When it comes to marriage, I always think that "being willing to have a heart and not separating" is the best ending.
But the backbone of reality will always overwhelm the fullness of reason, even if you are married, no matter how good the relationship with your pillow partner is, you can't stop the inner restlessness after meeting your extramarital lover.
Finding a lover seems to be the norm.
However, no matter who you are with, you should enjoy love, and if the presence of the other person has become a burden in life, the pursuit outside of marriage becomes putting the cart before the horse.
Remember, when you're looking for a lover, there are three types of women you can't touch.
The woman who wants to marry you.
Most of the thoughts of men looking for lovers are "red flags fluttering at home and colorful flags fluttering outside", and wives and lovers can have both, and they are the most willing to see the results.
However, this unilateral idea is often unrealized, and some women are in a hurry to get married.
is like Ma Xiaoou in "Wife's Choice", secretly with the boss.
Gao Jia is just a lonely tool for Ma Xiaoou, and he will find time to accompany her after work, and a lot of time is spent on work and his wife. In order to maintain the emotional set of experts, Gao Jia also shows affection with his wife Sugar from time to time.
Ma Xiaoou couldn't stand the fact that his beloved man couldn't give him time, so he began to forcibly get married, and Gao Jia had no way to continue to balance the relationship between his wife and love, his life became chaotic, and his career collapsed.
The woman who wants to marry you is not willing to stay in the position of a lover forever and silently guard, she will have the desire to occupy the most important position around you, so when you are together, you will find ways to contain you, threaten you, and eventually make a mess of your life.
Second, a very talented and independent woman.
If a woman is talented, she is proud in her heart and eager to get more from you.
Moreover, such a woman will not blindly worship you, and when a cat is extremely obedient to you, it is more likely to control you, use wisdom against you, and cause trouble in your life to achieve its own ends.
Just like in "Settle Down", he is a well-known emotional writer who likes the rich and family Kan boss.
Boss Kan decided to buy a house for Zhizhi, but Mrs. Kan knew that Boss Kan was unwilling to divorce his wife, and finally chose to buy a house for Zhizhi and decided to break off the relationship.
He couldn't stand the fact that Boss Kan treated him like this, so he put the matter between Boss Kan and the Internet together in a cryptic way to threaten the other party.
Men think that looking for an extramarital lover is looking for a cat, but in fact they may be looking for a tiger.
The more talented and confident a woman is, the easier it is to dominate a relationship, knowing that what they want is not their relationship.
Instead of working with men, it is better to see men as a tool to satisfy their own emotional needs, maintain a romantic relationship with a woman who has strong opinions, you need men to have a higher subdivision, otherwise you will become a loser.
In fact, extramarital affairs are also a way of feeling, and the choice of partner also needs to be cautious.
Now that you have lost the right to love freely, there are a lot of restrictions on what you can do when you and your lover are outside of marriage, which means that having love is not an easy thing to do.
If you want both of you to be in love, you need to put more effort into screening.
However, as an emotional blogger and married woman, Dream itself does not advocate for men to find love outside of marriage, and whatever the reason, it will cause disappointment and harm to both women;In any case, you can't maintain two relationships at the same time.
In life, you can't have both and beyond, choose a wife, and give up the possibility of being with other women;
Choose a lover, let go of your wife, deal with your past feelings, and welcome a new life.