The wife argued fiercely with her husband at the door, pushing and shoving, and kept accusing him of buying a property for his lover outside.
Wife: You must have bought that house for her, otherwise how would you have the key to her house?I saw you go to her house and open the door and hand over the keys!
Husband: You get out of the way, why do you give it to you?
Wife: If you dare, hand over the key, it doesn't matter what the divorce court decides!You hand over the keys before the court decides;You have lied to me for more than ten years, what else is there to be afraid of?
The woman's name is Sister Yang, and she said that she has been married to her husband for 33 years. The two first met through matchmaking, when the husband was just an ordinary coal miner. Later, her husband longed to become his own boss and contract a coal mine to start a business, but due to his family's difficult circumstances, his mother's family helped him realize his dream.
The two have developed from nothing to a net worth of more than 100 million today. However, Sister Yang never expected that after her husband became rich, there would be rumors that he had a teenage illegitimate child. Sister Yang was furious and cut all her husbands' ** in the family.
Sister Yang: He is not a person, and he has deceived me with lies for more than ten years. He used me for everything, and raised an illegitimate child outside without me, and now he is 16 years old. He was in the coal mining business, and some time ago he even tricked me into mortgaging the real estate certificate to him for a loan, and even went to borrow money from my mother's family. I later paid off the money myself. The more I thought about it, the more I felt that something was wrong, his business was so good, why did he mortgage the property and borrow money from his mother's family.
Sister Yang's sister-in-law told her that her husband had a woman outside, saying that she was stupid and helped him pay back the money. At the time, she didn't believe it, but people around her said that her husband used the borrowed money to support the woman outside. Once, while doing laundry, she found that her husband had a woman's ID card, which he explained was the health card of a colleague who was cooking in a coal mine.
Sister Yang: He has a woman outside, and he even dares to swear that there is absolutely nothing to be sorry for me. We've been together for half a century, and I'm really shocked that he can do such a thing. I decided to find my husband to sort it out.
Husband Brother Tang: I have no relationship with her, her quality is too poor. She is open-mouthed, scolds people at every turn, and can't do housework well, I can't be satisfied with her. I've had enough.
Brother Tang sat faintly in the old house of his hometown in the countryside, recalling the quarrel with his wife, he felt exhausted. In order to avoid his wife's strife, he chose to live in this peaceful place.
Suddenly, Sister Yang took out a woman's **, and the mediator asked about the relationship between the two. Brother Tang did not shy away from admitting his relationship with this woman.
Brother Tang: I had a relationship with that woman, but that was more than ten years ago, and I haven't been in touch for a long time. 」
Sister Yang: I'm sure you're still in touch, didn't you borrow money from my mother's family to support her and buy her a house?Decades of hard work at home to do your laundry and cook, what is it?」
Brother Tang was a little speechless when he heard his wife's accusation. When talking about buying a house for that woman, he began to deny it, causing Sister Yang's distrust. She asked Brother Tang to hand over the key, but Brother Tang was unwilling.
Subsequently, the two fell into a fierce quarrel, and Sister Yang pushed and scolded Brother Tang, accusing him of betraying the family outside. Brother Tang's mood became nervous, especially when Sister Yang entered the room to search for the key.
Sister Yang: I haven't divorced you yet, and the house should be our joint property. She doesn't qualify for this house!Didn't you live in this countryside to hide the truth and have a private meeting with her?」
Brother Tang: Get out of here!That's the house she bought herself, and it has nothing to do with me!You don't want to be vexatious here. 」
The next day, Sister Yang took the mediator to the community where the woman lived. She found her husband's name on the meter and was even more sure that the house had been bought by him for the woman. When she opened the door, Sister Yang recognized her husband's slippers at a glance, as well as the cigarettes he often smoked at the bedside. She suspected that her husband often lived here, otherwise how could he have so many of his daily necessities.
In the room, Sister Yang found a document that made her hands tremble and her heart beat. She took the file and said in a trembling voice: You see, there is actually a paternity test between him and the illegitimate child on the bedside table, and the results show that it is paternity, and it was done five years ago. Now the evidence is here. 」
Sister Yang found a paternity test report in the room, which showed that the paternity test result of Brother Tang and the boy 5 years ago was 9999% paternity. Her whole body was trembling in the face of this unexpected truth.
On the contract, the traces of marriage are clearly visible, and the husband's name is also left in that line of handwriting. Sister Yang was suspicious and questioned why her husband's name appeared so rightly on the purchase contract, when it was clear that he did not fund the purchase of the house. The admission application form in front of her shocked Sister Yang even more, Guo Qing's name came into view, the age was 40 years old, and the child she gave birth to was already 16 years old.
What made Sister Yang even more stunned was that the name of her husband, Brother Tang, was written in the guardian column. In the face of this sudden reality, Sister Yang fell into a daze. For many years, she had been kept in the dark, unaware of her husband's other life.
Sister Yang was full of emotion: "When someone told me that my husband had an illegitimate child outside, I couldn't believe it at all, I just thought that he was used to raising a woman outside." I didn't expect that now that the child is so old, he has been cheating on me, and even deceived my mother's family. ”
The grievances and anger in Sister Yang's heart were intertwined. She has been loyal to her duty for decades, and she has taught her husband and children in the name of a good wife, but in exchange for such betrayal treatment from her husband. Driven by grievances and anger, she decides to find her husband and figure out the ins and outs of the matter thoroughly.
When questioned by Brother Tang, he responded calmly: "She and I have a son, and now his grandmother is taking care of him." This child is mine, of course I am responsible for him, I was born to be responsible. ”
The mediator pointed out: "Didn't you tell your wife about these things?"Brother Tang responded with a wry smile: "How can you tell her?"Can she handle it?I had already proposed a divorce to her, but she forced her to die, and I had no choice but to do so. ”
Brother Tang revealed that Guo Qing is currently working in other places, and the two have no other relationship except that they have a common son. The mediator asked, "Then why did you let her give birth to this child in the first place?"After all, you are not legally married. ”
Brother Tang explained: "I didn't know at the time, she didn't tell me that she was pregnant. It was only when the baby was about to be born that she told me that it was my child. I haven't said it all along, and it's also to protect the family. ”
Brother Tang insisted that Guo Qing gave birth to a son for him, and he had the responsibility to consider his younger son. He invested 200,000 yuan to buy a house and provided 1,500 yuan per month for living expenses. He admitted that Guo Qing had been divorced once and had a child, and the pregnancy was just an accident. Brother Tang firmly believes that no matter what, this child is his responsibility, and he has done a lot for this family.
He vowed: "I will buy my daughter a house and a car for her to go to school until she gets married." I consider myself as a man to have a clear conscience about my parents. With an extra son, this experience is completely different when you get old. According to our rural tradition, there must be at least two children in the family. As I got older, I realized that the saying "more children and more blessings" is true, whether it is a son or a daughter. ”
Sister Yang asked Brother Tang angrily: "Why are you so selfish and never take care of my physical condition?."Brother Tang said frankly that he had always hoped to have more children and more blessings, but after Sister Yang gave birth to a daughter, she could not have children due to illness, which became a regret in his heart. Hearing the news of Guo Qing's pregnancy, he did not stop it but took the initiative to take responsibility.
Over the years, Brother Tang has been full of contradictions in his heart. He betrayed his marriage for selfish desires and hurt his wife and two children. On the question of whether he felt guilty in his heart, he confessed: "I also admit that this mistake is wrong, both legally and morally. Despite this, he tried to provide material satisfaction for his son, but could not erase his crimes.
Faced with his wife's questioning, Brother Tang defended: "I give you enough living expenses, what do you want me to do?"He was well aware of his mistakes, but a property dispute had left the two sides at a stalemate.
Sister Yang said that Brother Tang once ran a coal mine and accumulated wealth, but she has always lived a stingy life, with living expenses never exceeding 1,000 yuan, and clothes being less than 500 yuan. She accused Brother Tang of enjoying luxury, but failing to experience the life of a rich man. On the property issue, she insisted that part of it belonged to her.
The property dispute intensified, and it was difficult for the two parties to compromise. Sister Yang said with emotion: "He has money, but I haven't enjoyed the life of a rich man." Brother Tang insisted in the dispute: "These properties have nothing to do with you." For the future of this marriage, divorce has become inevitable, but Sister Yang will never let go of Brother Tang easily, especially for the competition for property.
After I became wealthy, he began to rebuke me for my lack of education and failure to take care of the house. Even the money he earned was never given to me, and I was like a senseless stranger, only a few hundred dollars a day, like a beggar to a beggar.
I found out that he had purchased a large amount of gold and jewelry with the woman, and these invoices were secretly hidden in his home, and I found them. He thinks that as long as I have food and clothing, it will be enough, and he says that these expenses are all earned by his own hard work outside. (The more Sister Yang spoke, the more sad she became, and she began to cry.) ）
Eldest daughter: From childhood to adulthood, he was indifferent to my mother, and there was almost no communication between us father and daughter. Even though he wasn't responsible for the family, for me, he was guilty of having someone else out there, and I supported my mom in everything she decided, that child was innocent. In any case, I will support my mother, she wants to open up and not feel insulted. In any case, the child is innocent, and I hope that my mother's life will be easier.
Sister Yang: I can't live like this anymore, and I can only be relieved if I leave early. He already has a son, and the two are still in touch. Such days are meaningless, and although I have not received much cultural education, I cannot accept his actions. I wouldn't beg for his money, I'd rather live my own life.
Sister Yang expressed her resolute stance that she would divorce Brother Tang no matter what. The next day, they came to the judicial office for mediation, and both parties were resolute and agreed to the divorce.
Sister Yang: Now the problem is money, you borrowed hundreds of thousands of yuan from my mother's family, do you want to pay it back to my mother's family?
Brother Tang: I will admit the money borrowed, even if there is no IOU. I'm not the kind of person who pays off my debts, but the problem is that it's not my property alone, and it's not my own decision. I can't afford to pay it back now.
When my daughter got married, I helped her buy a house and a car. Nowadays in the case of divorce, I don't think you can take on all the debts alone.
The mediator asked: "You have been raising children for 16 years, did you spend all this money with your wife's consent?".Did you explain it to her?”
From a legal point of view, you are already guilty of bigamy by having children with someone else during your marriage;She has the right to sue you. On a moral level, your betrayal of the family hurts your wife and daughter, but you don't seem to reflect on the harm you have done to the family, only emphasizing the side of your responsibility as a father.
Brother Tang did not feel guilty about his wife, but made excuses for his actions and did not recognize his mistakes. His wife has been with him in his most difficult moments, and after he has succeeded in his career, he is stingy with his wife. Now he is suffering financially, but he is arguing with his wife.
Faced with the situation that the two parties could not reach an agreement, the director of the judicial institute suggested that they appeal through the court to protect the rights and interests of both parties in accordance with the law.
Sister Yang said that she would recover her more than 30 years of work through legal procedures. According to the provisions of the Marriage Act, she has the right to recover the property by legal means if the property purchased using the joint property of the husband and wife during the marriage.
Finally, I hope that Brother Tang can come to his senses as soon as possible, and what he has done will definitely face legal sanctions and condemnation of conscience!