When I was a child, many of the heroines in film and television dramas were too kind-hearted characters, and they could have fought back against those who harmed them, but they chose to forgive. What could have been said clearly in person, but I had to endure it, but let others misunderstand. Although it is not worth being the heroine, it instills in us a kind of good woman is to be "forbearing, kind" and full of love for all people and things. At least the ending of the film and television drama is good, it is a good person who has a good reward, let us believe that kindness can move people, and kind people are beautiful. However, in reality, good people do not necessarily have good rewards, and evil people do not necessarily have evil rewards.
Simplicity is one of the personalities that men like women. Maybe it's because it's easy to deceive. Why is "Yanxi Raiders" so enjoyable? Just because the heroine Wei Yingluo is not a "stupid white sweet", nor is she a "love brain", but a woman with means and scheming, people don't offend me, I don't offend people, if people offend me, I will offend people. Someone commented on "Supreme Red Face" before, if Wu Zetian in reality is like the character in the TV series, I don't know how many times he has died, and he can't reach the peak of power at all.
When you grow up, you find that if you are a person with "scheming", others will not dare to calculate you or bully you, because, if you offend you, you will find a way to make him pay. When it comes to falling in love, you also need to have "scheming". I have a friend who is a straightforward person and a sincere person. I used to like a boy and became boyfriend and girlfriend. She would tell all her best friend what was in her heart, and she would take that best friend to play with the boy, and finally, the boyfriend and the best friend were together. My friend is out. A friend's best friend is a scheming person, she used to be friends with other men, but they broke up not long after. The boy's work unit is good, so he thought of prying the foot of the wall. Her best friend pretended to be innocent in front of the boy, pretending to be very understanding, but it showed off my friend's bad temper and willfulness. Hence greened.
There is no "scheming" in the workplace, and you don't know how to "die". It's not your job, people ask you to help, and once you help, you do well, it's the credit of the person who asked you to help, and he will hardly say that he asked you to help do it; However, if you go on a business trip, he will definitely take you on the top and take the blame. If you want to "value harmony", don't want to cause trouble, and won't say things in front of the leader, then, jealous of your colleagues will definitely go to the leader to hit your small report, do you think time will prove everything, and the clear will clear itself? But in the eyes of the leader, if you don't report something to him, over time, he will really think that you are just like the colleague who is jealous of you, which is not good, that is not good, you just wait to be marginalized. Sometimes, you put forward a good opinion, and others take it to the leader to say, and as a result, the leader thinks that it is that person's opinion. The credit is someone else's. Therefore, you still have to report to the leader when you do the work, and don't expect others to speak for you.
When I used to hear people say that I had "scheming", I would explain that I was not that kind of person. Now, when I hear someone say that about me, I secretly rejoice, because I know that they don't dare to trouble me.