There is such a group that frequently switches between going to work and seeing a doctor. Some rush to the hospital early in the morning to have their blood drawn before going to work, and then rush back to the company to reduce their leave. Some people are always cautious about asking for leave in order to see a doctor, afraid of letting others know that it is related to pregnancy, and they have to find all kinds of excuses for taking leave. Some of them need bed rest in order to avoid miscarriage because pregnancy is not easy to come by, so many women often give up their jobs to concentrate on recuperating and seeing a doctor. Let them toss back and forth in the hospital, and even give up their careers and futures, supported by a thought - to have their own children.
There is such a group of people who shuttle between hospital outpatient clinics and homes, and some even drive thousands of miles and hours to famous hospitals in big cities. They are willing to spend all day in the outpatient clinic day after day to line up the specialist's outpatient number, they are willing to take a lot of bitter medicine every day, they silently endure the severe pain of the needle piercing their body day by day, and they silently endure the discomfort of different states because of ** and conception. It was a belief that sustained them – to be a mother.
There is such a group that begins to measure ovulation after every menstrual period, and shortly after ovulation, a test strip is used to test pregnancy with trepidation. If the test is available, and you are faced with "ectopic pregnancy", "low progesterone", "whether there is a fetal heartbeat", and other challenges brought by each stage, you will experience hope, disappointment, and hope and disappointment again and again. After constantly accepting the cold reality of this world, they can summon up the courage to go on bravely - because they learn to be a brave example of unknown life.
But for this group, no matter how cautious and religious, many of them are still unfortunate to suffer from the cold water of reality in the first three months. They are willing to endure many, many hardships, and the only thing they are unwilling to endure is failure. Because they endure so many demands just to become mothers like ordinary women. The reality is that it is cruel to endure so much and still not get the expected results!
There is such a group, every time they see the children in other people's arms and the children in their hands, they are extremely envious and sad. Every time on Mother's Day, Father's Day, and Children's Day, they mourn the lives they have left and blame themselves. Traditional thinking makes them feel ashamed of their husbands, their husbands' families, and their own families.
They are a group of women in the cage of "infertility". They are easily misunderstood by society as a result of their current predicament. They endured the strange vision of this society, as well as the poison of traditional social thoughts, and endured the mental and physical pain alone, and struggled on the road to find a new life.
They need a lot of money to see a doctor**, they need a lot of time to run around the hospital, they need understanding, hope and warmth. However, society currently has very little attention to this group, both financially and psychologically. So they in this group are more like lonely braves.
However, no matter how brave and strong they are, in the dead of night, the little girl who longs for love in her heart will sobs alone. How I hope that their bravery and strength can be seen by more people, and their difficulties can be understood by more people. I hope that this group can be given more support and care by the society, so that they can walk more easily and more easily on the road to realizing their ordinary wishes.