"If a life is gone, is it worth 60,000 yuan? ”
If it were your daughter, I ask you, what would you do? A mother cried hysterically.
At first glance, I think this is a sad and helpless mother who has lost her daughter.
But in fact, every word she says is inseparable from money, and she also asks for a high amount of claims, and the price is increased twice before and after.
What the hell is going on? Instead of grieving, the parents who lost their daughter were aggressive and demanded high claims.
Is the company really responsible? How was it solved in the end?
Figure 1: It turns out that the Qiantang River at night is so beautiful. ”
At two o'clock in the morning on October 17, 2019, a girl named Luo Luo (pseudonym) posted such a Weibo post, and subsequently, she fell into the water and died.
Luo Luo, born in 1996, works as an artist in an Internet company in Hangzhou.
She works conscientiously and responsibly, works hard step by step, and finally has her own work team, and her colleagues and leaders also appreciate and like her very much.
Like many girls in their twenties, Luo Luo likes to eat hot pot, watch movies, and sing, and has always appeared in front of everyone with a cheerful and positive image.
But her life stayed forever in the Qiantang River in the early morning.
According to her friends' recollections, Lolo was in a bad mood that night, and 90 percent of it was due to family reasons.
Since the end of 2018, Lolo's father has been borrowing money from her, and she often can't sleep well.
The remaining 10% of Figure 2 may have some excessive communication with my boyfriend, so I went for a walk by the Qiantang River.
But I've always kept in touch with my friends.
She didn't want to jump into the river, but she had mustered up enough courage to continue facing life, but she just happened to encounter the rising tide and had no time to dodge.
Immediately after the incident, the boyfriend and friend also contacted **.
The tide of the Qiantang River is unpredictable, and the energy contained in the seemingly ordinary river water can be shocking.
On the morning of October 17, ** found Lolo, who had drowned.
*After investigation, it was discovered that when the tide came, Lolo had a dodge move.
In other words, she wanted to dodge, but it was too late, and the waves swept people into the river in just an instant.
Eventually, ** characterized Lolo's death as an accident.
Figure 3 Luo Luo has been working in Hangzhou for three years, and her parents only know that "her salary can be more than 10,000 yuan per month, and the salary of all employees in the company does not exceed hers".
Although she has a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, she often can't make ends meet, because she is the sister of the family and the "pillar" of the family.
When she only had 7,000 yuan on her body, her father asked her to take it all out and give it to the family.
Mother wants to use the most ** mobile phone, she can only use the old mobile phone that her mother has eliminated, and she has to buy all kinds of things for her.
In addition, I have to take care of my younger brother who is in college.
The long-term oppression from her family made her cry to her colleagues uncontrollably, "I really have no money", and even sought death, and was once shrouded in deep despair.
But she still regained her strength and lived an active life, but a sudden rising tide took away her young life.
Figure 4: Are her parents grieving?
I guess there was, but what she heard from her parents wasn't my daughter's situation, it was money.
After returning from the funeral home, Lolo's parents asked the company directly if there was any compensation.
The person in charge of the company was also very sad about Luoluo's incident, and settled Luoluo's salary, social security, bonuses, etc. on the same day.
Because it was not an accident that occurred during the commute or commute, the company was not at fault for Lolo's death.
However, out of humanitarianism, the company decided to give a condolence payment of 20,000 yuan after discussion.
But Luo Luo's mother asked if it could be increased to 50,000 yuan, and the company agreed, and then a relative proposed to add another 10,000 yuan, and the company agreed.
Figure 5 In the end, the company gave a condolence payment of 60,000 yuan, and asked Luo Luo's parents to sign a receipt and press their fingerprints in black and white.
Is this the end of the matter completely?
No, and the next series of events surprised everyone!
Only three days later, the parents began to make trouble with the company, and forcibly broke into the curfew of the company building, and asked for 350,000 yuan in compensation again.
Of course, the company will not agree, what is the basis for the 300,000 yuan requested?
Luo Luo's parents claimed that their daughter's mood swings were caused by too much work pressure, and finally caused their daughter to accidentally fall into the water and die, and the company should be fully responsible.
Her mother also said that she proposed to come to Hangzhou to see her several times, but Luo Luo refused because of overtime and busy work, and said that she had recently embarked on a new project and was under great pressure.
Figure 6 also called up the clock-in records of the three months before Luo Luo's accident, and the results showed that there was no overtime in July, a total of 2 hours of overtime in August, and 7 hours of overtime in September.
The total number of overtime hours did not exceed 10 days, and the intensity did not exceed the provisions of the Labor Law.
As for the new project mentioned, the company said that it had not started yet, but the company wanted to train Luo Luo and informed her in advance that there would be such a project.
And the next words made people feel chilled.
Luo Luo's mother said: "From birth, raising her until she is twenty years old, even if it is 30,000 yuan a year, how can 30,000 yuan a year in college, how much does it cost to train her?" My daughter has dedicated three years of her youth to the company, is a life worth 60,000 yuan? ”
He even said bluntly that he still has a son, and if he can get a little, he will give this money to my son for a down payment.
Figure 7 is even more excessive, and it is also proposed to ask colleagues in the company to make donations.
After hearing this, the person in charge of the company was stunned on the spot, is this what a parent who has just lost his daughter should say?
If Luo Luo is alive, it is still her "bounden" responsibility to help her brother buy a house.
But this responsibility, even if she dies, she can't escape it.
The two sides are deadlocked, and Luo Luo's parents ask for the high amount of compensation, and they do not take legal means, and their attitude is "I'll make trouble, see if you can hold on."
The company really doesn't need to be responsible, seeing that it is impossible to compensate more than 300,000 yuan, Luo Luo's uncle on the side said
Get rid of the 60,000 in front of you, and then get another 200,000, and if you can't get it, you will pull it down."
How can it not be infuriating to bargain with his own daughter's life?
The parents not only found the company to claim compensation, but also found Luo Luo's boyfriend before his death.
Figure 8: The man only had 12,200 yuan in his bank card at the time, and took out 10,000 yuan of it and gave it to Luo Luo's parents.
Looking at such parents, the company took out some of Luo Luo's previous mood records posted on social platforms.
On Luo Luo's Weibo, she has been in a state of affairs, and after reading her Weibo, it can be seen that she is deeply trapped in the shackles of her original family.
One of the Weibo posts is the ** of an urn posted by Luo Luo.
What kind of mood can make this twenty-something girl choose an urn for herself online?
Then, a screenshot of the WeChat chat made everyone feel a little cold.
It's a screenshot of the chat between Luo Luo's brother and his mother, Luo Luo has suicidal tendencies, and his brother knows about it and also told his mother.
But even though she knew that her daughter was suicidal, the mother did not pay more attention.
After reading her daughter's Weibo, she even denied the pressure brought to her by her family.
Figure 9 Luo Luo grew up in a loveless family since he was a child, but his father was known as independent.
There is even a hint of pride in saying that her daughter has always been very independent, and she has learned to make herself independent since she was three years old.
Kindergarten and elementary school go to and from school by herself, putting three yuan on the table every morning, and she packs her schoolbag and uses the money to buy breakfast.
I often deceive myself that it's okay not to be loved, but in fact, my heart still longs to be loved. ”
She hates the shackles brought by her family, but she also longs for the pure care of her parents.
In Luo Luo's heart, she has always been a child who lacks love.
Receiving a box of winter dates from her father will make her feel a little reassured.
When she was sick, her mother offered to come and take care of her, which would make her feel strange and even suspicious.
On the one hand, Luo Luo wants to make himself "unkind", so he doesn't want such a family.
On the one hand, I can't let go of the little care from my parents, and I still have expectations and fantasies about them.
Figure 10 can't be completely hated, can't abandon this family decisively, this conditional love, let her fall into the infinite cycle of pain.
The Luo Luo incident once rushed to the hot search, and a netizen said: "It's a pity that the Qiantang River can't make money, otherwise Luo Luo's parents will be crying by the river." ”
Through six adjustments before and after, Luo Luo's parents have increased the price twice.
Luo Luo's company gave all the 100,000 yuan of employer's liability insurance paid by the insurance company to Luo Luo's parents, and the company gave a total of 160,000 yuan to his family.
After that, the parents did not make trouble with the company again.
When their daughter was alive, they used this line called family affection to stop her, and after their daughter died, they slapped the table and howled loudly that their daughter's life was worth more money.
The day before Luo Luo's accident, she also posted a message "When can I sleep peacefully".
Figure 11 This time, the tide of the Qiantang River swept away her troubles for more than 20 years and also allowed her to sleep well.
It's just that she didn't expect that after this sleep, she would never wake up again.
When Luo Luo's parents were full of money, the boss of the company even felt more sorry for Luo Luo than they did.
He asked angrily: "A girl is working in a field, and you still ask her for money like this, have you ever thought about her?" Knowing that your daughter is in a bad mood, why not do something about it? ”
The boss also found ** to make the matter public.
He wants others who have had the same experience to know that in the face of such a similar situation, they must not choose to commit suicide.
You can seek society, friends around you, and even the law to protect yourself.
The boss's words were loud and sound, and they also expressed the voice of the public.
After the incident fermented on the Internet, netizens called Luo Luo "the realistic version of Fan Shengmei".
Figure 12 Fan Shengmei is a character in the TV series "Ode to Joy", and all the money earned from work is filled in the bottomless pit of home.
When her brother got married and bought a house, she had to pay a down payment, pay off the mortgage, and even pay for the birth of a child.
ran around for the family's affairs, but couldn't get the slightest care and understanding from the family, and would only try to get her to pay.
When the imagination in film and television dramas takes place in reality, the dark side of dramatized society and human nature is undoubtedly revealed.
There are only a lot of girls who are "sucked" by their families like this.
In November 2018, Fang Yangyang, a 22-year-old woman from Shandong, was abused by her in-laws and husband because she was unable to have children.
Cruel acts such as not being allowed to eat, beatings, and standing outside in winter can eventually lead to death.
But after his death, he still couldn't get peace, and he was married by his mother's family and charged a few thousand yuan for a "bride price".
Figure 13 Fang Yangyang's experience is outrageous, and it refreshes the lower limit of people's cognition.
Luo Luo's incident is mixed, is she another poor Fan Shengmei?
We don't need to make too much moral condemnation of Lolo's parents, I think they should be grieving and falling into endless self-reproach.
In the 21st century, there are still families that prefer sons over daughters.
The dark side of them is that as an undervalued daughter, the more you give it, the more they take it for granted.
But in this way, it not only hurts the daughter, but also the son.
Some of the damage caused by the family of origin may be difficult to change.
But I hope that such people in life can do those things that can be controlled by themselves, and do things that can improve the good life in the future.
FIGURE 14Have the courage and ability to get rid of your miserable family and live your own true and free life!