It is not uncommon for women to have unhappy marriages.
They often do not reflect on themselves, but blame the marriage for all the faults, believing that the marriage destroys the relationship between the two.
Hence the saying that "marriage is the grave of love".
The unhappiness of marriage, a woman is naturally unhappy, which can be reflected in many ways.
Some people believe that a woman's greatest misfortune in a bad marriage is poverty, or divorce.
Actually, neither.
No money will certainly make life difficult, but after all, money is something outside the body, as long as you are willing to work hard, and never give up hope in your heart, life will eventually develop for the better.
Divorce is painful for a while, but with the passage of time, or the possibility of new feelings, the sadness in the heart will gradually fade.
Forsdik said: There are no failed marriages, only failed people, and all marriages reflect human nature.In fact, a woman's greatest misfortune is often self-inflicted, that is, she makes these two mistakes.
Because of age, choose someone you don't love
In this fast-paced era, due to the hectic and stressful growth of life, people's time and circle are also extremely reduced.
As a direct result, many people have no time to take care of their relationship problems.
Many parents are worried that their daughters will miss the marriageable age.
As a result, when a woman chooses a partner, she is often influenced by the people around her.
Molière said: People often marry hastily, and after marriage, they regret it for the rest of their lives.After being elected, there are still a lot of clues, and I can't meet the person I like.
In the end, women have to be pressured to choose a random person they don't love to marry, and this decision often brings endless pain and suffering to themselves.
Marrying love, or choosing a loveless marriage, will naturally lead a very different life and the final outcome.
Happiness sooner or later, there is only right and wrong.
Marriage should be united because of love, not because of age, choose a person you don't love to marry.
Therefore, not being responsible for oneself and treating one's marriage casually is a woman's greatest misfortune, because what she is waiting for will only be endless suffering.
Trying to get what you want outside of an unhappy marriage
In life, there is no marriage that is as calm as water, there are more chicken feathers.
Marriage is inseparable from ordinary fireworks, and it will naturally encounter all kinds of problems and contradictions.
When a woman is in frequent friction, the conflict with a man continues to escalate, which will one day lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
Or there is no big contradiction between the two, but the married life is too dull, which can easily make women resentful.
In these cases, women will try to achieve their expectations through extramarital relationships.
However, even if you try your best to force things that don't belong to you, it is difficult to get what you really want, and in the end, you will often end up disappointed, and you may even be hurt to a certain extent.
Moreover, this kind of betrayal of marriage will not only bring long-term harm to the other party, but also cause a great psychological burden to oneself.
Therefore, some erroneous ideas are in themselves undesirable.
Once such a thought sprouts, it should be extinguished in time to prevent it from growing uncontrollably and causing irreparable consequences.
If you insist on going your own way, you will only make yourself lose more than you gain, and you will become more and more unlucky.
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Munir said: The failure of a marriage in any situation can be a catastrophe for a family.In a failed marriage, neither party can be happy.
Therefore, a woman must not only marry the right person, but also know how to manage a marriage.
However, the right person and a happy marriage are often not easy to obtain, and they usually have to rely on their own hard work.
Therefore, if you want to be happy, you must be good at managing yourself.
We must understand that some mistakes must not be touched, and we must have our own bottom line and principles, otherwise, we will only get farther and farther away from happiness.