Every family wants to be rich, but the wealth is in **?
The saddest thing is that some families make a fortune, but when it comes to the children's generation, they quickly lose.
The ancients said: "Family affection is like a treasure;The black sheep, money is like grass. ”
Observation will understand what the family background is, depending on the child's appearance.
The appearance of children has a lot to do with "family".
There is a difference between a person's appearance, appearance, and spirit. A handsome appearance that can make a good first impression;A full spirit can bring a lasting temperament and also reflect a good upbringing.
As time passes, so does the truth.
In the Ming Dynasty, there were four major talents in Jiangnan: Wen Zhengming, Zhu Yunming, Tang Bohu, and Xu Zhenqing.
Wen Zhengming and Tang Bohu are still very good friends and childhood friendships, but their lives and careers are very different.
When he was a child, Wen Zhengming looked sluggish, and he couldn't speak at the age of seven. His mother died at an early age, and he had to live with his grandmother.
At the age of eleven, Wen Zhengming was already fluent in English and began to study in private schools.
When the father Wenlin saw his son's appearance, he did not feel sad, but said: "My son is lucky to be late, and it is harmless." "This means that the son is a late bloomer, and there is no harm.
When Wen Zhengming grew up, he did many scientific examinations, but he never entered the Jinshi.
Fortunately, Li Chongdi, the secretary of the Ministry of Industry, recommended Wen Zhengming and asked him to be the Hanlin Academy. The salary is not high, but the life is rising.
Look at Tang Bohu again, he has been handsome and smart since he was a child, and he can get the first place in every exam.
Wen Zhengming treated each other as a friend and persuaded Tang Bohu to live a low-key life;As an elder and teacher, Wenlin gently reminded Tang Bohu not to be too crazy.
In "Spring Breeze and Horseshoe Disease", Tang Bohu, who is thriving in life, was involved in the exam fraud case because he handed in the exam papers too quickly in the examination room, and because of jealousy and other reasons, he never had the opportunity to enter the examination room again, and his career was interrupted.
Subsequently, Tang Bohu's family changed, and the couple also fell apart, and they were depressed and sad for many years. Life also needs the help of friends, living in the Peach Blossom Spring, it seems dilapidated.
People commented on Tang Bohu like this: "Mo Nian got rid of a little arrogance and looked at things vulgarly. ”
Judging from the life trajectories of the above two celebrities, there are two differences in their appearance.
The first aspect: when they are young, a person looks sluggish and not very mentally good, but appears very honest;He's smart, he's smart, but he's crazy.
The second aspect: when they grow up, they make steady progress, although it is not smooth, but it is stable;A displaced person, looking everywhere for "poor joy", there are many tragedies.
In the process of growing up, the change in appearance is closely related to the change in life.
People are refreshed when they are happy, and they have more tears when they are suffering. Too much perception of the world and ideals of life are written on the face;Start with the heart.
The fate of a family depends on the appearance of its children.
Whether a family is prosperous or not is the result of the hard work of the parents, but whether everything can be sustainable or not is "decided" by the children.
A change in a child's appearance is essentially a change in the fate of the family. The difference in the appearance of the child is the beginning of family estrangement.
Combining physical appearance and psychological appearance, a family with a good family background has three kinds of children's appearance.
First, the appearance is clean and the habits are good.
People who love cleanliness develop hygiene habits from an early age, wash their faces frequently, and their parents pay attention to their words and deeds and urge them to be in place.
When we see that the child has a clean face and is well dressed, we are willing to approach. Anyone can open their hand, give a hug, give some candy or something.
The habit of loving cleanliness will let children know that they are thrifty and thrifty from an early age, classify things, and have more self-discipline.
Second, look confident, confident.
A person who is full of self-confidence and shows that there is a design for the future and that there is a high probability of realization.
The foundation of self-confidence is to read more, his ideals in life are fulfilling, and his family is very supportive of his ideals.
Liu Xiu, the first emperor of the Eastern Han Dynasty, went to Chang'an alone to study when he was young.
Although he was a member of the royal family, by his generation, he had taken a back seat and was well-dressed.
He saw a ** walking on the road, very handsome, he wrote: "* If you hug Jin Wu, marry a wife and be Yin Lihua." "Express your ideals.
For everything they have, the future of the family is in their hands, and it is not difficult to keep the wealth left by their parents and continue to make a fortune.
Third, the appearance is harmonious and cohesive.
Family harmony leads to prosperity. Signs of "harmony" are present from an early age, not suddenly when they grow up.
The relationship between siblings is very good from an early age, and the love of parents can also take care of all children, so there will be harmony in the family.
Those who have watched "Kong Rong Makes Pear Blossom" also train their children to be active and polite.
When parents are old, it's a great relief to see their children making money together. It's destined to get bigger and bigger.
Parents are a child's first teacher, and the family is a child's first school.
Parental body hair and **. The appearance of a child follows the appearance of the parents, which is difficult to change. What really needs to change is the mental outlook.
First of all, people in the church should also be good people with a little more compassion on their faces.
The Six Altars said: "All blessings are inseparable from the heart. "Sow beauty in your heart, pass on the idea of mutual assistance, one day, the network will be beautiful, and humanity will be sunny. Wealth is the reward of life.
Then, teach your children to read and improve their temperament.
Reading a lot, people seem energetic, and they can use cognition to make money, killing two stones with one stone.
Finally, teach children how to communicate, improve emotional intelligence, and value emotions.
Treat people with kindness at all times, and the network resources will not be annoying. In the future, children can make friends with their playmates and classmates, and form a situation where everyone collects firewood together.
Raising children is the process of planting in spring and harvesting in autumn, and parents have done it, which is 10,000 times better than leaving wealth directly to their children.
Understand that the child is the one who creates the inheritance, not the one who inherits it.
Understand that a good spirit is wealth.