In this society, a man's worth is measured by his financial resources and career; The value of a woman is measured by her appearance and family.
And I think these views are too shallow, and the most important measure of a person should be his heart.
And the soul has grades, I think the mind has four advanced grades, and whether or not you have these four grades of the mind can determine a person's life.
The first grade of the soul is awe.
Awe has multiple meanings, you should be honest in business, righteous in being friends, and sincere in boyfriend and girlfriend, which is enough to show the importance of awe.
So why is reverence so important, I think one of the important reasons is that people today lack reverence.
Because of the lack of awe, there are unscrupulous merchants; Because of the lack of awe, some friends will poke you in the back; Because of the lack of awe, some couples will face the storm of cheating;
Because of the lack of reverence, human beings destroy nature and hunt creatures, resulting in the state of the earth becoming more and more difficult ......
On the contrary, if everyone in the society is in awe of everything, honest in business, righteous in friends, and sincere in objects, then this society will be very beautiful, so I say that awe is the first grade of the soul.
A man with a sense of awe, responsible for his family, responsible for his life, and responsible for his career; A woman with a sense of awe, gentle and elegant, with an extraordinary temperament.
The second grade of the soul is kindness.
True kindness is compassion, compassion is cherished, and people with a big heart often go further and longer.
There is an old saying in ancient China, the law of the jungle is the strongest. And I think that as a strong person, eating the weak is not really strong, and being able to be kind and compassionate and help the weak is the real strong.
Each of us comes to this world, and we are born without bringing death and not taking it away, so why can't we be more merciful and kinder in life and do things? Usually, when you can do your best, you can help others more, and you can't stand in a high position to step on others.
Money is inherently worthless, and the value of money lies in the fact that you can get the goods you need by using them, just like us, maybe life is worthless, I think, the value of life is to help others, let others feel their own good, and be needed by others.
A kind man must have a happy family, a smooth job, and a high-quality circle of friends; A kind woman, then she must have great love, extraordinary bearing, and love life.
The third level of the soul is gratitude.
Only those who know how to be grateful can go further and more smoothly, and look at the heroes in the long river of history, they all know how to be grateful.
Be grateful to your parents, who are the ones who give us life, who gave birth to us and raised us. And now many people are polite to outsiders, and they change as soon as they come to their parents.
It is very bad to leave the good side for outsiders and the bad side for parents. Our parents have given us all their love, we must be grateful to them, be more filial to them, usually have more time to spend with our parents, and let our parents worry less about sadness.
Be grateful to our teachers, who selflessly imparted knowledge to us.
Teacher is the greatest profession of the 21st century, is the engineer of the human soul, each of us has been educated by teachers since I can remember, under the education of teachers, we cultivate the correct three views, rich knowledge.
Grateful to those who have helped them, everyone must have received help from some people in their lives.
For example, when I first joined the company, I met a good leader, and when I just graduated from university, I didn't know anything about the workplace, and the leader patiently taught me all the workplace skills he knew.
Without the original leader, there would not be my current achievements in work, I am very grateful to this leader, every New Year's holiday to make a **, a visit is a good way to express gratitude.
The fourth grade of the mind is tolerance.
Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. This sentence is about being tolerant of others and being strict with yourself. I think it's important to be tolerant of yourself and others.
To be tolerant of others, to consider from the perspective of others when encountering problems, and to empathize may be another way of thinking.
Be tolerant of yourself, don't get along with yourself, don't blame yourself when you encounter ups and downs and setbacks, be self-confident, and continue to encourage yourself to move forward.
We have lived in the world for just a few decades. Why be harsh on others and ourselves, be more tolerant and broad-minded, and our lives will be much smoother.
If a man does not have an open mind, he will be said to be petty, unmanly, and despised; If a woman does not have an open mind, she will often let herself fall into internal friction and may suffer from breast diseases.
The grade of the mind can determine a person's basic characteristics, and the basic characteristics of a person will affect and even determine the fate of a person's life.