Ying Qin is a person who owns a property and a vehicle in a first-tier city, and he works for a large company, and his main occupation is a programmer. He earns more than $10,000 a month, has no family financial pressure, and is a very honest and affordable man.
In the work "Ode to Joy", if men like Lao Tan and Bao Yifan are far from the lives of ordinary people, then I think men like Ying Qin are actually very close to the lives of ordinary people.
Because in our daily life, it is relatively common for financially suitable men like Ying to attend.
Judging from the actual situation, he did not make ordinary girls feel out of reach like Lao Tan and Bao Yifan, and at the same time, he did not have a lot of scheming like Wang Baichuan, especially very smart and calculating.
Despite the fact that he is a very intelligent person, his personality appears to be very honest, even with a hint of silly cuteness. He excelled from an early age, successfully got into university, and his expertise and skills are very solid, which allows him to work well in the company.
This kind of person may not be particularly outstanding, but for an average girl, they are a great companion and highly sought after in the wedding market.
In the TV series "Ode to Joy", Qiu Yingying encountered an irresponsible man in her first relationship, which caused her to be physically damaged, but in her second relationship, she met an excellent partner like Ying Qin.
For a young woman like Qiu Yingying, such good fortune is really valuable. Although Qiu Yingying may not be outstanding in appearance, and her personality has a little naivety and sensitivity to love, she did suffer a lot of losses in her first relationship, but this did not affect her love wisdom in her second relationship.
However, Qiu Yingying fell too hard in her first relationship, so when she met Ying Qin for the second time, she gradually learned how to treat him better, how to better protect herself, and how to show that subtle sense of proportion when getting along with men.
Although she performs quite well in the early stages of the game, in the late game, Ying Qin becomes dissatisfied with her because she is not **. When she decided to break up with Yingqin, she quickly turned into a love thinker, did many things that hurt her family and friends, and lost her self-esteem in the relationship.
The fate behind the bacon rice.
Ying Qin and Qiu Yingying first met in the coffee shop where Qiu Yingying worked, Qiu Yingying was engaged in coffee sales, and Ying Qin was the person who bought coffee.
Initially, Qiu Yingying and his father were just a pair of ordinary business partners, but unexpectedly, Qiu Yingying's father sent many hometown specialties from his hometown, such as bacon and sausages, which had a strong taste.
When he bought the coffee, he noticed the unique taste. After talking to Qiu Yingying, they realized that Qiu Yingying was a fellow countryman. Qiu Yingying was very enthusiastic and proposed to give her a piece of meat if she was a fellow countryman. But Ying Qin rejected her proposal because he was neither good at making nor convenient, so he didn't have time to do it.
Ying Qin wanted to order on the grounds that it was inconvenient to go out in the future, so he added Qiu Yingying's WeChat.
Since then, Ying Qin began to send messages to Qiu Yingying frequently, and in this way, their love story quietly began.
One night, Ying Qin told Qiu Yingying that he had a cold, so Qiu Yingying specially prepared bacon rice and cold spirit for Ying Qin as gifts in the middle of the night.
It was the bacon rice made by Qiu Yingying that made Ying Qin firm in his determination to pursue this girl. Qiu Yingying's bacon rice tastes excellent, and both of them are fellow countrymen, so the taste is similar and it is relatively simple to get along. Qiu Yingying's preparation of bacon rice is undoubtedly a virtuous and virtuous act for the attendee, and he believes that those girls who can serve him bacon rice in the middle of the night will definitely become a competent wife in the future.
Therefore, Yingqin often invited Qiu Yingying to dine out with him and took her to the shopping mall. Although his original intention was to buy a gift for Qiu Yingying, he actually wanted to give it to a girl he loved deeply, who had a similar personality to Qiu Yingying.
In fact, Qiu Yingying saw through Ying Qin's scheming very early, but this time she became smarter and didn't show the initiative too quickly, they gradually got along and gradually liked each other, and the two tacitly agreed.
However, this sweet moment did not last long.
Deep affection for **.
In the process of interacting with Qiu Yingying, Ying Qin may have hoped that their relationship could be closer and that he would have a deeper understanding of Qiu Yingying. As a result, he asked Qiu Yingying many personal questions, including whether she was **.
When asked about this, Qiu Yingying felt extreme heartache. She firmly believes that Ying Qin is the person who truly loves her and will not dislike her in any way. Therefore, she unreservedly confessed everything to herself, including everything about her ex.
In the end, Ying Qin suggested breaking up, because Qiu Yingying was not **.
This news made Qiu Yingying, who loves Ying Diligent deeply, feel extremely heartache.
She went through a lot of difficulties in her first relationship, and in her second relationship, she finally met a good man, but due to the mistake of the first time, the second relationship became unsatisfactory, which made her feel deep self-reproach and pain.
She tried her best to persuade Ying Qin to stay, and although Ying Qin said a lot of good things, she never seemed to really love her, and that decisive emotion disappeared from her sight.
Qiu Yingying can't bear to experience the loss of love again, she cherishes this relationship and is always cautious. She was not satisfied and was reluctant to let go, so she quietly followed Ying Qin, immersed in emotions day after day. In order to find attendance, she even went to Qu Xiaoxuan, hoping that Qu Xiaoxuan could teach her how to successfully follow attendance, no matter what means she used.
After Qu Xiaoxuan learned about Qiu Yingying's condition, she didn't want her to continue to pester herself, so she came up with a strategy to deceive Qiu Yingying. Although Qu Xiaoxuan has many ways to deal with men, she is not the same kind of person as Qiu Yingying, so her strategy is not applicable to Qiu Yingying, so she can only appease Qiu Yingying in this way.
Initially, Qu Xiaoxuan hoped that Qiu Yingying would be able to shift her focus and gradually forget, but she did not expect that Qiu Yingying would not forget to be on duty, on the contrary, her love thinking became more complicated.
From the moment Ying Qin broke up with Qiu Yingying, the coldness and calmness he showed were enough to prove that he had never truly loved Qiu Yingying. In his heart, those days spent with her were not so precious.
Later, Qiu Yingying ended their relationship with Ying Qin, and because it was inconvenient to take Ying Qin's car home for the Spring Festival, she ran to the train station alone at night to buy a ticket, and unfortunately, she fainted at the train station alone. Her parents, both of whom were working out of town, could not afford to take care of the daughter, so they rushed her to the hospital. Qiu Yingying was seriously ill, and she always thought about Ying Qin in her heart, and everyone couldn't bear to see Qiu Yingying suffering so much, so they called Ying Qin.
Their initial plan was to hope that Ying Qin and Qiu Yingying would reconnect, but Ying Qin only read books outside the living room all night and left early in the morning.
Later, Ying Qin spent a lot of money to buy a train ticket from a scalper and asked Fan Shengmei to transfer it to Qiu Yingying. In order to have a clearer relationship with Qiu Yingying, she would rather buy a scalper ticket with ** than use Qiu Yingying's car to go home. When Qiu Yingying saw the hard-won train ticket, she realized that Ying Qin had really decided to cut ties with her completely, which made her feel very sad.
My fiancée was just too much trouble.
In fact, at this stage, Qiu Yingying still has a glimmer of hope, because she has a deep love for the service. She hopes to get Ying Qin back and follows him every day, but is eventually discovered and rejected even more coldly.
Although this is the case, Qiu Yingying still couldn't suppress her longing for attendance, until one day, she found a message posted on Yingqin's Weibo on her mobile phone:
The girlfriend insisted on putting her name on the title deed, but this was not accepted, whether there was an additional fee to be added, and the exact amount of the fee. The girlfriend said that she was single, had no regular job, no stable income, and no stable relationship. (Note: Refers to a female partner who is officially in a relationship and has recently been officially registered for marriage.) ）
He is about to enter the palace of marriage, so soon, he is really about to enter the palace of marriage. All efforts have been to no avail. "He didn't know he was a**?He didn't understand. Qiu Yingying couldn't cry and rushed into Fan Shengmei's arms.
Until that moment, Qiu Yingying's mood was a little heavy, and her heart was full of sadness. Under the care and comfort of Fan Shengmei and Guan Juer, Qiu Yingying, who was originally in a heavy mood, gradually walked out of the shadow of broken love, and she decided to delete all the content of Ying Qin, no longer follow his Weibo, and delete all his things in her daily life.
Although Qiu Yingying may not have cared much about attendance during this period, she still longed for attendance deep down. This is understandable, as having just experienced a breakup, it takes a while to gradually forget. Life should have been so peaceful, but Qiu Yingying will eventually gradually forget about Ying Qin in the passage of time.
Ying Qin took the initiative to find Qiu Yingying, not to get back together, but to simply express his dissatisfaction.
Unexpectedly, Ying Qin later took the initiative to have a relationship with Qiu Yingying. One day, Ying Qin appeared near Qiu Yingying's place of work, hoping to meet and talk to her. Qiu Yingying was already in a heavy mood and had not completely come out of the shadow of broken love, but when she saw Ying Qin taking the initiative to come to her, she was very happy, and mistakenly thought that Ying Qin wanted to reconcile with her.
However, when he arrives there, he realizes that Ying Qin has no such intentions, he just expresses his dissatisfaction with life, his dissatisfaction with his fiancée, and complaints about the unpleasantness of his current life.
Qiu Yingying was regarded as the object of Ying Qin's emotions, but Ying Qin thought that it was just a complaint from an ordinary friend, and he just wanted someone to talk to.
If I were Qiu Yingying, I would never tolerate such behavior, because no matter what, Ying Qin already has a fiancée. Although he has been complaining that his fiancée asks for too much, including a house and money, he also has to help her seven aunts and eight aunts in her hometown find jobs in big cities.
Ying Qin's residence was crowded with many relatives who had nothing to do with him, which made Ying Qin feel helpless and dissatisfied. Despite this, he did not propose to break up, but turned his head to confide in his ex-girlfriend about his grievances, believing that such an act lacked manliness and responsibility, and also had a negative impact on Qiu Yingying's reputation.
Since Ying Qin and his fiancée usually work at night and during the day, and the two have been in a relationship before, Ying Qin's fiancée gradually becomes suspicious when she sees that Ying Qin always comes home late.
In fact, Guan Juer has learned that Qiu Yingying has recently gone out on a date with Ying Qin, and Ying Qin has not yet broken off relations with his fiancée. She had advised Qiu Yingying not to do so, because such behavior could eventually lead to problems no matter what.
Although Qiu Yingying didn't want to hear Ying Qin's words, when Ying Qin came to her, her mood had become very happy. Although they didn't want to get back together, Qiu Yingying was able to accompany Ying Qin like this, and from the bottom of his heart, she also felt extremely happy, because her love was so deep that it was almost impossible to save.
Unfortunately, it did happen later. Ying Qin's fiancée found out that Ying Qin was single when she dated Qiu Yingying at night, which will undoubtedly cause misunderstanding. Therefore, Ying Qin and Qiu Yingying were later beaten by Ying Qin's fiancée in the hotel, and both were sent to the hospital.
Even in the hospital, Qiu Yingying's injuries were already quite serious, and her first reaction was still to miss the attendance. During this time, neither Ying Qin nor his family greeted her, which made Ying Qin's family even more disgusted with her. Ying Qin's mother even said that their family would not accept a girl like Qiu Yingying.
Obviously, deep in Ying Qin's heart, Qiu Yingying does not occupy a place.
But after that, why did Ying Qin choose Qiu Yingying as his wife?
Qiu Yingying's situation is not complicated.
Later, Ying Qin decided to marry Qiu Yingying, not because he found out his deep affection for her, but because he felt that Qiu Yingying would not cause him trouble, not only simple, but she was also willing to use all possible resources to help him.
Qiu Yingying is simple-minded and has no reservations about him, and she does not ask for real estate, vehicles or various other conditions like her fiancée brought back from her hometown, so she often gets into trouble. But when Qiu Yingying is with him, she will take care of herself wholeheartedly and will not harm any of her interests.
Although Qiu Yingying was unwell, her heart was always worried about attendance. She was not at ease with her injuries, so she asked Fan Shengmei to visit her. However, Ying Qin never really cared about Qiu Yingying, and Ying's parents were quite cold towards Qiu Yingying.
Later, Ying Qin was taken to the hospital by his fiancée's family, who wanted a reasonable explanation. Although Qiu Yingying is a third party in their eyes, their purpose is to get justice for themselves. The biggest mistake in this matter was the responsibility that Ying Qin assumed, so in order to vent her emotions, the woman chose to go to the hospital to find Ying Qin.
Qiu Yingying's friends secretly transferred her to another hospital after learning the news. There, Qiu Yingying was anesthetized and unconscious. When she woke up, she realized that she had been taken to the hospital. Upon learning of this, she expressed her displeasure with her friend because he did not help her.
Surprisingly, because Ying Qin was not friendly to her, they were not obligated to help Ying Qin. Qiu Yingying took the opportunity to quietly return to the hospital where Ying was located, and found a note left by Ying's mother there, which read: "Yingying, save me." ”
Qiu Yingying became very nervous after seeing the note, and she asked all the sisters on the 22nd floor to help her rescue Ying Qin, and although she cried a lot, she finally decided to save Ying Qin.
In fact, the note was left to her by Ying's mother, and she was not optimistic about Qiu Yingying, but she took advantage of Qiu Yingying's affection for Ying Qin to save her.
Despite Qiu Yingying's great efforts in the hope that her friends could rescue Ying Qin, the sisters on the 22nd floor thought that Ying Qin would admit their mistake, but Ying Qin and his family simply said thank you.
Ying Qin did not apologize to Qiu Yingying, he was only deeply grateful to her. If he doesn't admit his mistake, it means that there is no place for her in his heart, and real gratitude is just a polite expression.
Although everyone saw through Ying Qin's true face, Qiu Yingying did not do so. She felt that Ying Qin should be grateful to her, and that their relationship was still a possibility. To make matters worse, Qiu Yingying also made her parents negotiate with the Ying family with a humble attitude, losing their dignity and hoping that the Ying family would accept her.
Qiu Yingying's parents are undoubtedly the ones who love her deeply. Since her daughter had the idea of getting married, they could only humbly negotiate with the Ying family. In the end, Qiu Yingying successfully married Ying Qin, but she did not get any bride price, lost her dignity, and even before marriage, the Ying family pretended to be an intermediary and kicked Qiu Yingying and her family out of Ying Qin's residence.
Qiu Yingying had to return to the Ode to Joy community and live with her mother in the living room and lay the floor. However, in order to save money, her father chose to spend the night in the hallway on the 22nd floor. Early the next morning, he went to pick up and discharge from the hospital, and finally put down his dignity and face to successfully complete the marriage.
The reason why Ying Qin agreed to this marriage was not because he was finally moved by Qiu Yingying's sincere feelings, nor because of Qiu's father's mediation, nor because he found out that the person he really liked was Qiu Yingying.
After experiencing this incident, Ying Qin paid more attention to face, and at the same time, Qiu Yingying did not have any trouble. When he was with Qiu Yingying, he felt more comfortable than with the girl he brought back from his hometown, because Qiu Yingying would not harm his personal interests.
Qiu Yingying does not plan to add any name to the title deed, she does not ask for a car, she does not ask for too much dowry, and she does not have any relatives to interfere with her daily life. Instead, Qiu Yingying will use all her resources to protect his rights and interests.
Therefore, after carefully weighing various factors, Ying Qin finally agreed to marry Qiu Yingying. Ying Qin's mother asks Qiu Yingying to cut ties with the Ode to Joy sisters before marriage, while Ying Qin wants Qiu Yingying to give up her job after marriage and take care of his daily life wholeheartedly.
As a result, Qiu Yingying lost her dignity and chose to marry Ying Qin. After getting married, she had neither friends nor a job, and her life was almost closely linked to attendance. She hopes that Qiu Yingying's life can be so confused and deeply in love with Ying Qin, because this may make her future life even better.