Chatting and talking is often the best way to reflect a woman's charm. Talking to someone who is comfortable is like a person who has been thirsty for a long time and tastes the rain. To make a man fall in love with herself, a smart woman will start by chatting.
This kind of chat is not just about modifying one or two sentences of yourself, but about maintaining the principle of chatting, understanding each other's hearts through long-term relationships, and exporting your own values to men.
There is a saying that people with the same frequency will come together, and women practice speaking in order to show their charm to men through verbal expression, and to judge whether the values of two people are on the same frequency through chatting.
The law of attraction tells us that a person is most likely to attract people who are similar to themselves, and how to find people who are similar to themselves is to find out through chatting.
By learning these chat rules, you'll be able to control a partner who is similar to you.
Get along with him with sincerity and sincerity, and sometimes you can't get his sincerity, let alone hypocrisy.
Whether a person is real or not, it is best to show through talking and chatting. Think about the friends around you, those you don't trust find unreliable, most of them are full of train-talking, flamboyant tongues.
For some issues that are inconvenient to talk about, you can hide them, this is human nature, but if you even talk about your heart and feelings, you have to hide them, I believe that such feelings will not last long.
Learn to chat heartily, not only do not deliberately hide yourself, but more importantly, express your concern for each other.
Some people's concern is just perfunctory, asking a few casual words, saying that they care about him, but in fact, this is just self-comfort.
He caught a cold and asked, "Is everything okay?""He had a headache and asked him if he had any medicine;He had a hard time at work and asked, "What happened?""It's hard for the other person to really feel your warmth in this kind of performance.
On the contrary, being able to deliver medicine when he has a cold, help him cook, or help him analyze the relationship between work and colleagues when he is not going well at work are all small things that he cares about, and he must see it in his eyes, remember it in his heart, and be very grateful to you.
Men are most fascinated by women who can't guess. Although a man does not like to guess a woman's mind, if a man can see at a glance what a woman is thinking, he will think she is ignorant.
In addition to sharing your daily life when chatting with men, you must also learn to keep each other's little secrets. Between two people, leave a forbidden area, you don't touch his secrets, and he won't snoop on you.
Su Ping said in "Love Yourself Well" that asking to enter someone else's country can be a form of violence. To reserve space for love is to reserve space for relationships.
Learning to keep is mutual, you can have your own little world, and you are also allowed to have your own black box, everyone has a past, and they all have secrets that they don't want others to know.
You can't talk to him and tell him, and you can't find out his secrets. When each other has a sense of mystery, the relationship has a flavor.
I once knew a friend who was mean and gossipy. Once you smell a hint of fragrance, you want to ask many people for clarification.
A pair of co-workers have a fight, and she wants to know the reason, her boyfriend's high school romance, and she wants to know the details. This casserole-style chat took his boyfriend out of breath.
Sure enough, the two broke up after talking for more than a year, and she had fewer friends.
Learn to make some space, not only for yourself, but also for others.
There is also a bottom line in chatting, and some women make this mistake, and they will also make this mistake when facing the boy they like. Whatever he asks, he will say yes without thinking;Whatever he asks, he will rack his brains to tell him what he knows.
Any kind of relationship, not only love, but also family affection, has a bottom line. Smart women know how to communicate their boundaries with each other when dealing with people so that others don't trample on them.
Emotionally, this kind of woman will first make an emotional agreement with her lover. As the saying goes, when you say ugly things in front of you, when you say them when you can't stand it, two people will not dare to chat because of scruples.
With treaty restrictions, it's more natural, because I know what you hate, and you know what I don't like.
Many women always have such a tragedy, obviously they have given their hearts to him, I will give him whatever he wants, I am so sincere, but he still lied to me.
They don't understand why this is happening, just like fish don't understand how land creatures survive without water.
But the reason is very simple, the more you can't refuse, the more you let the other party be unscrupulous, he thinks you have no bottom line, the more presumptuous he is, the more uncomfortable you won't be uncomfortable, he will treat your bottom line as a toy to challenge, and you will lose interest after playing.
The Law of Attraction states that our thoughts, feelings, words, and actions create energy, negative energy attracts more negative energy, and positive energy attracts more positive energy.