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Have you ever been ridiculed for not getting praiseworthy achievements, all because you don't work hard enough? They point fingers at others with a condescending posture, and do not even hide their arrogance at all.
The vast majority of these people are extremely confident in their abilities and have a high sense of self-superiority, and such people always live in their own world, thus losing some of the perceptual abilities that normal people have.
They will feel that they are very capable and that they will not be able to achieve the achievements of "ordinary people" in any way. is like those students in the TV series who were submissive in school, and after ten years of struggle, they have achieved high achievements.
Then he looked at why his classmates were still standing still, or why they were making such slow progress. People with such a strong sense of self-superiority can make their hearts happy by laughing at others and seeing them eat deflated.
They don't feel that their ideas are wrong, and it can be said that from the moment they have a hierarchy, they separate themselves from ordinary people.
These people believe that their success comes from their own hard work and hard work, so they will have contempt and disdain for those who have been working hard but have not reached their level.
For them, if everyone has put in the effort, why are some people still mediocre? Therefore, it is casually thought that these people are not working hard enough, and even that these people are not good at brains.
By ridiculing and sarcastically mocking others, they can be more affirmative of their abilities and achievements, thus gaining psychological satisfaction and superiority. But this kind of mentality doesn't change all at once.
They became the choice of those who were also talented in their own small circles, and they often compared their achievements and talents with each other, and people in such circles compared and admired each other.
It is very easy to exclude those who do not belong to this small circle and are a little behind. Therefore, ridiculing others for not trying hard enough can strengthen their connection and sense of belonging and give them more recognition and praise in their small circles.
In addition, in the mental state of these people, there is a fear of failure or setback. They always think that their success and achievement is due to their performance in the struggles of the past.
Therefore, if you encounter failure or frustration, you will choose to project your emotions and frustration onto others, so as to alleviate your own dissatisfaction and frustration by laughing at others.
It is worth mentioning that such people consider the unsuccess of others to be primarily their own problem.
Expressing disdain and contempt through ridicule can hinder their connection and communication with others, making them increasingly isolated in society and deprived of the support and help of others.
Everyone's life trajectory is different, and there is no need for those who are arrogant to judge others in a condescending manner, which not only shows their self-righteousness and narrow-mindedness, but also brings negative and harm to others.
In addition, those who have excessively high standards and perfectionism for themselves do not need to apply this set of norms to others, because they have extremely high standards for themselves and others because of their own wishes.
Even expect everyone to do their best to pursue their goals, and there will be a critical and sarcastic attitude towards those who do not meet their standards, such people will gradually find that the people around them will be driven away by themselves.
There are also some people who have a competitive and comparative psychology for their peers or colleagues, because they are used to comparison, so once they see that others are inferior to themselves.
Although they don't show it, they feel proud in their hearts, thinking that they have been far behind them in all aspects. But what about those who are ridiculed? They will feel inferior and frustrated.
This negative emotion can have a negative impact on an individual's mental health, leading to a decrease in self-confidence and affecting their future efforts and motivation. This kind of ridicule can lead to tension and breakdown in relationships.
The person being ridiculed may become hostile to the person who inflicted the ridicule, and the motivation for mutual trust and cooperation in the group will be affected. If a culture of ridiculing others for not working hard enough is widespread in society, then the motivation of society as a whole will decline.
People will fall into a state of negative competition instead of supporting and growing each other. Overall, never elevate your complacency by belittling others.
We should look at the level of effort of others from the perspective of tolerance and understanding, and respect everyone's life choices and values.
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