With the cry of a newborn, a new life is born, and his life begins.
It is impossible to predict the future, every growth is like opening a blind box, and what people and things we encounter are beyond our control.
It is often said that "tomorrow or the accident really doesn't know which will come first".
As infants, we babble and passively perceive the world with our eyes and ears.
At that time, our joys, sorrows and sorrows were very simple, drinking a sip of milk, having a favorite toy ......Everything seems to be simple.
In early childhood, we stepped into kindergarten, which was our first step in contact with society, and it was then that we realized that not everything in life can come according to our wishes.
Even if we hate going to kindergarten, we have to cry and walk into kindergarten, and at that time our psychology is more of a fear of the unknown.
However, we cried again and again, and persevered in reluctance.
When we enter the childhood period and become a primary school student, we will find that learning is really a painful thing.
45 minutes of study, heavy homework as we get older, and quizzes from time to time, grades seem to determine everything for us, and parents are beginning to change their faces.
It's really "don't learn the filial piety of the mother and the son, and learn the chicken and the dog to jump." ”
As the higher the grade, the pressure is getting bigger and bigger, the high school entrance examination, the college entrance examination, ten years of sharpening a sword, during this time we have survived, and entering the university is the dream of many parents and students.
Even if many times it is not our dream, but the dream of our parents, we will stick to it, because our parents will often say to us: "Son, only when you are admitted to university will you have a bright future." ”
For those children who have not been admitted to college and are called scumbags, the most common thing parents say is: "Children, let's learn a technology so that we can support ourselves in the future." ”
Whether you go to college or not, there is a mountain in front of you, and this mountain is related to the future and the expectations of your parents.
Finally got through everything, we entered the society, started a family, and supported ourselves Let us see the reality of society and feel the sophistication of human feelings.
At this time, what we hear the most is: "Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared", "You must learn to persevere, endure loneliness, in order to keep the clouds open." ”
But at this time, we will find that the reality of society makes many of us very tired, because we can no longer rely on our parents to solve problems for us, nor can we be carefree as when we were children, let alone just know how to study like in school.
Because we have entered the society, we have to face more, first of all, the problem of survival, and then life.
Everyone seems to have walked very this road, always mixed with bitter and sweet, painful, lossy, surprise......These mixed emotions make our lives more complete.
Sometimes even if we are covered with bruises, we are gritting our teeth and persevering, some people are because of the character of not admitting defeat, some people have to persist for their relatives, and some people can only move forward with weight for the sake of great love.
As the saying goes: "If it weren't for life, who would want to be talented." ”
If you want to keep yourself alive, you have to persevere all the way, constantly overcome obstacles, suffer every day, and look forward to the moment when you see the rainbow.
But not all of us can get through it all, look at some of the people around us, depression, mania, ......They are more tired and lack the courage to live, and some end their lives at a young age.
The pressure of life, the unhappiness of feelings, and the incomprehension of family members ......Maybe a small thing will become a lifesaver that overwhelms the camel, and they will choose to give up and choose to escape in this way.
This is the sorrow of life, and it is also a heart-wrenching thing.
Everyone should know that everything we experience in life is what we should experience in life, the Buddha said that everything is predestined, and we are not afraid of death, but we are still afraid of living?
Maybe the person you envy will have a more tragic story than you, and maybe the person you hate will end up worse than you......Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and whose life is not a chicken feather.
Facing suffering, suffering, ......When these negative emotions occur, what we can do is to say to ourselves: "Gods and horses are all floating clouds, and breaking through to the past will be a new beginning." ”
Didn't Mencius say it in "Born in Sorrow and Die in Peace"? In ancient times, people were entrusted with great tasks, and they must first suffer their minds and work their muscles and bones ......It has become a motivational statement for many people.
Any successful person around us is not a one-step climb to the sky, and the hardships they have experienced are the cornerstone of their success.
Therefore, each of us who is still suffering must remember one sentence: "If you can survive everything, life will eventually shine brightly."