Kazuo Inamori said that we can't live as if we are in trouble, and we will go around shouting bitterness whenever something happens.
To tell the truth, your little bitterness, others may not take it seriously at all, and there are even people waiting to see your jokes.
It's like you posting a "I'm so sad today" on Weitoutiao, most people don't even like it after reading it, and there are a handful of people who talk about you in private.
So, it's really useless to complain, it's better to digest it quietly and have some fun for yourself.
01 Your bitterness, other people's tea after dinner
Mo Yan said that people who complain whenever something happens, in the end, they become the laughing stock of others after dinner.
You see, there are many smart people in this world, and they all know that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and you can't solve the problem by saying it, so it's better to boil it slowly.
There are also those who pretend to be a living bodhisattva on the surface, but they are not necessarily sincere behind the scenes. Some words are said to be like water that has been spilled, and you can't get it back.
02 Don't become a realistic version of Xianglin's sister-in-law
If you complain again and again, others may start to sympathize with you twice, and after a long time, you will become annoyed.
Complain a few more times, and you will become a realistic version of Xianglin's sister-in-law, and someone will avoid you wherever you go.
In fact, some bitterness can really only be swallowed in the stomach by oneself, and there is no other choice.
03 Let go of a thought, and feel at ease
Teacher Zhang Songwen said that in the adult world, there is not so much hypocrisy, and when you collapse, you wipe your tears, stand up and continue walking.
The reason why people are miserable is because they always think too much, get too little, and always think about the past.
In fact, the book "The Power of Letting Go" talks about it well, those who can let go live easily, and those who can't let go live tired.
04 Powerful people have survived silently
Writer Martin once said that behind every powerful person, there is a period of time when no one helps and no one understands.
When you're at your lowest, it's better to calm down and cheer yourself up.
Listen to the sympathy and comfort of others, and the only one who can really help you is yourself.
In our life, sometimes it is indeed not easy, but there is no need to always pour out the suffering.
Learn to digest by yourself and have fun with yourself, so that you can live more easily.
Don't forget, no matter how big the wind and waves, you have to pass by yourself, and if you are strong, no matter how big things are, they will be small.