In relationships, men are very good at acting. The love in many men's mouths is just a sight of lust. Many men are Xi equating love with a game. They tend to like to prey on women who are simple, simple-minded, and bent on true love.
Such a woman is the prey in their eyes, and she can be easily hooked, without paying material costs and time costs, and the prey sent to the door will not be eaten for nothing.
It's a pity that the woman was blinded by the man's momentary enthusiasm, and she showed her true heart in front of him without any scruples, and paid for him at any cost.
Love only finds out in the end that he is nothing more than a prey for a man at a certain stage, and when the prey is hooked, he will shift his gaze to the next woman.
What makes a woman collapse more than not loving is the harm that the other party brings to herself.
A woman's sincerity is not a priceless treasure in the eyes of men, but a humble dust on the ground, which can only be trampled on by men.
Before starting a relationship, don't get carried away by emotion, be sure to test the man a lot, and weigh whether the man really likes him or just wants to have fun!
If a man gives you the following feelings, it is to blatantly play with your feelings, persuade you to let go as soon as possible, and stop losses in time!
1. If you love you, you will come when you open your mouth, and you will not do anything to love you
There is a kind of man who understands your situation before he gets close to you. He knows that you are not materialistic, not pretentious, not demanding, and likes to take the initiative to give.
So he decided to do what he liked and pretend to be your soulmate.
Give you meticulous care, say some unashamed love words to you at every turn, and never leave love in three sentences.
When he gets along with you, he adheres to the principle that he can draw you a cake and never fulfill his promises. His promise to you is that a blank check can never be kept. His love for you will always stay on the lips and cannot be put into practice.
Although everyone expresses their love in a different way, the only criterion for testing the truth is practice, and if the other person says it wildly, he does nothing.
That only proves that he didn't love you from the beginning. Under the guise of loving you, he treats you like a cheap prey. I can have you at any cost, without any loss to you, and this business will make sure you don't lose money.
It is much easier to trick a stupid woman and get money and beauty from her than to chase a woman who can be seen, touched, and never chased.
Love without material rewards is always empty, no matter how deep the love is, you must also consider dressing and eating, clothing, food, housing and transportation. If a person can't meet your survival needs and only talks to you about spiritual pursuits, no matter how nice he is, it's a lie.
True love is giving to each other, and it is willingly giving for each other.
The person who truly loves you will prove his love for you with his actions.
He will do everything he can to give you everything, and if he has something to eat, he will never let you go hungry, and if he can eat fragrant and spicy food, he will never let you eat bran and starve.
He doesn't give too much, he only worries that he doesn't give you enough, it's not good enough.
Feelings are not business, but you also need to consider the cost, a man who truly loves you must be willing to pay some costs for you, if the other party does not pull out a dime, love becomes a joke.
What is the cost in a relationship?
This cost refers to the effort that the other person makes when he pursues you, such as the time and money he pays to you.
If a man has never given you any of his time or money, then he is playing with you with the idea of taking advantage of you.
Don't say you don't care, you don't care, you can't change the fact that he doesn't love you by convincing yourself with these reasons.
Your indecision will only make you fall deeper and deeper, and staying away as soon as possible can reduce the damage, otherwise it will be difficult for you to escape from such a catastrophe.
2. I'm in a hurry to have a relationship with you, it's just for fun
A woman who can be easily obtained by a man is cheap in the eyes of a man.
Don't try to use your body to keep a man's heart first.
You need to follow the rules in everything you do, and if you are one step ahead and break the rules, you must suffer all the consequences yourself.
When the feelings are in place, the intimate contact between the two people becomes a matter of course.
A man who is in a hurry to have a relationship with you may not really like you.
It is normal for a person to have a physiological reaction, but liking is not indulgence but restraint.
A man who truly loves you, even if he loves you again, can restrain his impulses, and he will respect your thoughts and ask for your opinion before making any intimate gestures towards you.
As long as you give an unequivocal refusal, he won't do anything out of bounds.
Because his love for you is not limited to the present, he really thinks seriously about your future.
In order to have a result with you, he is willing to give up those selfish ideas that meet his own needs, give you enough respect, and will never force you to do anything.
True love lies in temporary satisfaction, but in long-term coexistence and companionship.
Men who see women as playthings will become indifferent and ruthless because women refuse their unreasonable demands.
They will change their old attitude, deliberately accuse you, suppress you, get angry at you, give you **, and even turn black into white, and turn unreasonable demands into reasonable.
This is done in order to confuse the public and lead you into self-remorse.
When you are soft-hearted and apologize to him, you will compromise with him and take the opportunity to compensate him, and his goal will be successfully achieved.
Once a man has a crooked mind about you, he will not do anything to achieve the goal, he doesn't care about the process at all, he only values the result he wants.
Those men who play with your feelings are never affected by your emotions and never care about your mood, your feelings.
When he is in a good mood, he can say a few thoughtful words to you to please you. When he is in a bad mood, he doesn't care about your feelings, your thoughts, he only lives in his own world, and only cares about whether he lives happily or not.
If he finds out that you are a difficult woman, he will find an excuse to abandon you and immediately look for the next target.
The development of feelings takes time to precipitate, and it also takes time to test a person's sincerity.
A man who really loves you will not be in a hurry, even if he hits a wall in the process of chasing you, he will not give up easily, unless you don't give you a chance.
There are not so many "love at first sight" in the world, on the contrary, you should be wary of men's intentions.
Don't expect a man who is not even willing to give time for you and has no patience to wait for you to truly love you.
Feelings need to be tempered slowly and tested slowly, and feelings that can't withstand the test of time are not worth your obsession and unrepentance.
Time can allow you to see a person's truest appearance, and can also see through a person's heart.
Women should live a higher life, don't be the humble person who asks for love, otherwise you will attract men who want to play casually with you, and you will be looked down upon and live cheaply.
Women always have to put themselves first and learn to love themselves in order to win dignity and attract the man who really knows how to take care of you.
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