On July 23, 1976, Zhang Shenglan and Yan Zhiguo just held a simple and happy wedding, and they started their newlywed life with full hope and beauty. However, on the fifth day after their marriage, they suffered a devastating event。That night, while they were asleep, they suddenly felt a violent shaking, and the walls of the room collapsed, trapping them in the broken bricks and trees. Yan Zhiguo quickly woke up and tried to rescue his wife, but Zhang Shenglan's body was seriously injured, and the central nervous system was seriously damaged, resulting in high paraplegia. This day changed their fate.
After experiencing the rejection and helplessness of several hospitals, Yan Zhiguo finally sent Zhang Shenglan to Beijing for surgery. However, the doctor told them that his wife's condition was so serious that she could only stay in bed for a long time and could no longer have children. For them who have not been married for a long time, this is a huge blow and test. Zhang Shenglan was disheartened and wanted to leave her husband, not wanting to be a burden to him. However, Yan Zhiguo said with a firm attitude that he only identified Zhang Shenglan as one person and would never abandon him. So, he resolutely embarked on the path of taking care of his wife.
between Yan Zhiguo and Zhang ShenglanLoveIt was not love at first sight, but after a long exchange of letters and mutual understanding. In 1974, Yan Zhiguo got Zhang Shenglan's ** at work and fell in love with her at first sight. Due to work and geography, the two could not see each other, so they began to exchange letters to each other. After more than two years of correspondence, they gradually felt the warmth and similar values of each other.
The moment they finally met, they both felt like they were reunited after a long absence. The parents of the two were also satisfied with their choice, so they decided to finalize their marriage.
SinceSince the incident, Yan Zhiguo has been taking good care of Zhang Shenglan. He often held her hand and told her about their sweet memories, hoping to give her strength and hope. Although the doctors told them that Zhang Shenglan might only live for three months, Yan Zhiguo would not give up, believing that a miracle would happen.
Yan Zhiguo not only took care of his wife wholeheartedly, but also always stuck to his work. His family and colleagues have also given him many ideas to hope that he can have children of his own. However, Yan Zhiguo has always turned a deaf ear to this kind of advice, he just wants to do his job well and take care of his wife.
Although Zhang Shenglan's condition deteriorated for a while, she was moved by her husband's sincerity and was determined to be positive. She worked her body and her hand function was restored somewhat. In order to surprise her husband, she silently wrote a whole book of epistolary records, called "The River of Sorrow".
In 2017, Zhang Shenglan finally left this world and said goodbye to Yan Zhiguo. At her funeral, Yan Zhiguo shed tears of grief and said firmly: "Dear Shenglan, you will live forever in my heart. I'll continue on our path, Katsuran, and you can go with confidence. ”
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