2024 has just begun, the Year of the Dragon is here, the New Year is here, I believe that each of us has a small new expectation for the new year, and we all hope that 2024 can be smooth and prosperous. So how can you do it, I advise you to accumulate these eight virtues.
The first virtue, more accumulation of virtue.
Jikoude is not to talk about them behind their backs, and not to gossip about others; Don't pour cold water on others during the trough period, and speak ill words to hurt people in April; When you encounter problems, you need to criticize others, and you also need to take into account the self-esteem of others.
Always complaining, hating life, tired of everything and not talking.
Don't say cruel words that hurt your feelings, and don't say rude words.
Those who do not know how to accumulate virtue will also be harmed by the bad words of others; If you don't accumulate morality, you will be remembered, and then it will affect your work and life; If you don't accumulate virtue, you will be heard by God, which will affect your fortune.
The second virtue is to accumulate more virtues.
We must learn to appreciate others, and in the face of others' success, we must applaud and support more.
It is possible to envy, but not to be jealous.
You can worship, but you can't give up on yourself.
People who don't applaud others when they succeed are too narrow-minded. People who applaud others when they succeed have a very open life. In the face of other people's success, if you don't applaud, but blindly envy, jealousy, and hatred, envy means that you need and you want it. Not accumulating virtue will further distance you from your goal and push yourself away from success.
The third virtue, multi-fold virtue.
Life is a matter of face.
To be a person and do things, we must not only take care of our own face, but also take into account the face of others.
Face is one's appearance, appearance, and every day you have to live and work in the best state.
Face is decent, it is to give others a step down when they are embarrassed.
Those who will give face to others will have face themselves. People who don't give face to others are really faceless people. Even if you encounter something that you really can't accept, it's best not to tear your face, because you have to take into account that in the future, this world is so small, and there will be many opportunities to deal with it in the future.
The fourth virtue is to accumulate sincerity.
Chengde means honesty and trust. Be honest and trust each other when interacting with others.
Be honest, a gentleman is hard to follow, and what he promises to others must be done, otherwise don't agree easily.
Communicate with people to trust more, between husband and wife, trust each other more, you can save a lot of trouble, if it is all suspicion, it hurts feelings.
If everyone in this society is honest, then the rules and regulations of the society will not remain on the surface, but practice in all aspects of the society.
The fifth virtue is to accumulate more virtues.
Our Chinese nation has been a country of etiquette since ancient times, and we must continue to pass it on.
When dealing with parents, elders, leaders, etc., etiquette should be emphasized, and some etiquette rules are compulsory for everyone. If there is no etiquette, there is no difference between man and beast, and if there is no etiquette, then a happy family and a stable society will not exist.
It is a kind of etiquette to take the initiative to say hello when you see your elders; When you see the leader, say hello first, which will make your work smoother; Say thank you to the outside service staff, be polite, these service staff will gain a touch of warmth.
The sixth virtue, more accumulation of virtue.
This let is humble, but also a step back to open the sky.
Humility is a kind of politeness, humility is a kind of filial piety, and humility is a kind of self-consistency.
People who know how to be humble will reap the gratitude of others and reap their own happiness.
Humility is the embodiment of grace, and humility is also a kind of life wisdom. Learn to be humble, you will be humble to suffer less losses, and you will be humble to gain more concessions.
Some time ago, I watched the hot and piping hot, and the protagonist Jia Ling was asked if he had two apples, he would choose to give others the big or small ones, and Jia Ling's result was to give both, which was also one of the secrets that led to Jia Ling's success later.
The seventh virtue is the accumulation of virtue.
Understanding is mutual understanding between people, understanding is a kind of high-level communication, and understanding is also a kind of sublimation of feelings.
Treat relatives and friends, leaders and colleagues, and everyone you will meet in life, with more understanding, less coolness and more warmth; The more you understand, the less sad and the more moving; The more understanding, the less disappointment, the more sincerity.
Understand parents, gain affection and gratitude; Understand friends, harvest friendship and righteousness; Understand love, reap happiness and family.
When you encounter problems in life, don't just think about escaping, but empathize with others, and think from the perspective of others.
The eighth virtue is the virtue of accumulation.
Respecting teachers and passing on the torch is the virtue I mentioned. But the respect here is not limited to respecting teachers and morality, there are other needs in life that are worthy of our respect, such as the parents who gave birth to me and raised me, the object of warmth and love for me, and the help and leadership at work.
Those who respect others will gain the respect of others. People who never respect others do not deserve the respect of others.