What is "Toxic Friendship"? It may erode the learning and life of junior high school students, parents should be more careful!
Fourteen or fifteen-year-old pupils are in the mode of receiving education and teaching, but during this period, they are in the period of adolescent rebellion, and their personality and life will be in conflict with their parents, which will have a significant impact on their learning problems.
Parents spend too much on primary school students, psychological education is not a simple proposition, different primary school students apply different education methods, if you want to educate primary school students well, we must first understand the character and growth environment of primary school students, and find a learning path and education method suitable for primary school students.
After entering the first cycle of middle school, the subject content of students is becoming more and more complex, and the pace of learning is accelerating, in this case, students will also feel the pressure of learning, and the physiological and psychological changes of students at this stage are greater, which is usually called the second cycle period, which also refers to the development of students in the first cycle of middle school for three years.
After three years of high school, you can make good friends and make students full of many happy moods. If the education is not good, it will have a negative impact on the student's future life development and learning, and parents should pay more attention.
What is"Toxic friendships"？Parents should be aware of these friendships as they can be detrimental to the learning and life of elementary school students.
The friendship between classmates is the simplest, but also a simple feeling, the premise is to make a good friend, there is a kind of poisonous friendship among high school students, which is gradually spreading in the student group, slowly eroding the psychology and development of high school students, this poisonous friendship will not only not help the growth and learning of students, but will become an obstacle on the road to the success of students, and be poisoned and eroded by friendship. Scholars will also become scumbags in minutes.
Type 1: Ostensibly instigating a friend not to study, but secretly working behind the scenes.
In middle school, the learning pressure of students is relatively large, and due to the impact of the high school entrance examination promotion rate, more than 50% of the candidates cannot enter the ordinary middle school from the original 6:4 to 5:5, and the students have not yet studied in arts and sciences, and the pressure and life burden from parents have caused many students to be out of breath.
At first, the students loved to study, but due to the influence of the people around them, they often encouraged everyone not to study in their ears, and if they didn't listen, there would be discussions, and even some of the students would wear small shoes in the back, they didn't want to lose their friends, so they chose to compromise.
The final result is that the student's grades are a mess, but the good friend's grades tend to be stable, but the good friend persuades him not to study at the same time, but also secretly operates behind the scenes, which has caused great harm to the student's future development and the formation of the three views.
The second category: classmates are very controlling and always encourage them.
The character development of each student is different, some students are naturally more powerful, have a strong sense of control, in the development stage of poisonous tongue dating, they also have to throw out the banner of self-respect, on the surface it is for friends, but in fact it is also invisibly PUA.
This phenomenon is difficult to detect, and some students don't even know that their good friend is in PUA until the end, and their pleasure cannot be eliminated, which will lead to the formation of three views and the development of emotions in the long run, so that students will be harmed in the whole process of education.
Type 3: Playing games in groups, watching**, vanity is overflowing.
The basic task of high school students is to study hard, especially after graduating from high school, in order to take the college entrance examination. The first thing to discuss about the parting that students face during this period is that the grades are not satisfactory and the process of coping with exams can be stressful.
In the Internet era, student competition has become more fierce, online games have become more developed, and some students have been affected by the burden of tidying up, and for a long time, the Internet has alleviated their emotions. Students gradually have their own mobile phones, occasionally discuss games, will not have an impact on learning, good friends get together for a long time to play games, and collectively watch ** and other ways so that students slowly consume their confidence in learning.
The nihilism of the general dating mode is not good for primary school students, parents should be more attentive to the influence of primary school students' growth process, unhealthy dating methods should be intervened and stopped as soon as possible, parents have no right to interfere with the education of primary school students, but should be guided to primary school students in time to avoid being misled.