As the old saying goes, filial piety comes out under the stick, and good people come out under the yellow wattle.
In fact, whether he is a filial child, whether he is a good person, has nothing to do with your scolding, there are many parents in life who criticize and even scold their children, this is very bad, because a child grows up in this family situation, he will become particularly prone to inferiority, because after he is blamed, he does not know what he did right, or what he did wrong, and even made his mood very, very low, and even became worthless, and grew up to become an inferior person。
The second is that if it is a girl, her father is a person with a bad temper, then it is very difficult for him to establish a relationship with other people of the opposite sex, in her heart, she thinks that the opposite sex is this kind of bad temper, very bad, so her interpersonal communication is very poor, if her mother is a bad temper person, then she and these peers of the same sex, it is difficult to establish an effective relationship, which will lead to very big problems in his interpersonal relationship.
So if you really care about your child, I hope you don't blame or pamper, and it is best to face your child with your peace of mind.