The ancients said, "If you want to live and be rich, you must work hard." ”We are never spectators of life, but directors of life, plus the role of actors.
When the kung fu arrives at home, things fall into place. Everyone understands the truth, but it is so difficult to do.
Just like the writer Liu Zhenyun said: "All things in the world can't stand scrutiny, and every scrutiny hides grievances." ”The so-called success is actually a process of running with tears. If you're going to run away, you're doomed to be eliminated.
I often tell myself, stay up, stay up for a long time, and you will have strength.
Boiling is a kind of endurance.
In ancient times, some nomadic people used to boil eagles.
They put the adult eagle somewhere and don't let it eat and don't let it sleep. After seven or eight days, the eagle becomes obedient and helps the people to hunt.
It is not difficult to imagine how seven or eight days should be spent.
Most people will think that the eagle bows its head, which is its misfortune, but they never think that they have wronged themselves and fulfilled themselves. In time, the eagle will be able to return to the skies and fly freely.
Compared with "holding your head high", "living" is more important.
To be a human being, at any time, you must have the courage to "live". From youth, "boiling" to old age, as long as you keep moving forward, without merit and hard work, at least the second half of your life will be happier.
Teeth are harder than tongue, but when a person reaches old age, he will find that his teeth have fallen out and his tongue is still fine. Because the tongue is elastic and also has stamina.
As long as you live well, you will always have the opportunity to show your skills in the future.
Boiling is accumulating energy.
Writer Liu Tong wrote about his time in high school.
When he was in his third year of high school, he felt that it was too difficult to study, so he had the idea of giving up.
In the mathematics class, the teacher organized everyone to review the course of the first year of high school. He decided to understand the course of the first year of high school, and put other things aside.
Therefore, he scored an unprecedented 90 points in the small exam, surpassing his previous results.
It was such a "little luck" that made him riveted and admitted to university.
The college entrance examination is a fate-changing moment, but many people have not survived this hurdle, and some people do not even have the opportunity to come to this hurdle.
From elementary school to junior high school and high school, it takes more than ten years, and I am worried when I think about it.
became famous in one fell swoop. Everyone looks forward to such joy, but only those who are willing to "boil" can have it.
"Boiling" is not like ants circling in a hot pot, but quieting down, studying hard, raising the thickness of life, and increasing the strength to surpass oneself.
People have potential, and only by staying up can they give full play to it.
Boiling is the ability to be humiliated.
Sima Qian, a historian of the Western Han Dynasty, inherited his father's business and recorded and studied history.
Since he was in his twenties, he went out to investigate, "traveling to the south of the river and Huai, going to Huiji, exploring the Yu cave, peeking into the nine suspicions, floating in Yuan and Hunan, and covering Wen and Si in the north, and talking about the capital of Qi and Lu."On his deathbed, his father Sima Tan said earnestly:"For the history of the Tai, I have not forgotten what I want to write. ”No matter how difficult it is, you must carry on your father's legacy and never forget your mission. Therefore, after Sima Qian was punished by the palace, he was able to focus on doing his own thing, and wrote the "Historical Records", which was called "Taishi Gong" by later generations.
The ancients said, "A soldier can be killed, but not humiliated." ”
No matter who it is, they all love face, and they all want to put gold on their faces. But many times, it backfires, and you always have to endure some shameful things and accept the lessons of failure.
How much time does it take to cover up the shame of life with the light of humanity and career achievements? How much wisdom is needed?
"Caigen Tan" has a saying: "Rebellion against poverty is a hammer for exercising heroes, and if you can be exercised by it, you will benefit physically and mentally, and if you don't exercise it, you will lose your body and mind." ”The sufferings of life are all about honing the hero's character, and if you can accept it physically and spiritually, then life will benefit, otherwise, it will be decadent.
Usually, we have to accept the misunderstanding of others, the scolding of parents, the criticism of teachers, the blame of superiors, the punishment of the unit, etc. If you have a heart of glass, it will shatter immediately and continue to decline.
Those who can "boil their heads" put away their glass hearts, have "iron hearts", and achieve themselves in humiliation.
Boiling is the best force in life.
Thousands of blows are still strong, let the southeast and northwest wind", reading the poems of the ancients, you can think of Yu Qian, the minister of the Ming Dynasty.
In the fourteenth year of orthodoxy, foreign enemies invaded Beijing, and Ming Yingzong took command of the expedition, and then was captured.
The dragons are leaderless, and the ministers are talking a lot, not knowing where to go. As a general, Yu Qian was willing to die on the battlefield and did not retreat, so he "insisted on going his own way" to protect Beijing.
It doesn't matter if you lose the battle, I'm afraid that some people will fall down.
Any kind of success must experience failure, otherwise it is not a success. In "Journey to the West", Tang Seng has been kidnapped by monsters many times, and Sun Wukong, who can make trouble in the Heavenly Palace, has also suffered many defeats. But in the end, they succeeded, and their fame will go down forever.
Life is a process of climbing over hurdles, and only after experiencing nine hundred and eighty-one difficulties can we truly reach the top.
People who start businesses often lose all their money; For those who read, there are times when they fail exams; There are times when people who work part-time are dismissed; Whoever it is, it will get sick. In the midst of difficulties, the power of "boiling" will be more prominent.
The lowest point of life is where a person begins to rise, if not, it is sitting on the ground. Believe that there are always some people, in the narrow ditches, who will still look up at the sky.
As the saying goes, "It's easy to get started, but it's hard to get started." ”Ten years can be trees, and a hundred years can be people. If you don't survive, how can you survive a hundred years?
When we were children, we were not afraid of the sky and the earth, but when we grew up, we were afraid, and we would always be brushed down at a certain level.
My life is up to me. What life is like depends on what it looks like when it is suffering.
It should be remembered that the fish that crosses the dragon gate is called a koi; A fish that drifts with the tide is called a dead fish.