Xiao Li and her boyfriend's relationship has always been very stable, and after 2 years of love, the two parties began to discuss marriage. However, his best friend's words made Xiao Li wonder.
At a party, my best friend looked at Xiao Li half-jokingly and said, "You are stupid, you are an honest person!".”
Xiao Li was stunned and asked suspiciously, "What's wrong?".What did I do wrong?”
The best friend sighed, and said with some hatred: "Look at it, are there fewer cases of letting your daughter-in-law leave the house empty-handed as soon as you quarrel?"If your name is not added to the real estate certificate, where will you live in case of divorce in the future?”
Xiao Li hesitated a little after hearing this. She and her boyfriend are about to get married, and the house has already been bought, but the real estate certificate is written in the name of the boyfriend himself. Originally, she thought it didn't matter, as long as the two loved each other, everything would be fine, but now after listening to her best friend's words, she began to worry a little. She remembered seeing a lot of stories on the news about divorces where some women were homeless because they didn't have their names on their property deeds. Thinking, thinking, she felt very uneasy.
Xiao Li was struggling in her heart, and she didn't know what to do all of a sudden. On the one hand, it is the relationship with your boyfriend, and on the other hand, it is the safety and security of the future. She begins to hesitate whether she should make this request to her boyfriend or should she believe in his love
In those days, Xiao Li became more and more anxious, and even began to have insomnia, thinking of a good solution all day long. She knows that this request may upset her boyfriend, but she also needs to think about her future. After going through countless struggles, Xiao Li finally made a choice.
Li decides to talk to her boyfriend and confess her worries and thoughts. After hearing this, my boyfriend said with some embarrassment: "Baby, the house was bought by my parents, and it was the full amount, so it's not appropriate to add your name now, right?"Otherwise, we'll add it after we get marriedSo that I brought it up, and my parents could accept it. ”
As soon as these words came out, Xiao Li's heart suddenly sank. She remembered her best friend's words: "Their family is just guarding against you!."Once you can't get by, won't you let the family delay your youth in vain?Thinking of this, Xiao Li's soft heart became firm again.
Nope!You have to add my name before you get married, otherwise I won't get married!Xiao Li said angrily to her boyfriend. The boyfriend's face was a little bad, and he hesitated: "Baby, the two of us really love each other, why do we have to add your name?."”
Xiao Li replied with a sneer: "You also know that we really love each other, since we really love each other, why don't you dare to add my name?"Your family is clearly guarding against me, so you don't really want to live with me for the rest of your life. When the boyfriend heard this, he looked at Xiao Li in surprise.
The boyfriend was obviously deeply touched by Xiao Li's words, he was silent for a long time, and then said helplessly: "Baby, you really disappointed me, I don't think you are the same person you used to be." ”
Xiao Li didn't want to quarrel, she said lightly: "I'm still myself, but I also have to think about myself." When will my name be added to the title deed, and when will we get married!After saying that, Xiao Li got up and left his house.
After 3 days, Xiao Li received a message from her boyfriend: "Baby, in fact, I really love you, but you insist on adding your name now, I really can't do it, because this house was bought by my parents, and my parents resolutely disagree, I really can't help it, I can only wish you happiness!."Our wedding is cancelled now, goodbye!”
Seeing this news, Xiao Li was anxious, she hurriedly called the voice **, and found that her boyfriend had blocked herself, she hurriedly called ** again, and found that ** was also blocked. Her heart was full of doubts and uneasiness, and she didn't know if she was doing right or wrong. But what she knows is that this relationship is irretrievable and has come to an end.
Xiao Li had mixed feelings in his heart, and he didn't know whether to regret or rejoice. She thought about it, her best friend's words were not all unreasonable, her ex-boyfriend's hesitation and dissatisfaction were not without reason, and her worries and uneasiness were not entirely groundless. She also understood a truth:No matter how beautiful love is, it cannot replace the ruthlessness and ruthlessness in reality. She must plan for her future and not pin her hopes on someone who is uncertain.