The boy complained that his mother forced him to take the civil service exam, just to show off, regardless of his body!
Controversy over children's participation in public ***.
Recently, a boy vented his dissatisfaction with his mother on the Internet, claiming that he had a cold, but was forced by his mother to attend the national public office the next day, and this attitude sparked widespread discussion and controversy. A lot of people are thinking about it, and today's children think about problems in such a peculiar way that they seem to be more focused on self-expression. The boy said"It wasn't the state exams that beat me, it was my mom. She wanted me to take the civil service exam, not for me, but for her, so that she could show off, no matter what my body was. "However, judging from the content of the screenshot, it is obvious that during the national examination, the boy had a severe cold, a high fever, and chest pain. He was hung up with liquid for **, just in time for the day before the national exam. His mother wanted him to take the test anyway. The boy argued that he was very unwell, that he was not in good health, and that he did not want to take the national examination the next day. He found a reason he couldn't refuse:"The body really can't"。From this conversation, the little boy was very dissatisfied with his mother's approach, believing that his mother was forcing him to take the national exam, and did not care about his physical condition in the slightest.
Mom's worries and children's misunderstandings.
However, judging from the content of the screenshots, the mother is not worried about her health or showing off as the boy said. These are the boy's assumptions and explanations. The mother may think that the boy just has a cold, although it is more serious, but it has been instilled **, and it will generally be fine the next day, so if you can hold on for a while, you should be able to take the test. After all, the public *** only happens once a year, and if you miss this day, you have to wait another year. However, the boys misunderstood what their mother meant, thinking that she didn't care about his life or death and was forcing him to take the test, so they got angry. The boy's remarks caused an uncomfortable reaction from many parents online. Many questioned whether the boy was using a cold to excuse himself for not being ready to take the national exam. People who are a little bit bloody will take the test on time. Parents want their children to live a happy life, and participating in the public service is one of the ways to achieve this wish. They will rejoice in their child's accomplishments, not to show them off. As a father of two, I would also encourage my children to take the test if they were in a similar situation. After all, it's a valuable opportunity, and taking the exam is an attitude in itself, regardless of the outcome. Giving up outright can cast doubt on a child's determination and ability to cope.
Understand the parents, understand the children.
I think that all parents are altruistic, and they let their children overcome the difficulties of applying for the exam, so that their children can have a stable job. As for showing off or not, that's just off topic, they have to have enough capital to do it. So, what should we make of this?Everyone's position and perspective are different, and we need to understand both parents and children. In the face of such a situation, it makes no sense for us to say anything. It is the children's own responsibility to follow the path, and parents can only give love and support. For better or worse, parents worry about their children. We must encourage children to think independently and make their own choices, but we must also give them guidance and advice when necessary. Most importantly, we must give our children enough room to grow and develop, so that they can learn to make their own decisions and take responsibility. This is the direction in which every family member works together, and it is also the path of every child's life.
Summary. Through this incident, we can see that conflicts and contradictions between parents and children are inevitable nowadays. Both sides want the other to understand their positions and feelings, but there is often a lack of effective communication and understanding. Parents work hard for their children's future, and they want their children to have a stable job, and they are proud and honored to do soChildren, on the other hand, are more focused on their own feelings and desires, and expect more freedom and choice. In this case, both sides need to be more understanding and tolerant of each other, and find a balance between each other through communication and exchange. Only in this way can a good family relationship be established and jointly promote the growth and development of children.
As members of modern society, we must also reflect on and pay attention to these issues, strive to promote and disseminate positive and healthy values, and make efforts for the harmonious development of parent-child relations. We hope that every family can establish a good atmosphere of mutual respect and understanding, and provide a healthy and happy environment for children to grow up. Only in this way can our society be more harmonious, stable and prosperous.