Fool, step on the watermelon peel and slide to**count**.
Wise man, sit firmly on the Diaoyutai platform, my life is up to me.
With the flick of our fingers, we grew up and quietly entered middle and old age. Maybe you don't want to, but the gray hair on your head pops out of the cold, and the surrounding area also crawls up to your cheeks.
After middle age, you have to think about how to cope with the current work and life, and plan for the elderly. If it weren't for that, the rest of your life would be in a panic.
Along the way, you are tired enough, and the results are gradually reflected. As long as you stabilize yourself, you can be peaceful and far-reaching.
Steady your words and don't get into trouble.
Shakespeare said, "Listen more than you say in everything, listen to the opinions of others, but keep your own judgment." ”You are old, and you still have no words, you look old and disrespectful. Losing face is small, and the key is that you are afraid of provoking right and wrong and causing trouble.
During the Warring States period, Wei Wenhou invited the ministers to drink and let everyone talk about important things about him.
The minister Ren Zao said: "That year, you got Zhongshan Kingdom, and you didn't give your younger brother a fief, but gave it to your son, which is not in line with the rules. So you are not virtuous. ”
Wei Wenhou was very angry, and Ren Zao was so frightened that he ran outside the palace.
The minister Zhai Huang hurriedly played a round and said: "The king is virtuous, because Ren Zuo dares to speak out, and you are willing to listen." ”
Wei Wenhou listened, his brows stretched, and he was not to blame for the past.
There is a wisdom called "individual communication". Don't mention which pot is not opened when there are many people. Beware, dragons have scales, and people need face.
There is a way of communication called "not going through old accounts". For the past, you should be selective, don't shake out the ugly things and embarrass others.
After middle age, you are getting old, but you have not left the workplace, and you have to endure and wait for retirement. An airplane must take off safely, and even more importantly, land safely, in order to complete a trip, otherwise it will be in jeopardy.I'd rather not say it than talk nonsense. If you don't have enough words, others won't be able to grasp the handle.
Stabilize your money and retire without worry.
There is a story in Lü's Spring and Autumn Period: A hunter in the Qi Kingdom, who spent a long time and did not catch the prey, returned home, watched his family wait for him to "return with a full load", and longed to find a crack in the ground to get into.
He wanted to go out and do something, but he was afraid of being teased by his friends, because everyone knew that he had failed in hunting. He thought about it for a long time, and it turned out that his hunting dog was not good enough. But to buy a good hunting dog, it takes a lot of money.
In order to fight for his breath, he decided to repair the family's land, make money by selling grain, and then go to buy hunting dogs.
Intentionally planting flowers and flowers do not bloom, and unintentionally planting willows and willows into the shade",The hunter worked diligently to farm the land, but on the contrary, he made a lot of money, and the family became prosperous.
Many people, when they reach middle age, do not have any money in their hands, and all their previous efforts have been in vain. But don't be in a hurry, stabilize yourself, think about what to do next, and where you can use your life experience.
Don't toss around, otherwise you will lose your money and you will be poor for the rest of your life. What's even more terrifying is that when you are old, there is no one to ask for a part-time job, there is no capital for investment, and there is no pension. Don't think casually that you have the life of a rich man and the luck of a late bloomer.
Do not float, revitalize the capital at hand, and slowly accumulate funds, and when you are sixty years old, you always have money to spare.
Stabilize the family, have something to rely on.
When we grow older, our children grow up and go out into society and live independently. At the same time, the husband and wife ushered in the anniversaries of the 20th and 30th years of marriage; Parents have become older and have even passed away.
In the future, you can rely on your wife emotionally, and your wife is also a free nanny.
But you have to see the fact that there is always one person who goes first and the one who leaves last has a long life, but also a long loneliness. You have to rely on your children, and you have to look at the faces of your daughter-in-law and son-in-law.
One day in the Spring and Autumn Period, Zixia asked Confucius, what is filial piety?
Confucius said, "Lust is difficult." If you have something, ** obey it. There is food and wine, and Mr. Food. Did you think it was filial piety? ”
No matter who you count on, the hardest thing is to "see smiling faces". How should this problem be solved? On the one hand, he has money and does not let his children increase the burden; On the one hand, there is family warmth, mutual understanding and mutual support.
In "Zengguang Xianwen", it is said: "Filial piety also gives birth to filial piety, and disobedience also gives birth to disobedient children." ”If you want to be loved by your family, you must first care for your family yourself。The good you have given to your children will come back to you; If you are good to your parents, your children will see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts.
Stabilize the true feelings of the family, the family and everything will prosper, and the family can rely on it. You must know that middle-aged and elderly people who are desperately tossing their families will basically fail and be lonely.
Stabilize the ability and gradually improve.
I like this sentence very much: "There is no way to be a rich man, but you can become the ancestor of a rich man." ”Yes, a family can get rich, maybe through the efforts of several generations. Therefore, many middle-aged people try their best to let their children study and teach them the ability to get rich.
It is our responsibility to take care of the next generation, but we must not stop improving. Although he is not young, there is still room for improvement.
When a person's ability becomes stronger, the road in the future will be easier to walk, and he will be able to be confident.
If you are in the workplace, you can't change your position, but you can do it at work; Your income can't increase quickly, but you can lift your spirits, and you can do good deeds and spread love.
In the second half of your life, keep up with the development of the times, so that you will not be eliminated from the game, and you can really help your children.
People, don't worry, you won't win until the end.
There is a saying in the Book of Rites: "The musician is the sum of heaven and earth; The celebrant is also the order of heaven and earth. And, so all things are transformed. ”
After middle age, the most expensive thing in life is not endless tossing, but harmony and stability. If you have messy steps and a confused goal, then there is no way to be a good pillar and you cannot grasp the happiness of the rest of your life.
Only by stabilizing can we seek progress; All progress is for more stability. This is the great wisdom of static braking.
The mouth is steady, and there are few words and few troubles; Family stability, unity; Money is stable, and he is tough; It can be stable and continue to climb.
Stabilized, keep the clouds open and see the moon.