Once upon a time, three students went to Beijing to take the exam.
For the sake of the results, they found a top fortune teller.
The gentleman didn't speak, just held up a finger.
The first student thought, "Oops, not one. So, with sadness, he walked into the examination room, played abnormally and failed.
The second student thought, "Well, one can win." "He worked hard to be the guy he was in high school and made the list.
The third student thought, "Great, let's go to high school together." "He's confident, he's writing, he's on the list.
Obviously, what kind of mindset is what kind of life. Also in the examination room, some people cheered, and some sighed.
The same pensioners, some of them are in the red, some are doing well.
As the saying goes, "Life is created by the mind, and life is created by itself." ”
If you want to live a good life, you must first adjust your mentality, otherwise, no amount of pension will be in vain.
Contentment brings wealth.
There is a word called "complacency". For young people, once they are in such a state, they have no ambition and start eating their old money. It's a good thing for seniors to press the pause button and give themselves more freedom in life and no longer be stuck in their careers.
When you retire, you have to look like you're retired, and once you recognize the present in your heart, you can live in the present.
Wang Wei, a poet of the Tang Dynasty, became an official when he was young and was deeply favored by the princess.
During the Anshi Rebellion, Wang Wei was forced to become a subordinate of An Lushan.
After the Anshi Rebellion, he joined the rebel army. The younger brother Wang Jin gave up his official position and saved Wang Wei's life.
After tossing and turning for many years, Wang Wei felt tired, resigned voluntarily, and then went into seclusion.
The poem says: "After the new rain in the empty mountains, the end of autumn comes." "When we feel the beautiful scenery, we should look at it with a calm attitude, life enters autumn and everything is new.
He Yue's evaluation of Wang Wei in the "Yingling Collection" is: "The words are elegant, and the new principles are satisfied;."In the spring into a pearl, on the wall into a painting;Every word is different. ”
Yes, it is necessary to stay away from the strife in the workplace and start a mode of light luxury. You should have at least a little extravagance in your head.
No matter how good the scenery is, if you don't have a good mood to see it, it's not a real scenery.
I saw a message on the Internet about an old man going out and being hit by a young man who was rushing to work.
The young man was very frightened, afraid of being late, and afraid that the old man would make a mistake.
The old man said, "Don't worry, I have health insurance." ”
Many people like the elderly and are reasonable.
Actually, it's not a big deal, tolerate each other, think about it, everything is easy to handle.
Think of this moment as a happy moment, there is nothing sad. The pension may be a little less, the house is a little smaller, and the children are not very good, but the mentality is good, and the happiness continues.
Sloppy and impetuous, the blessing is far away.
You know, most of the disasters are not God, they are man-made disasters.
Old people with little pensions, when they hear that others have a lot of pensions, they are immediately upset and then verbally attack. The money is spent every day, but I am very unhappy and sulk at home.
Retired old people take care of their children, see their grandchildren being naughty, swearing, and even hands-on. The relationship between three generations will break down.
After retirement, when I went to the scenic spot, because of the crowds, I cut the queue and relied on the old;He complained and scolded the staff because the trash cans were not cleaned;If there is cow and sheep dung in the meadow, they are reluctant to walk.
Early in the morning, when you retire, you go out and find a lot of young people going to catch a car, and you go to catch it too. Crowded buses, making you uncomfortable and asking others to give up their seats, the quarrel begins.
Square dancing is too noisy, playing mahjong will lose money, and running will fall.
The above problems are the result of an imbalance in mentality, and there is also internal friction.
In the fifth dynasty, Feng Dao and He Ning went to the court and found that the shoes of the two were exactly the same.
He Ning asked, "How much did you spend to buy it?"”
Feng Dao raised his right foot: "Five hundred yuan." ”
He Ning was furious and lectured the servant: "Why did you spend a thousand yuan to buy shoes?."”
Feng Tao smiled, put down his right foot, raised his left foot, and said, "Listen to me, the shoes on your left foot will cost five hundred yuan." ”
He Ning froze, and the servant cried aggrievedly.
The scariest thing is that people don't like people and think they're bad.
All you see are bad people, you live in a really bad city, you can't have a day off.
Mindset is the "regulator" of old age.
To be a man, one thought is a Buddha, and one thought is a demon.
If there is more kindness, the Buddha will appear and he will have compassion himself.
How to punish evil and promote good?Retirees should go their own way.
One is to see the bright side and maintain a positive attitude.
Yan Yuyun, an old Shanghai socialite, lost her husband when she was young, and her family was in the middle.
She takes care of her family and children. Even when life was difficult, she played the piano and read books.
Anything bad can happen," she told friends and relatives. "This is the most insignificant. ”
Yes, in times of war and chaos, anything can happen, but it's good that the home is still there and the children can still grow.
Anything, a well-meaning person, will see a way out and be glad that the person is still alive.
Retirement, life is happy, can't think of it, even the past.
Second, calm down for three minutes, calm down.
Control your emotions for ten seconds, and your mindset will change, so why not?
When you get older, you have to learn to take it slow and not do it overnight.
Allow yourself to be bored a little better.