Some fans asked the uncle, what is the key to a happy marriage?This question is not easy to answer because everyone has a different definition and standard of happiness. For example, some girls tend to materialize happiness, believing that material comforts such as having a spacious house, a luxurious car, and an expensive bag are happiness. But there are also girls who believe that material things are not the most important, the important thing is to be able to be truly cared for and loved, and be treated as a person with feelings.
In the uncle's view, happiness is actually an inner feeling, and only if you think you are happy, that is true happiness. If you pin your happiness on the evaluations and opinions of others, then you will never be able to achieve true happiness. Most people are dissatisfied with their lives, often because they measure their happiness by other people's standards.
The key to marital happiness is that marriage can bring you a sense of inner comfort. To put it simply, you feel relaxed and happy at home, without any stress and constraints. You can do what you love without worrying about whether you will be criticized or blamed. You won't even have the idea of running away from this home.
In your little world, you will feel happy and free. You can be honest about your thoughts and feelings, and even if your opinions are not necessarily correct, there will be people who will listen and understand you. You don't have to worry about your ideas being dismissed or sparking arguments. You will think of the family as a place that embraces differences and respects differences.
In the end, you will feel very safe and secure in this small family. You don't have to worry about the sudden collapse or dissolution of this home one day. You also don't have to worry about your partner suddenly leaving you, taking all your possessions and running away with someone else. You will always believe that no matter what difficulties or challenges come your way, the family will be strong and will grow old together.
Of course, this is only the uncle's personal standard for judging whether the marriage is happy, and for the uncle personally, it is enough for the marriage to meet these three points. As long as these three feelings can be brought about in the marriage, the uncle will think that the marriage is happy.
In the uncle's view, the key to marital happiness is to find the right person, find someone who wants to be happy in marriage like you, otherwise no matter how much you want happiness, it will be impossible to achieve.
At the end of the article, the uncle wishes all those who desire a happy marriage to find the right person and have a happy marriage. May all husbands and wives be able to love each other until they grow old, and wish to be winged birds in heaven and branches in the earth. Of course, the article is purely personal and is for informational purposes only.