Teacher Yu Hua wrote in "Alive" that he once thought that old age was a distant thing, but suddenly found that it was a long time ago to be young, and time was useless, and it was half a life to raise his eyes.
The so-called midlife crisis, what really makes people anxious is not loneliness, not poverty, not aging, but in middle age you realize that you have never lived the way you like. All that is good and bad is bad. Don't blame others in the past, don't blame yourself in the past, we are all living for the first time, no one knows how life will become before living, you must stand in the world you love and shine. The darkest moment of life is also the time when the speed of progress is the fastest, Phoenix Nirvana does not break itself, there is no way to have a new self born from it. Finding a sense of meaning and finding the small details of growth is the accumulation of all the processes from quantitative to qualitative change. Please raise the children in your heart, don't keep trapping yourself in the same place and can't get out, a beautiful childhood ** for a lifetime, an unfortunate childhood for a lifetime **. Please learn the ability to make yourself happy at any time. Lost in the east, harvested mulberry elm, Mo Dao mulberry elm late, for the sun is still full of sky. Learning to grow oneself is the subject of life, don't pity others, once you have compassion in your heart, you will automatically bear whose fate you will bear. Those who know me say I'm worried, and those who don't know me say what I want
If the heart is sunny, there is no need to be sad, let the sunshine fill every corner, light up our life journey.