In this fast-paced era,"Gnaw the old"This word is not new, and it has become a lingering shadow in many families. I've seen countless times adults who are still huddled in their parents' arms, facing the powerlessness and escape of life. However, do you think that only the traditional way of gnawing old is the problem? Oh dear, let me tell you, a new way of gnawing old is quietly coming, and many parents don't even know it.
Having said that, where is the root of gnawing at the old? Many times, it is because the excessive pampering of parents turns into doting. Everyone who understands that educating children needs to be both gentle and firm, so that they can learn to be independent and establish the right values. But in reality, there are always some parents who spoil their children like flowers in the greenhouse, and they can't live without their own umbrella. When they grow up, they don't want to go out to face society and find a job, but choose to stay at home and continue to gnaw at the old. That's all, if the parents are young and strong, they may be able to maintain it, but people will always get old, and the financial ability of the parents will also weaken, when the time comes, what should the family do?
The development of society and the stability of the country are inseparable from the inheritance from generation to generation. The older generation uses their experience and wisdom to nurture young people to join society and inject vitality into this society. If the younger generation only knows how to gnaw at the old, then how can this society move forward? Fortunately, many parents are now beginning to realize this and no longer indulge their children to gnaw at home. But what is worrying is that the new way of gnawing the old is more hidden, and many parents even turn a blind eye, or even willingly become their children's ATMs.
Let's talk about this so-called new type of gnawing old. The first is the so-called school-seeking gnawing of the elderly. This group of young people, ostensibly passionate about learning, claims every year that they want to get into the university of their dreams, become civil servants or pursue graduate school. If you fail, keep repeating until you reach your goal. seems to be a commendable student, but in fact hides the psychology of escaping from society. College students take public and graduate school entrance examinations, year after year, do not work and do not make money, and gnaw at home all day long. High school students, too, are actually escaping reality by repeating their studies year after year for their ideal university.
There is also an entrepreneurial type of gnawing at the old. Some young people tell their parents that if they want to start a business, they need financial support. Parents feel sorry for their children and usually support them at any cost. But the risk of starting a business is huge, and many times, not only does the business fail, but the pension that parents have worked hard to accumulate is also lost. These young people, who seem to be pursuing their dreams, are actually consuming their parents' hard-earned money.
These new gnawing old ones are all squeezing out all of their parents. They never empathize, they only know their own needs, and they are completely refined egoists. As young people, we should exercise self-discipline and establish the right values. Every step of our growth is inseparable from the dedication of our parents. When we grow up, we should repay our parents rather than continue to be a burden to them.
And for parents, habitual children are like killing children. If it is really good for children, they should learn to be independent and have their own life and career. For the new type of gnawing on the elderly, parents should be sensitive, and once discovered, they must take immediate measures, and cannot let their children continue to sink.
In this world, no one should unconditionally give to another person, even the closest one. The love of parents is great, but this love should also let the children grow up, not let them stay in place and become forever gnawing old people. Let us work together to make this society more loving and responsible, instead of blindly taking and depending. This is the way of life that each of us should pursue.