"A wise man thinks a thousand times, and he will make a mistake; A fool thinks a thousand times, and he will get one. ”
No matter how powerful a person is, he can't do everything, there will always be times when he is not thoughtful and powerless.
When people reach middle age, if they only rely on their own strength, they seem to have a backbone, but in fact, they are too stubborn and easy to fall into the point of isolation.
If you want to mix well, don't be brutal, learn to borrow. Push the boat with the current, go with the wind, and Pepsi can win.
With the help of the power of nature, you can save time and effort.
In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Zhou Yu made it difficult for Zhuge Liang and asked him to make 100,000 arrows in ten days. Zhuge Liang called a few straw boats and went to Cao Jun to shout for a while, causing Cao Jun to shoot arrows violently, and then took advantage of the wind to leave quickly, and the arrows were "made".
In addition, there is an allusion to "everything is ready, only the east wind is owed", which also shows the power of the wind.
In real life, windmills, waterwheels, etc., turn the power of wind and water into electricity, etc., which can also be used to drive rice mills. By damming rivers and rivers, water can be brought into farmland for irrigation.When you reach middle age, do you think about it seriously, what kind of forces are around you that can help you succeed?
A friend of mine, who has been working in Dongguan for many years, returned to his hometown the summer before last, renovated the old house, and tidied up a small waterfall behind the house, which attracted many people from the city to come to play, and his home became an inn.
The unique environment is actually an important place for entrepreneurship and contains great potential.
With the help of others, you can grow quickly.
During the Jin Dynasty, there was a writer named Zuo Si who wrote a "Sandu Fu". He took out the article and showed it to others, hoping to get guidance and praise, but was ridiculed.
There is a writer named Zhang Hua, after reading it, he thinks the article is very good, but it needs to be commented by a famous person in order to be recognized by more people. Therefore, he suggested that he take the article to the famous scholar Huang Pumi.
Huang Pumi admired "Sandu Fu" very much and wrote a preface. Since then, the article has become famous, and Zuo Si's fame has become even greater.
After hundreds of years, the habit of literati and writers encouraging each other to write prefaces for **, essay collections, etc., has always existed. A little-known author, who has been commented on by famous writers, has grown faster, and even changed and joined the ranks of famous writers.
Middle-aged people, in life, will become two kinds of people: people who work and eat and drink at the same time; People who work hard, work overtime, and never socialize. Under the same conditions, the first type of person is more likely to succeed and rise to prominence with the help of circles, and the second type of person is easy to become an honest person who is bullied and may be marginalized.
Blind socialization can make people disoriented. ButThe right social interaction will allow you to find like-minded people。Only by getting the guidance and promotion of the masters can we move forward quickly.
With the power of emotion, you can prosper your family and business.
As the old saying goes: "Father and son soldiers go into battle, and tigers and brothers fight tigers." ”
For some reason, many people would rather laugh at outsiders than cooperate with their families, and treat their siblings as enemies rather than be filial to their parents.
A cousin of mine, he hated his parents for not helping him buy a house, and went to Guangzhou to work in anger. Later, he took out all his savings from his part-time job and cooperated with others, hoping to make a fortune, but he lost it.
In February last year, my cousin's parents came to Guangzhou, gave him 20,000 yuan, and dragged him back to his hometown to develop the planting industry. In just one year, the family earned tens of thousands of dollars by planting ginger.
In fact, no matter how big the grievances between relatives are, the blood love will not be lost. As the saying goes, "Tiger poison does not eat children." "Putting the contradictions aside, we can work together to do something at any time.
When a person is the weakest, outsiders will not help you, but relatives will look at the "flesh and blood" and pull a hand. If you borrow this feeling, you can go further.
With the power of society, opportunities can be seized.
Gold and silver cups are not as good as the reputation of the masses", people in middle age, if they want to achieve great success, they must establish their own image and be recognized by others.
During the Jin Dynasty, the general Huan Wen led the army to the north. Yuan Hu was originally a man who was punished, but he still went out with the army.
On the way, a Lubu essay was needed, and Yuan Hu was brilliant and intelligent, and he wrote it with the help of a horse. His talent has been recognized by everyone, and he has also been given the opportunity to make amends.
If a person wants to show his head, he not only needs to work hard and make achievements, but also needs the right opportunities.
There is a good saying: "A person is nothing without a platform." ”
We can't treat the platform as a cost, but we can use the platform to make ourselves go further and get more rewards. Blindly clear high and unconventional, it is not a strong man who goes alone, but a missed opportunity again and again.
Any city has different characteristics, as long as you grasp it correctly, you can develop with the city. For example, in an industrially developed city, if you set up a factory, you have more obvious advantages in terms of technology, manpower, cooperation between factories, etc.
Conclusion.
In "The Art of War", it is said: "Therefore, those who are good at fighting seek it from the situation, and do not blame others, so they can choose people and use the situation." ”Life is like chess, if you want to win, you must not only be a good "handsome", but also arrange troops, use good soldiers, horses, elephants, etc., all chess pieces, have played the greatest role, you are the real winner.
On the other hand, when you take advantage of others, you also have to accept being "taken advantage of". Combining your own strengths with those of others will form a strong alliance.
In the Western Jin Dynasty, there was a ** music order, wanting to resign and return to his hometown to retire, although he could speak well, but the level of writing was average, so he invited the poet Pan Yue to write a chapter on his behalf, and since then he has risen step by step.
Later generations praised them"If Le Ling didn't use Pan Yue's articles, and Pan Yue didn't use Le Ling's intentions, he wouldn't have such a literary brilliance. ”
When people reach middle age, if they want to take advantage of the situation, they must learn to be generous. If you help others and others help you, life will be much easier.
No matter how difficult it is, don't complain, dedicate love, and love the world.