighed again and said with a smile:"I don't regret it, it's this belief that has made me persist to this day, life, always have a little hope, don't you? ”
Huang Xiuqun nodded, with mixed feelings in his heart, but more sympathy and admiration for Chen Bibo.
Huang Xiuqun found resonance from Chen Bibo's body, why is his life not a piece of chicken feathers?
From primary school to middle school, Huang Xiuqun has been studying step by step, and was admitted to a normal school with excellent results in the college entrance examination.
After entering the university, looking at the couples on campus who joined the team in pairs, Huang Xiuqun was not envious, immersed in the ocean of literature, and read a lot of literary works.
Huang Xiuqun believes that you can't treat feelings perfunctorily, you must find a lover who is "smart", and would rather not find it than compromise.
With this kind of thinking, Huang Xiuqun had a wonderful college time.
Huang Xiuqun. After graduating, she returned to her hometown and worked as an English teacher in an elementary school.
Huang Xiuqun's lectures are eclectic and teach students according to their aptitude, which is very popular with students, and with his excellent teaching level, he can be rated as an excellent teacher every year.
Slowly, as Huang Xiuqun got older, her parents began to worry about her marriage, and friends and colleagues urged her:
"Don't be single anymore, find someone to marry. ”
"The older a girl gets, the harder it is to find, and having children in the future will be a problem. ”
Faced with the urging of relatives and friends to get married, Huang Xiuqun was overwhelmed and had to agree to go on a blind date.
Later, under the introduction of the matchmaker, Huang Xiuqun met with a man, who was also a teacher, and the two were about the same age.
The two began to date, because the family was in a hurry, and Huang Xiuqun was not disgusted with the man, and soon after, they got married.
Sometimes, the marriage of the right person may not last long, such as people drinking water, knowing their own warmth and coldness.
After marriage, Huang Xiu**'s married life is not as happy as she expected, but full of disputes and quarrels.
Huang Xiuqun and her husband are not mentally compatible, and it is very difficult to communicate.
Every time she came home after work, the two didn't talk much, except for communicating some work problems, life was a mess, and her husband would always misunderstand her, which made her feel very tired.
Home is a warm harbor, but for Huang Xiuqun, she doesn't feel warmth at all, but often feels cold.
Every time the two quarrel, they will fall into a cold war, which is not the married life that Huang Xiuqun wants.
Every time she wanted to escape, she saw the disappointed eyes of her parents, she flinched again, and she hoped that her husband would change something.
Some feelings, after time run-in, will improve, and some feelings, the longer the time, the colder they become.
In this marriage, Huang Xiuqun saw no hope, and after persisting for 6 years, she negotiated a divorce with her husband despite the opposition of her family and ended the marriage.
Many people don't understand Huang Xiuqun's approach, and she has been subject to all kinds of discussions:
"She is so old and divorced, let's see if she can find it in the future. ”
"She's too high-spirited, she'll regret it! ”
Some people, after experiencing a failed marriage, will have a sense of fear and dare not enter the marriage again.
But Huang Xiuqun is not like this, not only is she not afraid of marriage, but she knows better what kind of marriage she wants.
She believes that a good marriage is to have a common language with each other, resonate spiritually, the facial features are not important, and the three views are the same to be the scene, if she can't meet such a person, she would rather be single.
Therefore, no matter how persuasive relatives and friends are, Huang Xiuqun always adheres to his principle of choosing a mate.
Huang Xiuqun thought that she would never meet such a person again, but she didn't expect that after listening to Chen Bibo's experience, she couldn't help but feel a little touched in her heart, and a sense of intimacy arose.
When he was about to get out of the car, Huang Xiuqun proposed to exchange *** Chen Bibo was a little surprised, but still agreed.
After returning from Beijing, Huang Xiuqun returned to school and worked as usual.
It's just that after work, she often thinks about the encounter in the car and wants to know if Chen Bibo's trip to Beijing has any results.
She picked up her mobile phone and was about to call Chen Bibo, but coincidentally, Chen Bibo happened to call, and she hurriedly pressed the answer button.
The two exchanged a few words, and she asked, "How is your matter, and is there any result?" ”
Chen Bibo said disappointedly: "There is no result, and I will run in vain, but I will continue to persevere." ”
Huang Xiuqun couldn't help but feel sympathy, comforted Chen Bibo, expressed support for him, and told him not to give up, there will definitely be a good result.
Then, the two chatted for a while before reluctantly putting down **.
Later, the two often communicated with each other**, encouraging and comforting each other, and every time after the fight**, Huang Xiuqun's mood would be very happy, she hadn't felt this way for a long time.
Chen Bibo and Huang Xiuqun.
After that, every time after work, Huang Xiuqun would visit Chen Bibo, and the two had dinner together.
Over time, Huang Xiuqun had a great impression of Chen Bibo, and found that he couldn't do without Chen Bibo, so he took the initiative to confess to Chen Bibo.
Chen Bibo also said that he was very comfortable with Huang Xiuqun, but he thought that he was too old for the two to be together, and he still owed a lot of debt, and he didn't want to drag Huang Xiuqun down.
Huang Xiuqun doesn't think so, she thinks that as long as two people can talk, age is not a problem, and it is difficult to carry it together.
In order to seize his happiness, Huang Xiuqun launched a sweet offensive against Chen Bibo, and kept writing love letters to Chen Bibo and confiding in his heart:
I want to be by your side and say to you every day, "I love you, baby, be happy!" ”
I want to buy groceries and cook with you, go to and from work together, watch the sunrise, and welcome the sunset!
A love letter shot into Chen Bibo's heart like a cupid's arrow, and he felt Huang Xiuqun's strong warmth and love.
But he still didn't agree, saying that he had experienced two failed marriages, and he didn't want to go through it again, he was penniless, and he was 27 years older than Huang Xiuqun, so he couldn't give Huang Xiuqun happiness.
In the face of Chen Bibo's refusal, Huang Xiuqun did not give up, she said that she loved Chen Bibo as a person, and she didn't care about the external conditions, she just wanted to live a stable life with Chen Bibo.
Chen Bibo's long-frozen heart was completely melted by Huang Xiuqun's scorching warmth, like dead wood bursting out in spring, he agreed to Huang Xiuqun.
In order to take better care of Chen Bibo, every weekend, Huang Xiuqun would carry things to Chen Bibo's house to help him wash clothes, cook, and massage.
Chen Bibo and Huang Xiuqun.
Under Huang Xiuqun's careful care, Chen Bibo is full of smiles every day, like a spring breeze.
He is full of hope for life, he didn't expect that he would be so old and still be able to gain a love, this life is enough.
Two people who are 27 years apart can still fall in love, and they are also 65-year-old sanitation workers chased by a 38-year-old female teacher
"Is this female teacher missing a root in her brain? I actually fell in love with an old man! ”
"This old man must be very rich, and the female teacher is going for money! ”
"What did the female teacher go through? I can't think of it! ”
In fact, before they got together, they had thought that they would be talked about by many people, but they didn't expect to be blamed by so many people, and they were under a lot of pressure.
Chen Bibo and Huang Xiuqun.
The reporter interviewed Huang Xiuqun's family, Huang Xiuqun's parents resolutely disagreed with this relationship, they really couldn't accept it, and Chen Bibo was one year older than Huang Xiuqun's father, what about the generation?
Huang Xiuqun's uncle felt even more ashamed, and he even told reporters that Huang Xiuqun was with Chen Bibo for money, because Huang Xiuqun once said that she saw an IOU at Chen Bibo's house, which said that they owed Chen Bibo 2.6 million yuan.
He believes that the IOU must have been deliberately written by Chen Bibo, just to deceive Huang Xiuqun's feelings.
In order to confirm, the reporter interviewed Chen Bibo again and asked what was going on with the IOU.
Chen Bibo said that the IOU was the compensation he proposed to others when he was in a lawsuit, but others gave 110,000 yuan, and it may be because of this IOU that others thought that he had 2.6 million yuan, but in fact, he still owed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts.
The reporter could not understand how a young and promising female teacher could choose a sanitation worker who was 27 years older than herself, was not in good health, and owed tens of thousands of foreign debts?
Huang Xiuqun said that she does not regret her choice, she is in charge of her own life, no matter what others say, she wants to be with Chen Bibo, and she has to have a child for Chen Bibo.
Although Huang Xiuqun said this, some people still questioned it, saying that they would not last long, and they should not delay their lives because of impulse.
Huang Xiuqun responded to the question with his own words:
I don't care about the world's eyes, I don't be with Lao Chen because of impulse, he can give me a sense of security, we can talk, and Lao Chen is together, I am very happy every day, I believe that our marriage will last long, we are soul mates!
Seeing that Huang Xiuqun was full of confidence in marriage, Chen Bibo looked at Huang Xiuqun affectionately, and his heart was full of emotion.
Chen Bibo and Huang Xiuqun.
Huang Xiuqun proposed to go to Chen Bibo to get the certificate, but Chen Bibo did not agree immediately.
He asked Huang Xiuqun to think about it again, the two of them will get along for another year, and if they are really sure to be together, they will go to get the certificate again.
Although Huang Xiuqun's father is not optimistic about them, he said that since his daughter has thought about it, he respects his daughter's choice, he hopes that his daughter will live happily, and he does not want to ignore family affection because of this matter.
In 2014, Chen Bibo and Huang Xiuqun went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate, and whenever they held hands and walked on the road, others thought that Chen Bibo was Huang Xiuqun's father, and Chen Bibo said very happily every time: "This is my wife." ”
In 2021, Chen Bibo will be 74 years old, and under the care of Huang Xiuqun, Chen Bibo is in good spirits and radiant.
Chen Bibo and Huang Xiuqun.
Every day, they would hold hands to go grocery shopping and go home holding hands, with happy smiles on their faces.
Once they were not favored by everyone, now, they are still living happily together, hand in hand, and never abandoned.
Just like Liang Jingru's song"Courage".As sung:
Finally made this decision, I ignored what others said
As long as you're just as sure
Although I am too anxious, I am even more afraid of missing you
Love really takes courage to face gossip
As long as you look at you for sure, my love has meaning