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On March 8, the movie "Chasing the Moon" starring He Saifei will be released.
In the movie, she plays a Yue Opera star who is so focused on her career that her family is torn apart.
But what people don't know is that He Saifei himself has struggled at the crossroads of career and family.
Almost almost made the same mistake.
When she was young, because of a **, she became attached to her teacher's son.
However, after taking the initiative to chase after success, she resolutely proposed to break up.
In order to get back together, her boyfriend did not hesitate to kneel.
After ten years of marriage, she insisted on Dink, which saddened the whole family.
Later, it was her mother-in-law who came up with a clever plan to let He Saifei give birth to a child when he was 35 years old.
What clever trick did her mother-in-law use back then to make He Saifei change Dink's mind?
What is the story between her and her husband Yang Nan?
A ** to promote good fate.
He Saifei didn't expect that a ** would doom his marriage in the following decades.
In 1983, 20-year-old He Saifei was transferred to study in the Xiaobaihua Yue Opera Troupe.
Here, she was deeply loved by Mr. Huang in the troupe, and one day, the teacher invited her to his home.
As soon as she entered the house, she saw a family photo**.
He Saifei stared at the young man in **, and a strange idea suddenly popped up in his head.
I really want to be their daughter-in-law. ”
She didn't expect that her idea would come true years later.
After this incident, the two soon met in the troupe.
One day, He Saifei, who was washing clothes in the troupe, was suddenly attracted by a sentence from his companion.
Look, isn't that Teacher Huang's son Yang Nan, who really looks like Guo Kaimin. ”
He Saifei looked in the direction of his companion's finger.
I saw the man walking towards me wearing a neat tunic and looking full of bookishness.
He Saifei recognized him at a glance as the young man in the family photo**.
Yang Nan also noticed He Saifei, who had been staring at him, and the two looked at each other and smiled.
After this meeting, He Saifei began his own "reverse chase" plan.
As soon as she was free, she found an excuse to run to Teacher Huang's house.
After a long time, Mr. Huang also understood the mind of his students and began to "assist" behind his back.
The two talented and beautiful people soon came together.
However, after dating for a period of time, Yang Nan said something that made He Saifei want to break up.
He personally told He Saifei that he had a girlfriend before.
Hearing this news, He Saifei's heart suddenly "came to mind".
Deep down, she couldn't accept that the man she loved was once with other women, so she simply decided to break up.
I'm six years older than you, and it's normal to talk about girlfriends before. ”
No matter how Yang Nan explained, He Saifei just didn't look back.
In the end, in desperation, Yang Nan could only ask He Saifei's father for help.
When He Saifei was very young, her parents divorced, and her father raised her alone.
Under the guidance of his father, He Saifei gradually changed his mind in his heart.
An incident happened after that, which made him even more determined to marry Yang Nan.
His father suddenly fell ill with cancer, which caught He Saifei off guard.
Just when he was panicking, Yang Nan stood up and shared most of the pressure for her.
During He Saifei's father's hospitalization, Yang Nan would go to the hospital every day to take care of him personally.
Under Yang Nan's care, Father He finally passed away peacefully.
After this incident, the relationship between He Saifei and Yang Nan became stronger.
Even though Yang Nan had nothing at that time, she still decided to marry him.
The mother-in-law watched the former student become her daughter-in-law, and she couldn't stop talking.
However, after marriage, He Saifei's practice almost ruined his mother-in-law's family.
Meet Dink. In 1988, 25-year-old He Saifei married 31-year-old Yang Nan.
In order not to affect her acting career, she agreed with her husband before marriage not to have children after marriage.
Although Yang Nan likes children very much in his heart.
But in order not to affect He Saifei's career that he had developed with great difficulty.
He agreed to his wife's request anyway.
After getting married, He Saifei put most of his energy into his career.
She was originally a Yue Opera actress.
But in 1984, He Saifei, who successfully starred in "Five Women's Birthday", had plans to enter the film and television industry.
After three years of marriage, an opportunity fell from the sky and hit her.
In 1991, director Zhang Yimou found He Saifei with the script of "The Red Lantern Hangs High".
invited her to play the role of Mei Shan in the movie.
In order to create this role well, He Saifei can be said to have worked hard.
In order to make his every move more in line with the image of the characters in the movie.
She deliberately found a teacher to learn Peking Opera for a few months.
Every day at dawn, the crew can hear her voice practicing her voice, which is more punctual than an alarm clock.
Fortunately, her efforts have also achieved good results in the end.
After the film was released, it immediately set off a nationwide movie-watching craze and won awards at many international film festivals.
He Saifei, who played an important role in his **, also entered the public eye.
In the following years, she has successively cooperated with famous directors such as Li Shaohong and Chen Kaige, and starred in many excellent works.
Husband Yang Nan is at ease to be his wife's "virtuous helper" and take care of everything at home for his wife.
In this mode of "outside the male lead, inside the female lead", the family lives a very happy life.
However, in this harmonious atmosphere, there is one person who is sad all day long.
The mother-in-law saw that the two of them refused to have a child, and her heart was about to be broken.
The two of you have been married for so many years, why don't you want children. ”
This sentence is on my mother's lips almost every day.
But no matter how she urged, He Saifei always looked unhurried.
Yang Nan never took the initiative to mention the matter of "having children".
Seeing that the husband and wife were not in a hurry, the mother-in-law was about to be angry.
In order to successfully "give birth", she came up with a clever plan.
It is an advanced family birth.
In order to remind the two children to have children as soon as possible, the mother-in-law often hinted at the husband and wife, intentionally or unintentionally.
Sometimes when she sees a child playing on the street, her mother-in-law will turn to her daughter-in-law and say:
Look how cute a child is. ”
The intelligent He Saifei certainly understood the deep meaning of his mother-in-law's words.
But at this time, her mind was all on filming, and she could only pretend to be stupid and pretend not to know about her mother-in-law's hints.
Seeing that the hint was not working, the mother-in-law decided to give the couple a straight start.
On the evening of the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the family was immersed in a joyful atmosphere.
But I don't know why, but my mother-in-law suddenly cried.
Seeing this, Yang Nan and He Saifei immediately panicked and hurriedly asked the old man what was wrong.
The mother-in-law sadly said that the old couple was getting older and older, and maybe they would pass away one day.
The thing I am most worried about now is that Yang Nan and He Saifei will have no one to take care of them after they get old.
Looking at his mother-in-law who was crying while talking, He Saifei also felt unbearable.
At this moment, she also understood the business that her mother-in-law had been promoting, and she was very moved.
After this conversation, her husband Yang Nan also said that in fact, he also wanted a child.
But in order not to affect He Saifei's career, he never took the initiative to mention it.
Now that both of them are not young, it is indeed time to have children.
He Saifei was deeply touched by her husband's words, and it has been Yang Nan who has been tolerating herself all these years.
This time, He Saifei decided to think about it for her husband and the family.
She gave up Dink's idea, and soon after, He Saifei successfully became pregnant.
At that time, she was filming in the crew, and after Leslie Cheung, who was partnered with him, found out, he jokingly said:
Put me at the head of your bed so that the baby you give birth to can be as handsome as me. ”
In 1998, 35-year-old He Saifei gave birth to a very lovely son.
The moment he saw his son, He Saifei cried with joy with his family.
Although she never wanted children before, after her son was born, she was reluctant to let go.
In order not to affect He Saifei's filming, her mother-in-law took the initiative to take care of her grandson.
In the beginning, the son always wanted his mother to be at home with him.
Every time He Saifei went out to film, he hugged his mother's thighs and was coquettish.
When she was in the crew, her husband often took his son to visit her.
As he grew older, his son gradually became sensible.
When he met his mother going to filming, he would take the initiative to say, "Mom, you go filming." ”
He Saifei, who works in the crew, is also very concerned about his son.
Every time I come home from the crew, I bring a lot of gifts to my son.
Now Yang Nan and He Saifei have been married for 36 years, and their son is 26 years old.
The family lived a happy and ordinary life.
Last year, she won the Golden Rooster Award for her superb acting skills.
On February 10 this year, He Saifei participated in the Jiangsu Satellite TV Spring Festival Gala.
Born as a comedian, she and Bei Ziyue and Che Xinhang brought the opera program "A Good Show".
After seeing her excellent performance, many fans praised her for her beauty in the comment section.
Although she is over sixty years old, she has won everyone's respect with her strength.
Epilogue. Dedicated to love.
1. Love for the cause.
He Saifei, who is both virtuous and artistic, can be called a model in the entertainment industry.
I wish her a harmonious family and a long and healthy life.
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