It's really clear at a glance whether you love or not.
In love, whether a man loves you or not can be clearly felt.
A man who loves you will naturally give more than you. A man who doesn't love you will covet your efforts, enjoy your efforts, and take your efforts for granted.
If a man really loves you, he will consider your feelings, give you a sense of security, give you a future, warm you, support you, and will not let you be wronged.
If a man doesn't love you, he will devour you. He will only think and care about himself. He won't care about you at all. He will never stand in your shoes and will not defend you in front of others. On the contrary, and belittle you.
A man who doesn't love you will be ruthless to you, and the most obvious manifestation of this is nothing more than two words: selfishness.
1.He is always selfish and thinks about himself and will not pay for you at all.
If a man doesn't love you, he will only care about what he gets, how he feels, whether he is happy or not, whether he has interests or not, but he will never care about you and will not take care of you.
When one day he suddenly treats you well, he must have ulterior motives. He must be trying to get money or something from you, that's why he pretends to be nice to you.
In ordinary life, he is actually very selfish. He never thinks about whether you want to or not. He always thinks that all you have to do is give. He doesn't even think you're giving enough. If you don't do what he wants, he will be punished. Start yelling at you and saying bad things about you.
Selfish men love only themselves and don't love you at all. He will never be nice to you, and you can't expect him to take care of you.
On the contrary, you give a lot for your family, but he only cares about enjoyment, and he spends all your hard-earned money in one fell swoop. He also pretended to be fat and invited others to dinner. He won't feel distressed by all kinds of consumption, and he won't think about how hard you work.
When a man makes such a move towards you, it means that he does not love you at all, and you have to learn to stop losses in time.
2. Always self-centered and don't care about you at all.
If a man doesn't love you, he will be selfish towards you.
Even if you are not feeling well and need his care, he doesn't care about you and doesn't care about you. Instead, he wants you to serve him in case of illness. He doesn't care if you live or die at all.
If a man doesn't love you anymore, he won't like you everywhere. He will even blame you for some trivial things, complain to you, lose his temper with you, and don't care about your mood changes at all. Even if you have been wronged, he still feels that you have been wronged. Pretentious.
If you are with a man who always makes you wronged, always loses his temper with you, is indifferent to you, and even bullies you with others, then you have to get out of the way, no matter how much you want him to be with you. 。
Because I don't love, I'm selfish. I only think about myself and don't care about you at all. I don't care about you.
3. Start planning for property matters, and plan to transfer all the property away and not distribute it to you.
When a man doesn't love you anymore, or has fallen in love with someone else, and wants to separate or divorce you, he begins to secretly plan how to get more property in the divorce.
So, some men will become very selfish and will not think about you at all and will not see your efforts. They just want to control all the property and leave you with nothing. So I secretly transferred all the money in the bank card, and even secretly stopped the card and didn't let you use it.
Once a man becomes ruthless, he must want to leave you, and he will definitely not love you anymore.
When a man starts to be ruthless to you, no longer cares about you, and becomes selfish, then you have to see clearly, don't let yourself be hurt and suffered, and don't do something unthinkable for this man. I don't love you. Do something that hurts yourself.
You have to learn to love yourself. Even if a man doesn't love you anymore, you have to live well for yourself. If you leave him, you can live well without him.
Loving yourself is the beginning of a beautiful life.