When I first met my daughter-in-law, there was an air of determination and kindness in her green face. Although I always wanted my son to find a gentle and virtuous girl, I felt a little unacceptable to her arrival. I used to be a free and cheerful woman, but my daughter-in-law's attitude towards some of my family's traditional habits made me feel depressed and uncomfortable.
With my daughter-in-law's patience and understanding, I gradually began to reflect on my thoughts and actions. She told me that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not hostile, but like that of mother and daughter. She said: "Mother-in-law, I have always respected your ability and wisdom, and I hope that we can respect and tolerate each other together. I was deeply moved by these words, and I realized that I had never been as honest and kind as she was, and I decided to follow in her footsteps and take a fresh look at myself and my family.
In the days I spent with my daughter-in-law, I found that she was so attentive and considerate, which made me feel warm. Every morning, she prepares me a cup of hot tea and a nutritious breakfast, and she always patiently listens to my family chores and worries and gives me some pertinent advice.
She doesn't have a bit of a daughter-in-law's frame and just wants me to feel comfortable and happy.
Once, my daughter-in-law and I had a misunderstanding when I accidentally smashed her elaborate afternoon tea snack. I immediately felt very sorry, but my daughter-in-law smiled and said, "Mother-in-law, it doesn't matter, it's just a little thing, how about we make a new snack together?" "I felt her tolerance and tolerance, and I knew that I was blessed to have such a caring daughter-in-law.
In getting along with my daughter-in-law, I got to know myself anew, and I also understood that everyone in the family has their own struggles and confusions.
I understood that my daughter-in-law was not here to take my place, but wanted to work with me to build a warm and harmonious family. I admit that I have always been too selfish and stubborn, and this attitude has brought a lot of conflicts and harm to the family, but now, I am willing to actively change myself and learn to draw strength and wisdom from my daughter-in-law.
The appearance of my daughter-in-law made me see the hope and possibility in the family.
She used her kindness and tolerance to easily resolve the conflicts and estrangements in my family for decades, and I am deeply grateful to her and admire her. I am willing to work with her to make our family more warm and beautiful, and let my son become the pride and support of our family.
Today, I am convinced that the person I admire the most is my daughter-in-law.
She not only made me re-acquaint myself with myself, but also made me understand how important and precious love and tolerance in my family is. I hope that my family can become more harmonious and happy because of her existence, and I also hope that every family can feel the warmth and kindness of their daughter-in-law, so that we can build a better society together. Thanks to my daughter-in-law, she made me see the light and love of the family.