Feng Huacheng and Zhou Rong decided to be honest with each other.
At noon on the Qingming Festival, Feng Huacheng prepared a table full of delicious dishes and paired it with a bottle of red wine. After the argument with Zhou Rong, Feng Huacheng rarely had the heart to prepare so much food. His job is to organize the materials in the office, organize the data, and then sort out the last copy, and then take it out and send it to the canteen to sell. Whenever something goes wrong, there are always youkai who appear. Zhou Rong speculated about something, so while enjoying the food, she deliberately recalled the past, hoping to use those good memories to win Feng Huacheng's heart again.
The word "divorce" had been lingering in Feng Huacheng's mind for a long time, and this time, he decided not to reserve a way out for himself.
He smiled calmly and told Zhou Rong that the good times of the past would eventually become history. I broke up with you, you know?Let's end the marriage, the problem is not with you, but with me. I think we should live well and don't need to struggle with love anymore. Today is the Qingming Festival, which coincides with the days when we commemorate the past. She is my friend, I think. Her name is Wang Zi, and you have met her before. You call me Purple, and I know that. Once, you walked to the mountains of Guizhou for me, but in fact, it was because of a mistake when we were young that we never really loved each other.
After Feng Huacheng said these words, he turned around and walked out of the house with his packed luggage. Zhou Rong knew that no matter how hard they tried, they would not be able to return after all. She knew that her life was like this, being dragged to work every morning and then dragged home for dinner. In the past few years, she has felt a deep revulsion at Feng Huacheng's worldly attitude, and Feng Huacheng is also dissatisfied with her hypocrisy and arrogance, and the two choose to divorce, which is a release for both of them.
I thought that this divorce would help both parties to rediscover their true selves and live a better life. Who knows, life after divorce is not as good as imagined. Unexpectedly, Zhou Rong's daughter Yueyue suffered a huge psychological impact because of their divorce. At a party, she suddenly found that her grades had plummeted, and she was even worse than the rest of her classmates. She used to excel in her studies, but now she started putting on makeup and drinking, spending every day in the ballroom with a group of thugs and not coming home until the wee hours of the morning.
Yueyue is now in her second year of high school, and if she continues in this depraved state, she will not be able to enter the top universities. Her dream was to be a good teacher, but now she is in pain. This matter involves her future, Zhou Rong can't stand by and watch, he can only have an in-depth conversation with Yueyue. "I know I'm a good person, but I still don't believe in myself, I'm really not myself!Yueyue said with tears: On the road of love, I always regard you as my model. I know we're after one person. Unexpectedly, my former role model has collapsed, how deep was your love for him at that time?I don't know, and I don't need to tell him, I just hope you don't hurt him again in the future, I believe he's a good man. In order to be with him, you are not even afraid of death. He said that you are a good man, you should thank him, if it wasn't for him, you wouldn't be where you are today. Actually, I really envy you because there is a call of love ahead and you can do it without hesitation. Your career is so brilliant, and your love is so sweet. But for me, I'm not even as good as you used to be, I don't even have a chance to fail, and the gap between me and you is already very big.
Zhou Rong suddenly realized the real reason for Yueyue's fall. Before divorcing Feng Huacheng, Yueyue could always tell her that as long as she did not hesitate on the road of love, she would eventually win Zhou Nan's heart. She knew she was already a man. Now, she and Feng Huacheng have ended their marriage, and Yueyue has lost her determination to continue to love. Although Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng once loved her deeply, their love did not come to an end, and there was not even a chance for her and Zhou Nan to fall in love, and failure seemed to be predestined. Her marriage was a failure, but her life was not so simple. She was unwilling to continue to suffer, so she chose to numb herself through the fall.
Zhou Rong and Zheng Juan started a game of cards, and every word was heart-wrenching.
After careful consideration, Zhou Rong decided to have an in-depth conversation with Zheng Juan. When Zheng Juan was busy with laundry, she noticed Zhou Rong coming over, and she understood that Zhou Rong often didn't go to the Three Treasures Palace, and the only reason she came late at night was Yueyue.
Zhou Rong didn't go around the bend, she directly expressed this opinion to Zheng Juan: Juan'er, each of us is so small in the world. In my life, I have experienced countless ups and downs and met more and more people, which has made me realize that there are not many people who really care and care about you in the journey of life. If you want to be a good woman, you have to give them everything you have, so that they feel that you are a woman of strength and wisdom. These people make up the entire area of your life. I think you'll be touched because you feel like they're the most important people. Juan'er, why don't you approve of them becoming a couple?
Zhou Rong clearly expressed the point of view that in a person's life, it is not easy to find love that is willing to pursue both ways. Since the relationship between Yueyue and Zhou Nan is sincere, why can't Zheng Juan let them continue to be together?
Zheng Juan was very angry at Zhou Rong's frankness and confidence, she did not respond to Zhou Rong directly, but deliberately asked her in turn: Sister, don't you know the reason why I did all this?
Indeed, since the moment Luo Shibin came to look for Zhou Nan, Zhou Nan's background could no longer be hidden. Luo Shibin violated Zheng Juan that year, which caused Zheng Juan to become pregnant and give birth to Zhou Nan while she was unmarried, which was a sad experience she never wanted to recall in her life. She harbored a deep hatred for Luo Shibin, and at the same time was extremely dissatisfied with that terrible history.
For so many years, the family has always claimed that Zhou Nan is Zhou Bingkun's biological son. If Zhou Nan and Yueyue are together, the outside world may think that this is a marriage between close relatives and may become a laughing stock. However, she knew in her heart that there was no blood relationship between her and the child. Zhou Rong didn't want Yueyue to become the laughing stock of others, and the Zhou family didn't want to be the target of others' accusations. The only way to eliminate the gossip of others is to admit the abuse that Zheng Juan suffered back then.
Zheng Juan was reluctant to mention this matter in her life, and she didn't understand why she would not hesitate to tear up her scars for others to see for the sake of Zhou Nan and Yueyue's future happinessWhy is her happiness ruined by others, and she herself can't make up for it?She gave everything for Yueyue, but who would pay for her and feel heartache for her?
Luo Shibin had a dispute with her over Zhou Nan's custody, which made her feel exhausted. However, Zhou Rong once again sprinkled salt on her wounds, exposed her past wounds, and pretended to be innocent, which is really fake. She suspected that Zhou Rong knew nothing about her previous experiences.
Not long ago, Hao Dongmei happened to see Yueyue and Zhou Nan hugging tightly, so she advised Zhou Rong not to live so selfishly and think about Zheng Juan. For so many years, Zheng Juan has not mentioned this matter, just wanting to put the past behind her. If Zhou Rong really thinks about Zheng Juan, she will stop the relationship between Yueyue and Zhou Nan.
Regarding Zheng Juan's history, Zhou Rong and Yueyue both know something. "You're one of my favorite girls!Now, Zhou Rong pretended to know nothing about it, and deliberately asked Zheng Juan why she opposed Zhou Nan's relationship with Yueyue, which made Zheng Juan feel very ridiculous. She was neither willing to explain to Zhou Rong, nor did she want to give her a chance. A person who does not consider the emotions of others, why should she let others look at her eyes and always think about her?
Zhou Rong noticed that Zheng Juan seemed to be a little angry, but she chose to turn a blind eye and continued to say to her: Zheng Juan, I understand your emotions. You, like me, are both children, and we all have a dream. However, we have already spent half of our lives, and their lives have only just begun. We are all ordinary people, and we have all been ordinary people, but why is there such a big difference?Is it really not worth wasting a child's lifelong happiness for the sake of something that has passed for countless years?
Zhou Rong is warning Zheng Juan that those past days are in the past, and Zheng Juan should not hinder the child's future happiness because she can't let go of the pain of the past. "We need to make him understand what happiness is, and happiness is happiness. Zheng Juan said indifferently: The whole life of a child is short, and our whole life is different
There is a group of people who are extremely disgusted, they are full of benevolence and morality, and they often say "empathy", but they don't know that in this world, there is no real "empathy". How can you feel deep pain if the needle doesn't pierce your body directly?
For Zheng Juan, Zhou Rong is exactly that kind of character. Throughout her life, Zhou Rong has always lived in the tolerance of her family. She has liked ** since she was a child, especially the singing passages in the opera "The White-Haired Girl". When she was young, her parents' love for Zhou Rong reached the extreme. As the only little girl in the family, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Bingkun always care for and tolerate her in every detail. When Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng entered the palace of marriage, Feng Huacheng held her in the palm of his hand again. Yueyue was raised by Zheng Juan during the period when she needed to be taken care of the most. Zhou Rong has never experienced pain and hurt in her life, and she has never truly understood the hardships of others.
Zhou Rong said "forgot" casually, intending to erase Zheng Juan's past pain. However, how could she forget that she had been abandoned and abandoned. Considering that the wound heals so easily, why can't Zhou Rong ignore Yueyue's cold attitude towards her, and wholeheartedly want to ** Yueyue's trauma due to lack of love?My heart will also be pierced by this sentence. It may seem simple for people to persuade others, but it is even more difficult to persuade themselves.
Zhou Rong never expected that Zheng Juan, who had always been able to compromise in all aspects, would be so resolute on this issue. She believes that if she can concentrate all her thoughts on one person, then he will not harm her children. Since this strategy did not work, Zhou Rong chose to use family affection as a bargaining chip, and continued to ask Zheng Juan: Can you rethink this problem?I know that you are an assertive and strong person, and you must cherish this opportunity. I always thought that you are one of the women who don't have your true self inside, as long as your family and loved ones are good, that's enough, you're not selfish or headstrong like me.
Zhou Rong's words revealed obvious impatience, and she ridiculed Zheng Juan for being too selfish and willful, only caring about protecting her past painful times, and not caring about the future of her children. "She's selfish, she treats everything like a baby. If Zheng Juan really wants the well-being of her children, then she shouldn't just care about herself. If the child had a better life, then she wouldn't have done it either. Although it is often said that Zhou Rong's lifestyle is both selfish and selfish, in fact, the most selfish person is undoubtedly Zheng Juan.
Zheng Juan is quick to think, how can she not hear the meaning?She deliberately asked a question: Is my sister criticizing me?Do you say I don't like her?Why do you insist that I approve of both of them?I don't like it when you say that. Yueyue hasn't been by your side since she was a child, so you want to make some contribution to her?
Zhou Rong was shocked, but she didn't expect Zheng Juan, who has always been gentle and elegant, to be sarcastic about others sharply, and even outspoken. She said that she was going to do something for her son so that he could know what "love" and "responsibility" wereShe makes a lot of sense, but she doesn't fully understand what it means to be "love"She mentioned that Zhou Rong did this, although it seemed to be for Yueyue's future happiness on the surface, but in fact, out of consideration for herself, she hoped to shorten the distance between her and Yueyue through this incident.
In the middle of this conversation, the two men each left angrily. Zhou Rong mistakenly thought that the reason why Zheng Juan opposed Yueyue and Nan Nan becoming a couple was simply because of what happened in the past, but she didn't understand that the core reason why Zheng Juan opposed Yueyue and Nan Nan being together was actually herself. She thinks that she has no love for her daughter and will not love others, only herself. After so many years, Zheng Juan has deeply understood Zhou Rong's true face. Having a family relationship like Zhou Rong is undoubtedly a big misfortune in the family. The Zhou family has made great sacrifices for Zhou Rong, and she doesn't want Zhou Nan to continue to help Zhou Rong solve her predicament.
Zhou Rong has had a strong self-esteem since she was a child, and in her concept, everyone should revolve around her, understand and love her unreservedly. She thinks she's a good girl, but she doesn't know if she's really a good girl, and she doesn't know how to treat the people around her. In order to become a partner with Feng Hua, she is willing to give up everything, including her parents. She said, I am a very assertive woman, as long as you are willing to be with me, I will work hard to run this family better. Otherwise, even if her father objected to her marriage to Feng Huacheng, she would not have not returned home for several years in a row, and might even cut off all contact with her family.
Zhou Rong's heart is very firm, and her life is entirely for herself. In the eyes of everyone, Zhou Rong's deep affection for Feng Huacheng is like a testimony between heaven and earth. She didn't believe that her love would be as successful as he saidHowever, few people realize that Zhou Rong's deep affection for Feng Huacheng is just her wishful thinking. What she really cares about is not whether she can become a partner with Feng Hua, but whether she can get the true love in her heart.
In the mountainous environment of Guizhou, they were able to enjoy the deliciousness of bran vegetables and feel happy with a few brightly colored wildflowers. They are a group of lovely girls. However, when love and reality meet, Zhou Rong's heart changes. Because his love is a deception. As Yueyue gets older, it becomes more and more difficult to live with Zhou Nan. Feng Huacheng got the house early, and when he presented gifts to the judges, Zhou Rong began to dislike Feng Huacheng. He was a ruffian hooligan who often bullied her. She couldn't understand why Feng Hua couldn't get a property with her true abilityWhy would he be so good to himself?Why choose those unknown strategies?
Feng Huacheng was depressed, but when she successfully entered the university and became an associate professor, her contempt for Feng Huacheng deepened. She didn't believe she was a poet. She no longer admired Feng Huacheng's poems, and even felt disgusted with the sour ink in his stomach.
Feng Huacheng is still the person in the past, he has never changed, what has really changed is Zhou Rong, she wants a house, but she doesn't want to accept a bribe, she doesn't want to bear any pressure, and she wants others to live according to her ideas. If someone doesn't do what she wants, she becomes angry and angry, thinking that they are selfish and cold.
Zhou Rong had long lost her love for Feng Huacheng, but considering that Feng Huacheng had never betrayed her, she had no reason to file for divorce. Feng Huacheng has spent sixteen years with Zhou Rong, how can he perceive her true thoughts in her heart?
Many years ago, their relationship was just Zhou Rong in order to satisfy her yearning for true love, putting a veil of mystery on their marriage. But when the veil is removed, love ceases to exist. He also did not hesitate to divorce her in order to get her, but she still missed him. Therefore, he chose to betray and did not hide his mistakes, and was honest with Zhou Rong. He said he loved her, but he didn't know if she really liked him. If they lack love for each other, then it will be torture for them to keep going.
After Feng Huacheng left, Zhou Rong completely collapsed. Cai Xiaoguang expressed this opinion to Zhou Rong: You know deep down that divorce is a kind of release for you, why do you cry so sadly?Yes, because of him. Is this due to Feng Huacheng?I know you've loved him for a long time, but you can't leave him because you don't think he's worthy of your love. Actually, it's out of your self-esteem. In your opinion, you have made great sacrifices for the family, and only you have the right to file for divorce. Feng Huacheng filed for divorce, making you the abandoned party, and you can't let go of your self-esteem, which makes you feel so sad.
The 16-year marriage has come to an end, but Zhou Rong is crying because of her self-esteem, which is really sad. With her mother, there will inevitably be her daughter, Zhou Rong's self-esteem is very high, and Yueyue is no exception. She felt that she was a kind and lovely person who deserved something in return for others. Yueyue spent her childhood in the company of Zheng Juan, Zheng Juan treats her like her own child, if the child is grateful to her, then he should treat her well. However, Yueyue seems to take Zheng Juan's concern for her for granted, and as long as Zheng Juan says something inappropriate, Yueyue will mistake Zheng Juan's dissatisfaction with her as a burden.
Zheng Juan noticed that the relationship between Yueyue and Zhou Nan seemed to be somewhat abnormal, and she deliberately or unintentionally warned them to keep a certain distance. However, Yueyue never considered Zheng Juan's feelings, but was disappointed by Zheng Juan's lack of support and her lost enthusiasm.
She lived in Hao Dongmei's home for nearly half a year, during which time Hao Dongmei and her mother provided her with rich food and drink. Although she was not grateful for this, because Hao Dongmei tried to persuade Zhou Rong to stop her from being with Zhou Nan, she showed a displeased expression towards Hao Dongmei, and deliberately called her aunt with a gun and a stick, which made Hao Dongmei both angry and speechless.
Zheng Juan understood that Zhou Rong and Yueyue were both self-centered people, and she didn't want Zhou Nan to have any contact with such people. She thought she should support a person, not oppose him. This type of person is mainly concerned with their own emotions and less concerned with the feelings of others. They are still young and have unstable personalities. If she decides to support Yueyue's relationship with Zhou Nan and candidly share her painful experiences in the past, is it really possible for Yueyue to spend her life with Zhou Nan?
If it's just the heartbeat of adolescence, but as they grow older and mature and they choose to go their separate ways, what's the point of the sacrifice she's made for them?She didn't understand why her first love would happen in such a seasonZheng Juan believes that just because of Yueyue's impulsiveness, it is not worth revealing the scars she has hidden for more than ten years.
Zheng Juan's thinking is also accurate, no one in this world can survive. She doesn't think about whether she is alive or not, but how old she has lived to be happy. After Zhou Nan died abroad, is it true that Yueyue can't continue to live without Zhou Nan?What's going on with her mind?No, not only did she live very well, but she was also married to a wealthy elderly man.
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Zheng Juan is not only dissatisfied with Zhou Rong and her children's strong self-esteem, but also disgusted by their overconfidence. She didn't understand what she was doing for herAs a woman, Hao Dongmei can fully understand why Zheng Juan would oppose Yueyue and Nan Nan's relationship, but Zhou Rong is difficult to understand. She considers herself a cultured person, not a man without humanity. Not only did she lack the ability to empathize, but she also passed on her pain to Zheng Juan in order to win Yueyue's favor.
Marriage is not child's play, if Yueyue really gets married to Zhou Nan, will Zhou Rong treat Zhou Nan sincerely?If so, what can she do for herself?Zhou Rong lives so independently, will she take responsibility for Yueyue?For so many years, every time Zhou Rong came home, she didn't go into the kitchen to cook for Zheng Juan. In the future, after Yueyue becomes a mother, all the heavy tasks of housework and taking care of the children will be handed over to Zheng Juan to complete. She said that since she was a man, she should give him all the responsibility. Since they are all women, why can Zhou Rong enjoy a lifetime of happiness, while her Zheng Juan gives unreservedly and is taken for granted?It's not fair!Does just because she has the ability to withstand difficulties require more effort than others?
Although Zhou Rong is the daughter of the Zhou family and Zhou Bingkun's own sister, Zheng Juan is not so naïve. She knows that she wants to be a good mother, a good father, a good mother, and a good child. She has never complained over the years, but she knows everyone's actions and decisions by heart.
Many years ago, due to Zhou Rong's unfortunate incident, Li Suhua suffered from cerebral thrombosis, and she was lying in bed, like a vegetative person, and needed someone to take care of her daily life. As Li Suhua's daughter, has Zhou Rong ever taken care of her for a day?She did not fulfill her filial piety for a day, but handed over her daughter to Zheng Juan and was indifferent to her. Zheng Juan took on the responsibility of taking care of the elderly alone, and at the same time had to take care of Zhou Nan, Yueyue and Guangming, and felt exhausted every day.
But what about Zhou Rong in **?She's teaching math, but she's teaching Chinese!She just has to dedicate herself to teaching and learning Xi work for her future. If you don't know, just ask me. She's become an associate professor and has read Zheng Juan's name, what do you think?This complicated her life and made her feel unbalanced. Over the years, whenever Zhou Rong saw Yueyue and Zheng Juan getting closer, she would feel jealous and show a displeased expression towards Zheng Juan. Will she be able to straighten out the relationship between them?For someone like Zhou Nan who is too narcissistic, if there is a conflict between her and Yueyue, will she ask Yueyue to find the source of the problem from herself?Will this reconcile the two?
Zheng Juan is unhappy with Zhou Rong's overconfidence and is frightened by her aggressive behavior. Zheng Juan, like Zhou Bingkun, is Xi to contributing to her family and Xi to bearing losses. Zhou Rong has a strong personality, she will not let anyone go easily, and she is not good at thinking from the perspective of others, as long as it is what she wants to do, she never cares about the opinions of others.
Warm words can make people feel the warmth of three winters, while harsh words can make people feel the chill of June. She said that she was a very gentle and willful woman, and she said that her temper was different from that of others, because it was impossible for others to understand her. Just as in this conversation, Zhou Rong's every word is like a sharp knife, piercing Zheng Juan's vulnerability. If she becomes an in-law in the future, she will have to endure Zhou Rong's harsh words frequently, how painful will her life be?
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Unfortunately, Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun, two more introverted people, rarely confide in others about their inner pain and troubles, which makes it difficult for Zhou Nan to truly understand Zheng Juan's inner world. Although he never mentioned Yueyue verbally, he always thought about her in his heart. "I don't understand why you chose to be a woman?Zheng Juan witnessed all this, and her heart was full of anxiety. She knew that she and the man she loved had lost the most important thing - love. After Zhou Nan was admitted to Tsinghua University, Zheng Juan chose self-sacrifice for Zhou Nan's future happiness in order to promote his happiness with Yueyue. Witnessing Zheng Juan's deep love for her son is really emotional.
Li Yangbo expressed the view that in this world, the greatest and most selfless love is maternal love. Mother's love is all the emotion and strength that a person pours into the cause he loves. In the words "mother's love", dedication and sacrifice are undoubtedly the most touching and dazzling elements.
Maybe this is the greatness of mother's love, but Zheng Juan has lived for her family all her life, but she has forgotten to love herself.