Introduction.
Recently, many parents are worried about their children's preparation for exams at home, which has aroused great attention and heated discussions from all walks of life. In these incidents, a mother yelled at her child online in a state of emotional discontrollability, threatening to break up with him if he continued to participate in the public service and had no work plans in the future. This incident has aroused strong repercussions among the majority of netizens on the Internet. In this society, parents are very concerned about the healthy development of their children and do not want them to continue to eat white rice at home. This mother's idea is also the idea of many parents, who want their children to come out of the comfort zone of the family to meet the trials and responsibilities of this world.
Profiling of the phenomenon. 1. Why do college students want to participate in the national public service?
In recent years, the national public examination has gradually been chosen by many college graduates. This choice is to seek a solid job, but also to adapt to the competition in society. However, some college students may just pretend to take the test, but in fact they are avoiding other responsibilities and challenges. They claim to be preparing for the national exam at home, but lack the motivation and behaviour to engage in the actual work. This makes parents both annoyed and helpless.
2. Effects and negative effects.
Taking public service examinations at home for a long time is not conducive to their adaptation to the new working environment, nor is it conducive to their healthy development and independence. A year or two, they can still accept it, but after a few years, how will they cope?This has been going on for a long time, and some people have been at home for several years without any results. This has led to many suspicions and criticisms, who point out that this is a waste of social resources and hinders the development of individuals. Parents should raise awareness of this situation and properly guide and educate their children.
3. Parental care and support.
When a child decides to attend a national conference at home, parents often have a feeling of powerlessness and overwhelm. They are afraid that their children will lose the opportunity to interact and develop in society, and they hope that their children will learn to be self-reliant as soon as possible and strive for their own future. This is the thinking of many parents, who don't want their sons to waste time at home, and hope that they can step out of their comfort zone and take on new challenges.
How parents should guide their children.
1. Observe children's words and deeds.
When children attend public school, parents should be mindful of their avoidance behavior. If children are immersed in games for a long time and neglect to study and take exams, then parents should do a good job of communicating with them to devote themselves to the exams.
2. Pay attention to children's emotions and future plans.
When students are depressed, unmotivated, and have no plans for the future during the exam process, parents need to communicate with them, understand their inner thoughts, and provide the help and guidance they need.
3. Help children develop good behavior habits and establish their own ideals.
Parents should help children establish a correct purpose and plan for life, and urge them to implement it, so as to cultivate their correct understanding of their studies and correct behavior.
4. Guide children to realize the importance of autonomy and responsibility.
If children are too dependent on their parents and are unable to be autonomous, parents should strengthen education so that they can understand the meaning of autonomy and responsibility, and be able to bravely meet new challenges in their future lives.
Through the above observation and care, parents can more clearly understand the true mentality of their children when participating in the public service, so that they will not miss the opportunity for growth and development because of avoidance. Through effective communication with children, the formation of their internal motivation is promoted, which is conducive to cultivating their optimistic attitude towards life.
Brief summary. In general, taking the civil service examination at home for a long time does not allow them to truly adapt to social work, which will be detrimental to the healthy and independent development of children. Parents should maintain a high degree of vigilance in this regard, pay attention to children's words and deeds, mental conditions, etc., give timely counseling, and cultivate children's good learning and living habits. In addition, parents should educate their children that they are capable of bearing the difficulties of life. Parents and children work hand in hand to make them independent and responsible individuals.
Innovative thinking. As a parent, I have also had the experience of having children prepare for exams at home for a long time. I want my children to have a right plan for their careers, and I don't want them to live comfortably at home. So, I talk to them, know what they are thinking, and then help them set a clear goal and push them to achieve it. In doing so, I hope that students will have the courage to take on their own obligations. Under my careful guidance, the children gradually realized their sense of responsibility and autonomy, and planned for their future and took the initiative to take action. I believe that parents, together with children, can make them responsible people.
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