The older generation always emphasizes the importance of a good family style.
To put it bluntly, there must be a good atmosphere in the home, which makes people's hearts warm, so that everyone in the family can be smooth.
At the end of the day, a happy family is not built on the spur of the moment and luck.
It's about maintaining and operating day in and day out, year after year.
As the saying goes, "Home and everything prospers".
No matter whether a person is beautiful or not, when he returns to a warm home, he can feel a lot more comfortable.
There are three things in the family, and it is difficult for children to get ahead. ”
Regardless of whether you have money or not, don't leave these 3 things at home to avoid ruining the family style and affecting the future of future generations.
01 has extravagance
Nowadays, people spend money like water for a momentary show-off.
It's as if you're sorry for yourself if you don't spend all your money.
As the old saying goes, "you can't be rich for three generations".
A large part of the reason is because future generations have developed a bad habit of extravagance and waste.
In the end, the money was spent, and the family was in the middle.
is like what is said in "White Deer Plain", the two words are implicated in each other, the good days are too much, and the bad days are coming.
02 Lazy habits
This lazy word is the beginning of harm.
In some families, children are used to doing nothing since they were young, and they are idle when they grow up.
is like the son of "Brother Coat" Zhu Zhiwen, who doesn't want to work hard when the family has money, and as a result, he is becoming more and more unenterprising.
Laziness is like a cancer, once it grows in the family, it will slowly erode the health and vitality of the family.
03 Not harmonious
This is a pain point for many families.
The family quarrels every day and is full of resentment, how can such a family be happy?
A genius like Picasso was artistically accomplished.
Isn't it ironic that family life is a mess?
Be thrifty and don't engage in extravagance and waste. Industrious, not lazy and decadent.
Family harmony, more understanding and tolerance.
As the old saying goes, "diligence and thrift, harmony, prudence, loyalty and filial piety" are the foundation of a family's long-term happiness.