Times change, and each generation carries its own different destiny. From the seventies to the eighties to the nineties, people from every era have left a distinct mark.
This mark is not only a mark of age, but also the inheritance and continuation of blood and family affection.
The post-70s generation is now entering middle age, and after decades of struggle, they have a stable career, a harmonious family, and are in the most stable stage of their lives. From the initial hardship to the current stability, they have gone through blood and tears, sadness, and hard work. It is precisely because of the abundance of experiences that they have learned to look down on material things and pursue a simple and simple life. This change of "low desire" is not only because of getting rid of material constraints, but also because of taking on the responsibilities of the family. They are the breadwinners of the family and must carry the burdens. Although life is difficult, it is a kind of happiness to come home and enjoy the love and joy of family with your family.
Compared with the post-70s, the post-80s generation is much more indifferent to family affection. Most of them choose to work hard in big cities and go all out for their careers. This weakens their connection to their homeland and kinship. A long separation will make the relationship weaker and weaker, and even at such an important moment as the Spring Festival, it is not uncommon to not go home. At the same time, they pay more attention to autonomy and pursue control of their own lives, creating a generation gap and differences of opinion with their parents, resulting in a lack of family affection.
The post-90s generation has grown up in a pluralistic society, with more distinctive personality characteristics and more active ideological concepts. They pursue independence, advocate individuality, and are no longer bound by traditional ideas. Independent thinkers of the post-90s, such as Xiao Li, live an independent and fulfilling life, rejecting the traditional concept of "inheritance" and pursuing a free and energetic lifestyle.
The post-70s generation broke off their desires, the post-80s broke off their relatives, and the post-90s generation broke off, and each generation bears a different mark of the times. It is our common responsibility to respect everyone's choices and maintain and cherish the kinship that is connected by blood.